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Bluelight Singles thread "Living without justification" Part 2

Munchee said:
littleone: I'd offer my services for winter snuggles, but you are so very very far away. Plus it gets much colder down here, we need snuggles, but even in the northern climate I understand the necessity of snuggles.
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heh.. well if you ever come up here im totally available for snuggles okay?
and if i ever go down there same deal :)

and in other news... cheers to me for having my first random pash since being single on the weekend!!! yay for me!!! ive moved past the "i dont want anyone but him" barrier.

oh yeah.. its all downhill from here. *amy looks smug*

except for the whole finding a new person bit... :\
 
haha crazzzzey shit.. thats what its all about right.. just like snouzers physically removed ditching.. good effort none the lessbut

I say go for it.. random(mate) pash your time away..

thats why random is such a good word.. its the quintessential justification for living.. it describes the best things in life relationship or otherwise. if you happen to find a random that prefers to decrease the level of random interaction.. even better!

i had that paul frank shirt. "im Rad" on the front... "your rad" "lets hug" on the back.. that night it worked random wonders..

sadly it had to be retired due to the occu-passional hazard it presented...

P.s. by the way "Rad"s a word that should get more suppotr from the gp.. everyone should put there support behind it.. im thinking of starting the Rad Foundation - for people who need more old school radness in their life.)

p.s.s Fuck I hope oceanboy got himself a life....what a cock....
 
I have been wanting the ex again...


the crazy eating disordery head fuckery ex.

I make myself sick sometimes.

But not in the eating disorder way. In the disgusted with myself way.

Either way.

:(
 
Well my last boy (the bosses son) is now seeing a girl who is friends with the girl across the road. Wtf! I'm always seeing his car in the street and he is hanging out with everyone i know who lives here! It really fucking sux!

So after him i was seeing new boy who always took half an hr to say 'goodbye' to me at the door and made plans to see me all the time then he gets sick and i sent him a few messages saying 'hope your well' blah blah blah and he's answered and all but i have a feeling that he doesn't want to see me anymore in the same way he did (or he's still sick) but i think the sooner option is more realistic.

I'm constantly getting played and i'm so over it and what i'm more over is me saying "I'm over it!" and then getting back into these 'relationships' that are just not going anywhere.

I've come to realise that boys younger than me are just no good for me so i'm only dating the older one sfrom now on. Hopefully they won't be insecure little boys with issues of god knows what!

blah!

speaking of older guys.... i have a date next week with a guy who 'picked me up' on the phone when i was ringing about train times last weekend ... haha I can't believe i gave him my number. I must be mad =D

A friend of mine has also set me up on a blind date with a girl too which i'm quite excited and nervous about. Going on a date with a woman is really different from a guy. The connection and communication is vastly different. Maybe it's cos men are such simple creatures ;)
 
I just came back after a long hiatus from Bluelight (this thread was getting depressing) to post to you all that I'm officially out of here, and yeah, it's really really nice.

Gotta love nice boys :)
 
Maybe it's cos men are such simple creatures
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Hmmm... thats what we like you to think ;) I have absolutly no allegence to the male sex whatsoever, even though i am one.. Many people try to stereotype males and females but i think, deep down inside, behind all the facade, they are quite similar..

exept -

woman have no sense of direction

and

women are more indecisive

In my line of work i get to see many different sorts of people and it has lead me to believe the above.
 
Shit is always more difficult with a smart chick, especially a smarter chick who so obviously knows how to manipulate people. After thinking "this girl has something more" then realising i was being played I withdrew my attention. The result? She made efforts to contact me - i didn't respond.

So what's the problem?

Well, after a very coincidental meeting last nite on the roadside, driving home from my work I see her car broken down on the side of the road, things seem much better between us (no games) but i couldn't help but think of the possibility she orchestrated the whole thing. It seems ludicrous to you all i'm sure but.... for some reason it seems almost too plausible. She KNEW i'd be driving there at that time.

Who knows? All i know is that i can't let my guard down or i'll get sucked in to her reality far to quickly.

Adikkal
 
Originally posted by funluvingurl
I just came back after a long hiatus from Bluelight (this thread was getting depressing) to post to you all that I'm officially out of here, and yeah, it's really really nice.

Gotta love nice boys :)


Oh my! That's awesome, babe. =D If you find another nice boy send him to Sydney for me.
 
Shnouzer, i'm glad i'm not alone in thinking that. I'm more skeptical than paranoid. And by her past behaviour it wouldn't really seem out of character for her to do it, thus why i suspect it as a possibility. If it was deliberate... then DAMN! It was a pretty fucking smart thing to do. I mean, instead of her making efforts to contact me and thus changing the dynamics of power, she makes it so I am the one to STOP what i'm doing and go to HER.

That's some subtle but powerful shit right there.

.....

Or maybe i'm just over analysing.

Adikkal
 
addikal:

as a girl who has orchestrated things like that in the past :\, i can vouch that, yes there is a possibility she may have contrived the whole incident. :)

But....though i realise this comes under your heading of game playing, what is wrong with a little contrivance of fate? are we really naive enough to expect everything to be fate, coincidence or lucky chance?

me personally, i would find her efforts flattering and a token that she is sincere in her feelings and affection for you, and also showing a desirable level of intelligence, originality and mischievousness...

we all know how fun the chase can be...who can forgive us for livening it up or helping it along at some points? :)

granted, i don't know the full situation of her previous game playing - but as you've intimated in your previous posts, game playing IS a necessary part of the whole getting together process, so why do you have something against others who realise this and use it to their advantage?

just curious :)
 
Mary poppins - VERY good post. Don't get me wrong, i'm not thinking "fuck her" for 'playing games' because i know they are always being played, some are just better at it than others. My main concern is to recognise when it is about power and when it is real.

That's what i mean by keeping my guard up. Basically, just give her the challenge she wants!

intelligence, originality and mischievousness
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Definitely!

Thanx ms poppins :)

Adikkal
 
awesome :)

i'm glad you replied that, because it would be a shame to not want someone who is at your level...i've seen too many guys scared of dating women who are as proficient in the art of game playing as then.

i personally like to be kept on my toes...and if she is like me at all...she certainly will want to hang on to someone who knows themself and others as well as you seeem to.

damn straight she wants a challenge - there's a reason nice guys finish last ;)
 
yes well hmmm...after being one foot in one foot out maybe yes maybe no argh i dont know for a little while, im damn damn happy to say goodbye to singleland for now. for reals this time =D i have found myself a wonderful guy who makes me smile. i took the time to think about it and even though i didnt like the idea of a relationship, i did like the idea of this special person. so i held my breath and jumped in with both feet. and its wonderful!
 
^ Oh la la two of my favourite BL girls leaving this thread on the same page. =D =D

Adge: If that girl did stage that then hats off for a rather ingenius plan. That being said, it screams 'bunny boiler' for some reason. ;)
 
as if bluelight wasn't incestuous enough, now the oboe appreciation society are fucking each other.
 
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