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Bluelight Singles thread "Living without justification" Part 2
- Thread starter BREAKaBEAT
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*kicks old friend in da ass and watches her roll down the hill screaming like a little girly girl*
IM THE BEST FRIEND NOW DAMMIT!
GG.... for someone who has done so much to turn things around, made such an effort to correct the wrongs, said so many things which I know are hard for you to say and do things which are always hard to do you have my upmost respect, admiration, friendship....
And you know how I feel about you babe.
And Im happy for you to drag me out of here now.
P.S. always remember to G R I N D
IM THE BEST FRIEND NOW DAMMIT!
GG.... for someone who has done so much to turn things around, made such an effort to correct the wrongs, said so many things which I know are hard for you to say and do things which are always hard to do you have my upmost respect, admiration, friendship....
And you know how I feel about you babe.
And Im happy for you to drag me out of here now.
P.S. always remember to G R I N D
lostNfound
Bluelight Crew
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still here
still here also but enjoying it muchly. I always find having crushes on boys more exciting than actual relationships.
I attempted to go on a date today but it didn't work, I just couldn't be bothered and there was zero chemistry. I wanted to escape the whole situation and felt bad, because he liked me and I didn't want to be mean. Oh well.
I attempted to go on a date today but it didn't work, I just couldn't be bothered and there was zero chemistry. I wanted to escape the whole situation and felt bad, because he liked me and I didn't want to be mean. Oh well.
Pleonastic
Bluelighter
I reckon this is like the first time I've opened this thread since I used to have to tell everyone to shut the fuck up and stop posting crap in it. Good to see I still rate a mention... 
littleone
Bluelighter
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ive been doing the naughty thing and getting re involved with the ex recently. hes going overseas for a year in two weeks though.
so its had positive and negative effects.. him breaking up with me really played on my insecurities about my inability to communicate with guys. so seeing him again and knowing that he still likes me (a bit at least.. i hope. haha) and broke it off because he was going away had made me feel better. less uninteresting and stuff.
but its also made things worse because i was starting to get over him and now im back to square one. and he leaves in two weeks so things are going to end again regardless. i just know that if he left without me spending any time with him i would regret it. although its just a little self destructive in the meantime.
other then that.. i was enjoying the singleness haha. although its getting wintery and it would be nice to have someone to snuggle with
so its had positive and negative effects.. him breaking up with me really played on my insecurities about my inability to communicate with guys. so seeing him again and knowing that he still likes me (a bit at least.. i hope. haha) and broke it off because he was going away had made me feel better. less uninteresting and stuff.
but its also made things worse because i was starting to get over him and now im back to square one. and he leaves in two weeks so things are going to end again regardless. i just know that if he left without me spending any time with him i would regret it. although its just a little self destructive in the meantime.
other then that.. i was enjoying the singleness haha. although its getting wintery and it would be nice to have someone to snuggle with
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lostpunk5545
Bluelighter
This is the funnier oxymoron:
What you are looking for you already are.I'm your mirror. If you have a body, you are an athlete. And as long as there are athletes, there will be NIKE. PLUR Eternal.
What you are looking for you already are.I'm your mirror. If you have a body, you are an athlete. And as long as there are athletes, there will be NIKE. PLUR Eternal.
PLUR Eternal ;have you got a better idea?
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Can we stay on topic amap please.
Now.
I am a healthy intelligent single raver lad who likes to keep fit (hence NIKE). I am looking for a beautiful nice young healthy Kandy raver girl/lady to be my girlfriend with prospects of long term commitment as a girlfriend and if things work out then marriage, living happily ever after living the reality of healthy
PLUR and shining it like stars do.
P.S. "Oxymoron" as described by www.dictionary.com
ox·y·mo·ron
n. pl. ox·y·mo·ra (-môr, -mr) or ox·y·mo·rons
A rhetorical figure in which incongruous or contradictory terms are combined, as in a deafening silence and a mournful optimist.
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[Greek oxumron, from neuter of oxumros, pointedly foolish : oxus, sharp; see oxygen + mros, foolish, dull.]
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oxy·mo·ronic (-m-rnk) adj.
oxy·mo·roni·cal·ly adv.
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oxymoron
n : conjoining contradictory terms (as in `deafening silence')
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Now if anyone disagrees with my signature please let your feelings known by PM. Just try and disprove me; I will willingly give up my life to defend the truth in my signature.I strive for love,life,goodness and truth and see no harm in doing so.
