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Bluelight Singles thread "Living without justification" Part 2

Well, im still single ... enjoying it still although that vacant spot in my bed is getting a little to cold for my liking.

I just need a girl that understands my social needs, my uni demands and hey, maybe even the fact that if i organise a picnic in a park with a river, sunset, home made food, chocolate covered strawberries and champ's, i would really really really really like her phone to be on silent ... at the least ... better yet off ........

Sorry, thats my issue .... i can deal .... *Breaths deeply*

Of course, i am enjoying myself but i could sure use a refresher on that 2nd pillow on my bed thats loosing the smell of girls shampoo.

*Sigh* ... im gonna go have another beer.
 
Please tell me, why is it, that every guy i meet and that im attracted to, starts off by saying they have just come out of a relationship and there not looking for anything serious... do i have it written on my forhead "hi, im hot, please come fuck me then dont worry about it, i wont feel for you after?"

god why am i so attracted to broken guys with issues, wtf is with that.
 
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Taliana I think we share the same jerk attraction gene.

I know its my own fault. Im a sucker for a guy with emotional and mental issues.
 
The only issue I have is that I keep spilling my beer allover myself when someone tries to spark a conversation..... but I don't have the courage to speak to anyone unless I'm royally drunko!
 
I am single for the first time in a long time and absolutely loving it!

A boyfriend is the last thing i would want right now.

But a girlfriend...? One of those would be nice :)
 
Im kind of between lately... I feel like in the last 6 - 8 weeks my life has changed so much (for the better). I'm actually happy, healthy, confident and now I wouldent mind being in a real relationship again.

Easier said then done, but importantly, Im happy, really happy. I guess meeting the right person now would just be nice and the time is right.

Im not fussed though, if it happens it happens, but by all means Im not craving it.. Just letting what will be, be.

shals!

:)
 
Glad you are happy shals :D

I've definately heard many times before, you can never be happy in a relationship unless you are happy on you're own. I definately agree with this one.

<3
 
*Steps graciously from the thread*

That's right people!

After 2 1/2 years of proud singledom, I've found someone I'm actually interested in! Things are going great at the moment, this is why I sound a lot chirpier than usual lol

See ya later! (Hopefully much, much later :P)
 
^^^Im still here!

And I swear guys arent looking for relationships.

Its either after "casual only" (Im 26 and over that amazing when you say sorry after perm only you never hear from them again) or same as taliana - meet someone nice, but they just come out of a long term relationship.
 
Well, i can happily say i am still in this thread.

But, i can also happily say i am seeing someone. GO ME! :):) and mmmmm he so sexy.
 
i'm single and sort of loving it, well liking it but i always seem to pick the wrong boys who treat girls like crap and me being so dumb n lovestruck i let them do now how silly is that
 
BREAKaBEAT said:
I am a person that is genuinely happy with being single, and to tell you the truth its a position I will chose to be in for quite some time. I was just wondering if anyone else choses to be single or just loves it, and tell me why you do.

I love being single because I have awesome friends (esp my best friend) who all love me, and that is all I need at the moment.
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Edit to add: This post was made back in May !

Holy fuck.

This is still true all of it. Besides the friends thing cus they chose not to hang out with me anymore. I still have teh everlasting support of my best friend and soul mate though.

The only thing I have had close to a relationship was a boy I fell quickly in and out of love with who was in a wheelchair in QLD who I met over the internet.

That lasted for 6 weeks.

So basically one year and still going strong !
 
Originally posted by Shnouzerpuff
Damn. We need more depressed stories of people who are genuinely single here.

Getting far too happy for my liking :)

Now I can finally help you out with your request Shnouzer...

And thus ends the most tumultuous relationship of my entire life. I fell in love with him because he was unpredictable and challenging and intelligent and lost. We broke up because he was unpredictable and challenging and intelligent and lost.

He eroded my self respect and I should have accepted the end of our relationship so much earlier than I actually did. I put up with so much but he was just so good at apologising. What a fucking sucker.

Last night was the final straw. To hear someone you love more than anything say they never really cared about you, it was just that sometimes they were good at hiding that is one of the most hurtful things I've ever had to deal with. He stared into my eyes and all I could see was apathy and contempt - at least hatred is passionate... he just doesn't care.

I've twisted myself inside out enough for this stupid boy-not-yet-a-man.

That being said, it's one thing to know someone is not worth your time but it's so much harder to be able to walk away.

I feel like I have nothing. It's such a long time until the weekend comes again and it's even longer before I can start forgetting about the plans we made.

The next boy I date will actually care about me, I swear.
 
^^^
*big hugs*

I don't know you or your situation but Ive most definately been in love with a guy who didn't feel the same about me and it sucks majorly.
 
*Hugs Yarn*

You have heaps of fantastic friends who care about you stacks! If he was unwilling to care then I think you won out of the situation. I'd never want to be with someone who didnt care for me, but then again, loving someone and not being loved iun return must be so hard :(

Find someone who really embraces you, loves you, cares about you, is real to you, brings meaning and reason. Your a great person, just dont be hard on yourself. His loss!

Try stay happy groover!

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Josh.
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*hugs for yarn* That fucking sucks, i want to kick him in the head. What a fool. I hate people who take others for granted. gaaaaaaaaaaah.
 
love hurts...

He stared into my eyes and all I could see was apathy and contempt - at least hatred is passionate... he just doesn't care.
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That is truly the hardest realization. My heart goes out to you, I know when I realise people just don't care, is the moment my heart feels like someone has squeezed all the life out of it.

If I knew you in real life I'd make you a depressing mix cd. But I don't...so...self indulge yourself in whatever way you know how, and wallow in your own pity. It doesn't erase memories but it's temporarily comforting I find...

:\ :(
 
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