Hi ugly,
If you are getting a 4chan vibe from Bluelight, it's probably because you've been spending some time in the Lounge, where many regulars are familiar with or active on 4chan. Perhaps you might enjoy the more 'serious' social forums such as Second Opinion? The Lounge can get a little bit ribby and rude from time to time, but I would say the majority of posters aren't trying to be mean and the mods do a very good job in there keeping the real crapola out without crossing into censorship.
Yes, absolutely, there is law enforcement (LE) that surfs Bluelight just as with other forums where people talk about drugs. Hypothetically speaking, it may not be the best idea to write about that fat sack of whatever you just scored or similar.
More or less, if you're not using the site to deal, find hookups/sources, or if like many Bluelighters you are sober from everything that is not legal, you'll find a lot of knowledgeable people and maybe even a few friends here that you will have for a lifetime.
Don't egg on the bullies and take things into context. That Lounge regular who just called you a bitch might have done so affectionately

Such behavior wouldn't be tolerated in other parts of Bluelight.
I hope your BL experience is a positive one. There are loads of BLers in California (check the "Roll Call" thread) with whom you'd probably have some common ground, be it musical taste, favorite (legal) hobbies, and much, much more.
I am retired staff - it may be best to consult with an existing staff member you trust to get a better idea of the "Bluelight Experience" - which I have found, is exactly what you make of it.