Peace be with you.
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Can we stay on topic amap please.
Now.
I am a healthy intelligent single raver lad who likes to keep fit (hence NIKE). I am looking for a beautiful nice young healthy Kandy raver girl/lady to be my girlfriend with prospects of long term commitment as a girlfriend and if things work out then marriage, living happily ever after living the reality of healthy
PLUR and shining it like stars do.
P.S. "Oxymoron" as described by www.dictionary.com
ox·y·mo·ron
n. pl. ox·y·mo·ra (-môr, -mr) or ox·y·mo·rons
A rhetorical figure in which incongruous or contradictory terms are combined, as in a deafening silence and a mournful optimist.
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[Greek oxumron, from neuter of oxumros, pointedly foolish : oxus, sharp; see oxygen + mros, foolish, dull.]
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oxy·mo·ronic (-m-rnk) adj.
oxy·mo·roni·cal·ly adv.
[Download or Buy Now]
Source: The American Heritage® Dictionary of the English Language, Fourth Edition
Copyright © 2000 by Houghton Mifflin Company.
Published by Houghton Mifflin Company. All rights reserved.
oxymoron
n : conjoining contradictory terms (as in `deafening silence')
Source: WordNet ® 2.0, © 2003 Princeton University
Now if anyone disagrees with my signature please let your feelings known by PM. Just try and disprove me; I will willingly give up my life to defend the truth in my signature.I strive for love,life,goodness and truth and see no harm in doing so.
Peace be with you.
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lostpunk5545
Bluelighter
^ Well if you hadn't realised it is kind of ironic to prance around (not that there's anything wrong with that) and spout words of peace and unity while blatantly doing advertising for a fucking evil company notorious for abusing human rights...
...ah and I'm still single.
...ah and I'm still single.
ethics into the single life. Please stay On Topic.
Shalom!
Ethics in the single life. Please stay On Topic.
I have unfortunately been slandered in this dear singles thread just of late seemingly for some of my beliefs and now I claim a peaceful rebuttal. I have attempted to keep this succinct.
O:I love & am proud prancing
about (albeit non-pompously) spouting Peace,Love,Unity,Respect whilst blatantly and happily advertising for a brilliant company called NIKE.
I find NIKE to be a coherent team of professional health workers improving this planet spreading the message of brilliant pure sparkling health and happiness through "best practice management", in such areas as, but not limited to; exercise, health & fitness, fashion, style, comfort & design, high level, wisdom-filled, biomechanical engineering, as well as high conscious levels of ethical business management.
Please understand; "Nike products are manufactured in factories owned and operated by other companies. Out-sourcing, as it is commonly called, is pervasive in that industry. Nike’s supply chain includes more than 660,000 contract manufacturing workers in more than 900 factories in more than 50 countries, including the United States. The workers are predominantly women, ages 19-25. The geographic dispersion is driven by many factors including pricing, quality, factory capacity, and quota allocation." -Nike
O: This you must be able to see is a complex situation.
"Our goal is to do business with contract factories that consistently demonstrate compliance with standards we set and that operate in an ethical and lawful manner."-Nike
O:NIKE are paying above award wages and have established a Workers And Factories Code Of Conduct.
"Nike opposes child labor and directs contract factories making Nike branded products to set age standards at 16 for apparel and equipment and 18 for footwear."-Nike
O: Please see
http://www.nike.com/nikebiz/nikebiz.jhtml?page=0
for the inside story from the "horses mouth".
I have plenty more evidence to defend the good morals of NIKE if need be; (that info is just the tip of the iceberg) Perhaps just see me as a staunch advocate & unofficial or otherwise legal & ethical representative and defender of the awesome spirit of natural health and fitness which NIKE exemplifies.
If people are concerned, then please communicate to Nike (directly at: Nike World Headquarters, One Boweman Drive, Beaverton, Oregon, 97005-6453, USA. or via a web feedback form at
http://swoosh.custhelp.com/cgi-bin/swoosh.cfg/php/enduser/ask.php )themselves, instead of hassling me and others & taking threads off topic unnecessarily. There is a thread to discuss,communicate your & other's feelings & ideas regarding various companies and their particular ethics/morals and that is at
http://www.bluelight.ru/vb/showthread.php?s=&threadid=186927&perpage=25&pagenumber=5
Please express your emotion in that thread and to NIKE directly if need be to get these matters "off your chest".
