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Bluelight Singles thread "Living without justification" Part 2

End of school fucks up the best of us - pick a scarier time in your life?

Give her some leeway if you care to ... but let her know it (free brownie points)

Post in sex n relationships for some proper advice :)
 
^ dude, that's what the singles thread is for too! memberator begone!!!! :p

gher you clearly already realise it, but younger people = more immature and therefore less reliable etc etc.

You've got to take the good with the bad, and i'm willing to be some of the impetuousity and joie de vivre that attract you to this girl are also some of her downfalls because they're all trademarks of the young at heart and mind. :)

Schoolies and school ending related activities are always gonna take precedence...it's all you can think about after finally getting out of the place. Give her the benefit of the doubt but let her know that you did really want her to come, and it won't be the same with her not there.

Often you commit to things that you are later unable to do - she probably had no idea what a schlep it would actually be to get back from QLD in time - but that doesn't mean that she didn't really want to come.
 
^ lol =D

ok, shit, something on topic

What I love about being single is seeing some hot girl, maybe getting a smile or a cheeky sideways look, maybe you just imagined something?
Now, you might get that when you are with someone, but what you dont get is the thrill of possibility
 
What I love about being single is seeing some hot girl, maybe getting a smile or a cheeky sideways look, maybe you just imagined something?
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This is how i pass time during the hour each way i travel by train on the way too and from work. I just love the little games people play on public transport. I like playing them equally.
 
^ yes! trains and flirtacious looks are the bomb

when i grow up i want to live on the paris metro for precisely this reason

french girls - omfg 8o
 
You're all right about my situation, in fact I came to those conclusions a long time ago. I just feel a lot better for letting it all out. %)

I am greatly worried about what she hides from me. I always have been. It's about time I found out what it is. I think she's afraid the truth will scare me away not a lot surprises me these days.
 
Mary Poppins said:
true to his name, m4dd0g loves the hair ;)
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Hair can be fixed with a razor

ugly ... well your options are pretty limited
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well im single again after a pretty good 4 month relationship although it was a mutual decision to end it there has been a lot of shti fights about it why cant some girls just get over it and still be friends instead of trying to cause fights about every little thing. ive been seeing someone else for the last wk or so (been broken up for a month) and she has just started seeing someone although we talked a bit as soon as she started seeing this other guy it all went to hell. she spun him shit that i didnt and would never do (told him i hit her) now i havent spoke 2 her 4 nearly 2 wks and although i know she is seeing him she called and told me that she had just been to the drs and th dr thinks she might be pregnant i said yeah and and then she said well if i am itll be yours. i said wat bout this other guy and she reckons there is no other guy although i have seen em out and her best friend was the one that told me she is seeing him......
not directed to all females but those that cause shit "women cant live with em, cant shoot em"
 
Thought I'd bump this thread,since it hasn't been posted in for a while.


Of course,I'm still single.Haven't met anyone I'm keen on recently :( .

I'm especially looking for someone I can 'click with well',both on looks(NOT that important,just a bit of attraction,personality is more important to me NOW.),common interests,easy to talk to,we basically just really connect on most levels,feel comfortable with and I can 'totally relate too'.

Just doing the usual christmas time celebrations %) .

What the situations currently like NOW for the other single people here?

Finally,sorry to hear about your situation gher :(
Good luck!!!!!! with what happens NOW gher ;)
 
I've been in here for about a week now and bar one bad night I've been feeling really good about everything. We've had very little contact [one email] since we broke up and it's probably the longest time we've gone without speaking since I met him.

He sent me an sms from a payphone this morning saying he misses me and wanted to get back together. I don't want to [and in reality I think he's just going through the stage we all go through after a breakup] but I don't know how to respond. I have a habit of treating ex's pretty badly and really don't want to go down that road again. I still want him to feel welcome to come out with me and my friends if he ever wants to. I don't know whether an email or call explaining why we're better off apart would be worse than a shorter, less explanatory response.

Hmmm, anyway. Single for summer - perfect timing really. ;)
 
^ i'd welcome you back with open arms but i'm just gonna hold off a tiny little while more before i do so :)

history repeating and all that jazz ;)

but, I think an e-mail you can more likely be objective, and a phone call is a bit nicer and personal.

either of those two are better than leaving it hanging.
 
Well my normal life commitments (girl, job) are running on the economy settings right now.
Which i figure i might as well enjoy :)

UAN: I would say something nice about the relationship, even say you miss him (boys especially have major ego dramas after breakups), but say it isnt going to work and you both need time to get over it. 'going out' followed by a quick transition into 'friend' doesnt work ... too much confused emotional baggage that has to die first.
 
up all night said:
Hmmm, anyway. Single for summer - perfect timing really. ;)
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Yes ! Me too !

David is this boy that I have been dating for nearly 3 months. Everything about us just seemed perfect. We LOVED spending time together, were very sexually attracted to each other, could speak for hours on the phone, had heaps to talk about, and always had fun together. The best part is that he was just as physically 'needy' as I was, and had no qualms at all about showing it in public. Sex was fantastic, and we really really really cared about each other. So much.

What went wrong ?

It wasnt a case of anything going wrong, but after 3 months of seeing each other up to 4 times a week, *IT* was missing. IT just didnt exist for us. But because we both really loved spending time together, respected and cared about each other so much, we thought we had to keep pushing forward into a relationship.

Cut to last night. Out of nowhere, we are chatting bout something stupid, and I say

"So, do you just want to be friends who fuck (FWF)?"

And he was like "what !?" you dont think that IT is there either ? And im like "Nope, I certainly dont!" Seriously after 3 months of dating I think that you will either just click perfectly with each other, and you will just know if you are going to connect with that person on that level. IT didnt happen for us, but what we got out of it is this amazing beautiful friendship, someone who I know holds me very close to their heart, and in turn who I hold close to mine. No hard feelings, nothing. Loving each other just makes sense, but not within confines of a relationship.

And I feel great about it ! After he went home, he called again and we talked about shit till the sun came up. He is really a beautiful person, but IT's either there or its not. And for us it just wasnt.

I know I have made a friend for life.
 
Wacky said:
Finally,sorry to hear about your situation gher :(
Good luck!!!!!! with what happens NOW gher ;)
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She got a boyfriend last week. I've never met the guy but I somehow knew this would happen right after she came back. I have no idea how, but I kinda got over her with that big rant.
 
Wacky said:
What the situations currently like NOW for the other single people here?
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No change. Still wanting to make teh fuck with one of my male friends. Not doing anything about it. I'm comfy here. The singles thread is kind of like an old faded lounge chair you can just curl up in :)
 
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