Bluelight Singles thread "Living without justification" Part 2

[gher]

Well Kat, it is new year's eve so who knows what might happen...

...now if only Lisa wasn't working tonight.

 

[Rubber_Duck]

Bumpity Bump

Im living single with no justification as to why I cant pick up new girls, why are they all from the same social networks.

Been thinking seriously about it, especially after the new years weekend. I have girls in my social networks who are like my little groupies, we have all dated each other and been with all there friends and then there friends.

All my relationships have been through school, uni, and work…..

I feel that the reason why im not in a relationship, is for the very reason im searching for someone special on a random occasion with no connotations with any of my social networks.

I guess im the sort of person that blossoms with anyone who gets to know me, and im might be perceived to be a snob at first……

*sigh*…..bring on the randoms

 

[up all night]

why are they all from the same social networks.

Aren't you from Perth? Case closed.

Still here and really happy, surprisingly. Plus, without someone going, 'c'mon babe lets ditch work today' I've been actually going to work and have been given a pretty nice promotion.

Up and up I tells ya.

 

[TReNDY]

Anyway, I'm still here. I just need to get laid, and soon

Ditttooooooooooo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Im happily single but theres only so long I can keep myself distracted from sex ! (about 3 seconds but then I convince myself that I DONT need it...... pfft... who am I kidding!)

 

[Doppelganger]

I'm single, fuckless and horny.

Happy about the single. Unsure about the fuckless. Frustrated about the horny.

 

[sydkiwi]

Home, single, drinking and yeah. Over it all!

 

[Mary Poppins]

Single. Perhaps forever?

I hate thinking so negatively...but really....what is suggesting to me otherwise?

 

[breakyaself]

^^ The fact that you absolutely beautiful, intelligent and fun to be around ?!!?!? If some guy wants to pass up on that, being you, they are crazy !

 

[Mary Poppins]

ooooh....you rule!

my new crush is breakyaself!!!!

but seriously, thank-you....and i didn't mean to sound so horribly morbid, but i've just come back from a dinner/drinks night with my number one unrequited love...an occasion that lends itself to these kind of reflections

being eternally single wouldn't be the ultimate death sentence....sure, not what i'd really had planned, but not the end of the world

 

[katmeow]

I feel that the reason why im not in a relationship, is for the very reason im searching for someone special on a random occasion with no connotations with any of my social networks.

I guess im the sort of person that blossoms with anyone who gets to know me, and im might be perceived to be a snob at first……

*sigh*…..bring on the randoms

I think my lack of confidence may be perceived as standoffishness/snobishness by people who don't know me. But, in any event, as much as I try to find randoms, it just doesn't do it for me. It normally takes me awhile to realise I'm attracted to someone, so the short period of time you spend with someone at a club or whatever isn't enough for me to work out if I'm interested. Actually, I find the older I get, the less I even want to hook up with randoms because just the way someone looks is not enough for me to want to approach them. So I'll just stick to my tried and tested method of falling for friends, which historically has had some less than spectacular results, but a few major winners in there too


Anyway, MP... I'm in it for the long haul with you m'dear.

Some people in the world are relationship types... I don't think I'm one of them...

 

[FaTz]

^^^I don't think that's true kat... Obviously it's just a guy that you would completly mesh with hasn't been found yet... But I'm SURE he's out there...

Personally I'm in for the single long haul... And I've come to understand that now :-/

 

[princess_kitti]

i personally don't see the issue .... id rather spend an incredibly fun friday or saturday night spending time with all my darling friends i dearly love than either

a) try desperately to reach a compromise with a partner over what "we" are going to do all weekend
or
b) try desperately to pick up to have completely unfulfilling sex with some joker who thinks his schlong is THE gift to woman kind and wouldn't know a woman's genitalia if it came up and slapped him in the face

bitter, moi? hahaha never *big grin* it's just that i love being single and cutting the crap out of my life

 

[NickyJ]

^ Good attitude! :D


Kat- ozbreaker and I were planning on you getting laid in Melbourne but I guess we got side tracked taking drugs or something

 

[up all night]

hehe princess_kitti

I am totally anti-random sex at the moment. Don't know how long it will last but it all just seems like so much effort for what is usually a very mediocre 3 minutes.

 

[potato]

i personally don't see the issue .... id rather spend an incredibly fun friday or saturday night spending time with all my darling friends i dearly love than either

a) try desperately to reach a compromise with a partner over what "we" are going to do all weekend
or
b) try desperately to pick up to have completely unfulfilling sex with some joker who thinks his schlong is THE gift to woman kind and wouldn't know a woman's genitalia if it came up and slapped him in the face

bitter, moi? hahaha never *big grin* it's just that i love being single and cutting the crap out of my life

b) Had me laughing out loud. You always have had a way with words.

 

[m4dd0g]

princess_kitti: nicely put. the idea of having to negotiate my life seems horrid to me right now

BUT, if you can get away with it
single + (good) regular sexed is a transcendental state of being

 

[**hAyzzZZ**]

I love being single. I feel no need for a relationship, i dont want one, and i hate committing. Im young, and im sure as hell not justifying my actions to any bf, eg: where u goin dressed like that? Why didnt U invite ME with you and your friends? Why are u going out again, you went out 3 weeks ago? Why dont u come over i miss u im bored... pfft! I do what i want, wen i want. And this life suits me just fine. I still get action on the side, but i dont committ, and that's the way i like it. Maybe when and if i find the right person i wouldnt mind a r/ship, but all they are is a head fuck. I see the shit my friends get themselves into, fuuuck that... but as i said... for now? No thanks...

 

[princess_kitti]

b) Had me laughing out loud. You always have had a way with words.

merci bocou 8)

even sex on the side proves to be too much trouble. i have more fun going out and dancing the night away

I love dancing, its the best

 

[lady grey]

Ive been with a fair few guys in my almost 2 years of singledom, Just cant seem to push past the whole lust stage once i get over that i move on. If im going to have a boyfriend he needs to be a special. Hot guys are out there but decent guys are few and far between. For now im totally happy being single & happy to wait for my special person. I dnt see why anyone would settle for second best, its not that bad being single

 

[astrosmurf]

i was describing my new crush to my friends tonight (proper crush, not just some pub/supermarket/work crush) and they were looking semi-bored and disapproving until i got to the most important part and said "and the best part is he's not in his mid 30's".

they both looked excited and happy and said that i deserved another drink (which they both then pussied out on)

crushes are fun and exciting.