christina.amaretta
Greenlighter
My boyfriend is prescribed oxycodone 30mg, he takes 3 a day out of the 4 prescribed.
We just started dating and the side effects for him are ruining what could be a wonderful relationship..
Not only does he have "oxy rage" and snaps at me over every little thing, he can't perform in bed even when he wants to (which isn't often). He can get hard, but if we switch from bj to sex, he loses it and goes limp. If we change position he loses it. I can get him close to getting off if I blow him long enough, but if he gets close and loses it he can't get it back and then ends up frustrated and very angry to the point of throwing things and yelling. I don't like aggresive behavior like that because I was in a verbally abusive relationship for years...
We've been together for 2 weeks and all we do is argue because he's always very on edge and has a short fuse.
I take the same amount of prescribed drug, along with xanax and methadone and I have a heightened libido but have to work a little harder to reach orgasm. But I can if I work at it and remain calm.
Can anyone give me some advice on how to approach the situation because everything I say just sets him off.
I don't know what to do, and I don't want to give up on him but I can't live with the arguing and the lack of physical affection and sex.


We just started dating and the side effects for him are ruining what could be a wonderful relationship..
Not only does he have "oxy rage" and snaps at me over every little thing, he can't perform in bed even when he wants to (which isn't often). He can get hard, but if we switch from bj to sex, he loses it and goes limp. If we change position he loses it. I can get him close to getting off if I blow him long enough, but if he gets close and loses it he can't get it back and then ends up frustrated and very angry to the point of throwing things and yelling. I don't like aggresive behavior like that because I was in a verbally abusive relationship for years...
We've been together for 2 weeks and all we do is argue because he's always very on edge and has a short fuse.
I take the same amount of prescribed drug, along with xanax and methadone and I have a heightened libido but have to work a little harder to reach orgasm. But I can if I work at it and remain calm.
Can anyone give me some advice on how to approach the situation because everything I say just sets him off.
I don't know what to do, and I don't want to give up on him but I can't live with the arguing and the lack of physical affection and sex.