"We feel lucky to have a genuine, altruistic reason to be: the service of human potential. That's the great benefit of sports, and we're glad to be in the middle of it."-Nike
Nike's corporate responsibility mission is to be an innovative and inspirational corporate citizen in a world where our company participates. The issues we face as corporate citizens are complex. We, like other companies, face many challenges operating in a global economy, and we will continue to address these challenges and look for ways to make a positive impact on our business and our world. To learn about Nike’s corporate responsibly programs and challenges, please visit www.nikeresponsibility.com
THE NIKE MISSION: "To bring inpiration and innovation to every athlete in the world"
“Our moral sense dictates a clearcut preference for these societies which share with us an abiding respect for individual human rights” Jimmy Carter
O:And I believe that to be a good thing.
So I gracefully reresume the topic of the thread
I am a sportsboy looking for a sportsgirl.
Peace.
O
At Nike, we believe that if you have a body, you are an athlete. But we also believe that first you are a human, an individual with rare talents and singular perspective, diverse from all the rest.
Shalom!
Ethics in the single life. Please stay On Topic.
I have unfortunately been slandered in this dear singles thread just of late seemingly for some of my beliefs and now I claim a peaceful rebuttal. I have attempted to keep this succinct.
O:I love & am proud prancing
about (albeit non-pompously) spouting Peace,Love,Unity,Respect whilst blatantly and happily advertising for a brilliant company called NIKE.
I find NIKE to be a coherent team of professional health workers improving this planet spreading the message of brilliant pure sparkling health and happiness through "best practice management", in such areas as, but not limited to; exercise, health & fitness, fashion, style, comfort & design, high level, wisdom-filled, biomechanical engineering, as well as high conscious levels of ethical business management.
Please understand; "Nike products are manufactured in factories owned and operated by other companies. Out-sourcing, as it is commonly called, is pervasive in that industry. Nike’s supply chain includes more than 660,000 contract manufacturing workers in more than 900 factories in more than 50 countries, including the United States. The workers are predominantly women, ages 19-25. The geographic dispersion is driven by many factors including pricing, quality, factory capacity, and quota allocation." -Nike
O: This you must be able to see is a complex situation.
"Our goal is to do business with contract factories that consistently demonstrate compliance with standards we set and that operate in an ethical and lawful manner."-Nike
O:NIKE are paying above award wages and have established a Workers And Factories Code Of Conduct.
"Nike opposes child labor and directs contract factories making Nike branded products to set age standards at 16 for apparel and equipment and 18 for footwear."-Nike
O: Please see
http://www.nike.com/nikebiz/nikebiz.jhtml?page=0
for the inside story from the "horses mouth".
I have plenty more evidence to defend the good morals of NIKE if need be; (that info is just the tip of the iceberg) Perhaps just see me as a staunch advocate & unofficial or otherwise legal & ethical representative and defender of the awesome spirit of natural health and fitness which NIKE exemplifies.
If people are concerned, then please communicate to Nike (directly at: Nike World Headquarters, One Boweman Drive, Beaverton, Oregon, 97005-6453, USA. or via a web feedback form at
http://swoosh.custhelp.com/cgi-bin/swoosh.cfg/php/enduser/ask.php )themselves, instead of hassling me and others & taking threads off topic unnecessarily. There is a thread to discuss,communicate your & other's feelings & ideas regarding various companies and their particular ethics/morals and that is at
http://www.bluelight.ru/vb/showthread.php?s=&threadid=186927&perpage=25&pagenumber=5
Please express your emotion in that thread and to NIKE directly if need be to get these matters "off your chest".
"We feel lucky to have a genuine, altruistic reason to be: the service of human potential. That's the great benefit of sports, and we're glad to be in the middle of it."-Nike
Nike's corporate responsibility mission is to be an innovative and inspirational corporate citizen in a world where our company participates. The issues we face as corporate citizens are complex. We, like other companies, face many challenges operating in a global economy, and we will continue to address these challenges and look for ways to make a positive impact on our business and our world. To learn about Nike’s corporate responsibly programs and challenges, please visit www.nikeresponsibility.com
THE NIKE MISSION: "To bring inpiration and innovation to every athlete in the world"
“Our moral sense dictates a clearcut preference for these societies which share with us an abiding respect for individual human rights” Jimmy Carter
O:And I believe that to be a good thing.
So I gracefully reresume the topic of the thread
I am a sportsboy looking for a sportsgirl.
Peace.
