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Can a man be a slut?

To answer my own question from the OP, as there hasn't actually been any specific responses to the core of it:

I knew a dude at about 20 years of age, we went to school together. He was a solid football player, athletic in that sense. I never played football but we used to train the athletic component together.

He worked out, was in what you would say is decent shape, and was a little tanned.

He looked okay. I remember a time when he was conservative, like I saw him flirting with this girl one time in a nightclub and she grinded up into him, but he didn't really pull the trigger.

Then a few months later we'd knock into each other in another nightclub.

The dude literally had girls throwing themselves at him and he was smashing them left and right, it's like he had potential, then got over a line of some kind and started killing it.

Later he settled down with one regular girl, he seemed to use the skills he had acquired to pay dividends in an actual relationship.
The girl he was dating loved that slutty style thing he had going on, she loved that he was appealing to other girls as well in the raw sexual sense.

Don't know what became of him later but I suspect that was like his slutty phase, probably had a run of about 12 to 18 months, then he moved onto to another phase of life.
 
Catecholamine Cowboy said:
Another definition could be........ hot?

Slutty women are hot to me.

I would even say they're the very definition of hot.

But it takes a good amount of work and dedication to achieve and maintain slutty status.

Some women who try and fail end up being the opposite, tacky, cheap, predictable, and unappealing.

Got to keep their ass in shape, stomach firm, hair well groomed, outfit well selected and appropriately suggestive.

And more than anything it's the attitude.

Some women try for the slutty attitude and end up being toxic.

Men who try and become slutty may either go the effeminate route, or the bad boy route, and the latter is a disaster.

Hottest slutty women have the face of an angel, attitude of innocence, but ultra suggestive, sexualized, and do insanely hot things sexually like it's nothing to them.
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You sound like your living in a fantasy world mate
"Slutty women have the face of an angel"
How do you know they are a slut ,do you just see an an attractive women and assume she is a slut
From what you've posted on your fabulous sex life its probably better with your knowledge and experience if you answer your own question
 
Catecholamine Cowboy said:
To answer my own question from the OP, as there hasn't actually been any specific responses to the core of it:

I knew a dude at about 20 years of age, we went to school together. He was a solid football player, athletic in that sense. I never played football but we used to train the athletic component together.

He worked out, was in what you would say is decent shape, and was a little tanned.

He looked okay. I remember a time when he was conservative, like I saw him flirting with this girl one time in a nightclub and she grinded up into him, but he didn't really pull the trigger.

Then a few months later we'd knock into each other in another nightclub.

The dude literally had girls throwing themselves at him and he was smashing them left and right, it's like he had potential, then got over a line of some kind and started killing it.

Later he settled down with one regular girl, he seemed to use the skills he had acquired to pay dividends in an actual relationship.
The girl he was dating loved that slutty style thing he had going on, she loved that he was appealing to other girls as well in the raw sexual sense.

Don't know what became of him later but I suspect that was like his slutty phase, probably had a run of about 12 to 18 months, then he moved onto to another phase of life.
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Most single men will be sluts if given the opportunity

But you are elaborating and philosophizing all of this way too much. It’s really not that deep bro.


Most men are born with a desire to put it in something. Theyll put it in anything they can get it in. Then eventually they end up putting it in something that they wanna keep putting it in that they don’t want anyone else but them gettin in so then they’ll lay down a claim and set up camp.
 
SinfulbyNature said:
Most single men will be sluts if given the opportunity

But you are elaborating and philosophizing all of this way too much. It’s really not that deep bro.


Most men are born with a desire to put it in something. Theyll put it in anything they can get it in. Then eventually they end up putting it in something that they wanna keep putting it in that they don’t want anyone else but them gettin in so then they’ll lay down a claim and set up camp.
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Men are no different from women ,if you are handsome then you could pull a partner every weekend ,my friend use to constantly, used to just get dumped on my own cos he would disappear, he did get our other mates sister pregnant and picked up more than 1 std so I guess he was a male slut but takes 2 to tango
 
I would describe every member of that great American Sitcom set in Central Perk as sluts
But it's fine on daytime TV cos that's what real life is like ,never ending partners and so much relationship choices
 
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