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Bluelight Singles thread "Living without justification" Part 2

up all night said:
PS Am I allowed to set you up? I have a 100% success rate with people I set up and this guy is pretty awesome... ;)
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we need to catch up for beer and goon...and lots of it...

then we shall discuss
 
Ah the old Set Up.

I don't like the glow of power I see in the Setter-Upper's eyes when things are going well between two of their puppets ;)

But if it works then go for it hehe


:D
 
mr_p said:
ther's nothing wrong with you DOOFQUEEN ... you've just temporarily forgotten how beautiful you are !!!!

i see pics of your gorgeous little boy and think ... wow, I wish i had a little boy like that, you can just tell he will grow up with such and open mind and free-heart because of the love YOU'RE giving him....

keep it up sister, this rollercoaster ride we call life sure can have its ups and downs ...

but hey, we get to go on a rollercoaster ride, how rock'in is that !!!!
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awww thankyou sweetie, what a beautiful thing to say :) *hugs*

I think i was just having a bad night the night i wrote that. Damn emotional female hippies ;)
 
sydkiwi said:
Met a nice guy through work a few months back.

Even tho hes nice and goes out of his way to make me happy there is no spark :(

Can it be possible to grow to like someone the way they like you?
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nope i don't think you can. This is what happened with me and the last guy i dated. He was sweet and nice and treated me like a princess but i felt no spark with him butdecided to go out with him anyway because he make it clear that he liked me for months without being pushy about it and i decided that i would finally date a nice guy as most guys i end up dating didn't seem to have the time or the effort for me and he did. So i went out with him to see if the attraction possibly may grow and it just didn't. I should not have started anything in the first place obviously but i think i just like the way he treated and looked at me and then he ended up trying to fuck my sister.

fucking arsehole :X total disrespect! I don't think you can get much lower then that. So much for being a fucking princess!!

So in most cases if the spark isn't there i don't think it will come.
 
if there is no spark the thing is a dud.

Forget it - find someone you actually like and find exciting to begin with for a bit of fun, not someone on offer who you hope can be everything and more ~in the future~.
 
WOW it finally hit me today that im really single.

All my life I feel like ive been waiting to meet the right person to settle down with. All ive met are jerky, assholes and loosers. So Ive officially stopped looking and I'm just going to have massieve amounts of fun and never look back. I figure Im only young for a short amount of time so im going to live it up.
 
'The Spark' will invariably die though and then you've got to look at what's left behind. 'The Spark' can blind you and while it is toe tingling loveliness to find that person who makes your stomach flip they're also often the same person who makes your stomach drop and eventually breaks your heart.

Don't get me wrong, I think most people on this site are far too young to be worrying about whether your current partner is someone who you could settle down and build a life with but I think when I get older I will just start looking for that person who I get along with but who I don't feel a great passion for.

I don't think that's necessarily a depressing way to look at things although I'm sure the true romantics among you will steadfastly disagree with this pessimistic attitude. ;)
 
yarns pessimistic? NOO! I say it is a pretty good theory though. You may have the spark with plenty of people who really wouldn't be that great for you for any long term thing, but that spark of attraction is there and hence you like being around them.

Often those really good friends who you never thought of sexually might make great partners after that initial physical line is crossed. It's more an intimacy than a rushing passion, but with the intimacy comes passion. The flipside is when theres that initial sexual chemistry between two people, and it remains there even if they don't share any similar interests and get on each others nerves. This sort of spark is great for casual relationships but it's not practical for you to be with them for any length of time.

I've definitely been there... lots of spark between me and this girl and as i was much less educated than i am now after seeing each other for a while it was like "so, are we going out?". We were bf/gf for like 2 or so weeks before realising it was stupid cos there wasn't any deep connection, just good sex.

As far as my life - single and loving it! Meeting lots of new women and enjoying life immensely :)

Adikkal
 
^ Oh of course! You'd never expect me to be pessimistic would you Adikkal, m'dear. ;)

In all seriousness though the guy I am with now has a huge amount of spark verging on the town destroying bushfire level but I could never marry/ grow old with him. I love him but could never live with him. The only person who I could marry is the one who could never break my heart. Maybe this is part of the reason why I think marriage is a ridiculous and outdated institution.

PS Speaking of set-ups... shnouzer I believe my best friend and partner in crime has spoken of someone who we want you to marry and make babies with. =D Let us know how Ms TISM goes. ;)
 
Originally posted by up all night
I don't think that's necessarily a depressing way to look at things although I'm sure the true romantics among you will steadfastly disagree with this pessimistic attitude. ;)


don't worry, i agree that you're a pessimist, and i don't necessary think there's anything wrong with that. but i don't believe for a minute that you're not a romantic :)
 
Hmm... Thanks guys. I think we'll just be mates at this stage.

Tho hes coming over tomorrow to hold my hand while I go to the dentist to have a tooth yanked out :( (guess who needs xanax to go to the dentist)
 
www.adultmatchmaker.com.au <-all you need

i took my own profile down the other day, but my flatmate
Jayse is still up for anything!! he's very cool. have sex with him. take his mind off the messy kitchen i created.

much love, Superpimp El
 
I've resigned to the fact I shall be single for the rest of my days.

It probably does'nt help that I don't go out to meet anyone though.

And yes, my mum thinks I am cool too :D
 
I don't want to be single, but everytime I meet somebody I like somebody else after two weeks.

I went out with somebody for two weeks, we broke up, haven't been together for a week, and now I like his friend. I'm pretty sure his friend likes me too.

I don't want to act on it because 1. It would make the first guy sad, 2. I'll probaly like somebody else again soon.

But then again, we have tons of fun together.

(note. inbetween these two people I also liked another person who I kissed).

I <3 everyone. Thats why I can't go out with anyone, if that makes sense.

But anyway, I think I should send this guy an sms because he's hot.

Sorry for being so darn random.
 
^ then you're not single enough for this thread :P

I still think this guy is really hot. I sms'd him but the conversation died because I was too scared to say anything interesting.

He was going to give me a mouse, but I have to go pick it up, so that gives me an excuse to go to his house.
 
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