O
At Nike, we believe that if you have a body, you are an athlete. But we also believe that first you are a human, an individual with rare talents and singular perspective, diverse from all the rest.
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onetwothreefour
Bluelight Crew
oh jeez.
despite what i think about oceanboy's views, he is only responding to other people's comments here. if anyone wants to continue the discussion, start a new thread or take it to ethical consumption.
on topic now, thanks.
despite what i think about oceanboy's views, he is only responding to other people's comments here. if anyone wants to continue the discussion, start a new thread or take it to ethical consumption.
on topic now, thanks.
kandyraverchick
Ex-Bluelighter
I find it most intriguing how people can interpret things in very different ways - both fair and just. Sure, both sides of the arguement have there up's and down, I think with oceanboy though - he see's the good in everything.
In relation to relationships - it's a bit like those debates that go round and round in circles where each party feels the other is missing their point of view. Really, I think they both can see each others points - they're just to busy defending/ preaching their own that they don't take enough time out to acknowledge the other side of the coin. Often, I've found - you get to the very end of these debates (they're lots of fun but can sometimes cause frustration) and it turns out you both agree with each other 95%! You've just spent a good half hour or so debating a very minor detail of the bigger picture... heh. They're all lots of fun til' someone gets angry/ starts to take it personally!
So on topic: Do you ever find this type of debate turns into arguements in relationships hence causing you to 'take time out' from the relationship scene?
Personally, not at all anymore! If it looks to be turning into an arguement, I call it quits - if we haven't sorted it out by the time things get tense, no ammount of argueing is likely to resolve the issue. I couldn't be bothered with unnecissary drama - debates get a big thumbs up but thumbs down to arguements. It's about recognising the point where it's turning and acting accordingly!
In relation to relationships - it's a bit like those debates that go round and round in circles where each party feels the other is missing their point of view. Really, I think they both can see each others points - they're just to busy defending/ preaching their own that they don't take enough time out to acknowledge the other side of the coin. Often, I've found - you get to the very end of these debates (they're lots of fun but can sometimes cause frustration) and it turns out you both agree with each other 95%! You've just spent a good half hour or so debating a very minor detail of the bigger picture... heh. They're all lots of fun til' someone gets angry/ starts to take it personally!
So on topic: Do you ever find this type of debate turns into arguements in relationships hence causing you to 'take time out' from the relationship scene?
Personally, not at all anymore! If it looks to be turning into an arguement, I call it quits - if we haven't sorted it out by the time things get tense, no ammount of argueing is likely to resolve the issue. I couldn't be bothered with unnecissary drama - debates get a big thumbs up but thumbs down to arguements. It's about recognising the point where it's turning and acting accordingly!
muzby
Bluelighter
after months of fucking around with my ex... and then newer aquaintances... i'm proud to say i'm back to being single and proud....
Shnouzerpuff
Bluelighter
rushraver said:So? Come on Shnouzer you can't leave us hagin like this dude!! Your killin me....
Oh and txting? Whatever happened to phoning someone and talking to them? LOL 8)
Damn i am old.....
Haha cheers dude
phoning someone and talking to them works great normally but not if you got their number off a 3rd party.
Like Addikal says, it looks a tad too stalkerish when an unknown number rings and you have to explain who you are and how you got their number first...
So in situations like that I send a txt... its a less intrusive form of letting them know you are initially interested... which can be followed up with a call if the chips turn out to be stacked in your favour.
Long story short though turned out she was flattered but already had a boyfriend. Standard rejection 101.
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Dear Shnouzey,
Thankyou for your interest in the unadvertised position of being my partner.
Unfortunately we are not hiring right now, but your information and
witty banter shall be kept on record for a period of three (3) months.
Thankyou for your time
Sincerely,
Hot Chick
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But hey, I still tried and now she knows exactly where I stand. The cards are laying face up on the table. It sucks but I don't go to sleep wondering the eternal question..
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"what if....?"
Munchee
Bluelighter
littleone: I'd offer my services for winter snuggles, but you are so very very far away. Plus it gets much colder down here, we need snuggles, but even in the northern climate I understand the necessity of snuggles.
doof-kittie
Bluelighter
I thought I'd poke my head in here and say hello, now that I've joined these hallowed halls of singledom. Its quite odd being alone, after being in a relationship for three years. Im prepared to make the most of it though, and meet new and lovely people (I hope). It's odd though, realising now that I can relate to boys in a different way, and that once innocent flirting might actually lead somewhere now. hmm.