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Bluelight Singles thread "Living without justification" Part 2

funluvingurl said:
I have this dilemma where guys tend to think that I'm not single. Somehow I manage to exude such confidence that none will approach me. The number of times I get "you're so pretty/nice why don't you have a boyfriend." What kind of a fricken question is that anyway?? Or maybe it's some sort of random pick up line that I'm not clued up on.
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you and me both girlie...

... fucking *blah*

:(
 
I've been single for so long it's embarrassing... I'm at the point where, being single has become so ingrained in the way I live my life that the alternative doesn't even occur to me... Much.

Love..? Fate..? Blow me :) .. :(
 
hey guys,

well, i'm single again too... bored on a saturday.

i can understand what people talk about now when they
say "a broken heart", because that is where it hurts.
i have a constant dull pain coming from within my
chest constantly, and it makes me feel afraid and sad.

i'm back where i began in many ways, but much wiser for
what i have been through. i've learned a lot about myself
and about relationships. far too much to put down here,
and there are thoughts still going through my mind about
the whole experience of being in a relationship.

i sacrificed a lot for my relationship, now i feel like i have
very little to show for it. my self-confidence is at an all-time
low right now and i am trying to find a way to snap out
of it. sometimes its hard for me to think that i am worth
anything to anybody out there.

i understand that happiness comes from within, but as hard
as i try to fire up the happiness furnace inside me, it just won't
start. i can't lift myself out of this depression. it hurts so
much, and i so strongly believe i have inflicted this pain onto
myself. i'm lost, i need to break out of this cycle.

Cohaa.
 
^^ aww I know how you feel and this is going to one of those pieces of advice that your going to say "fuck you" its true and that's that things will get better with time and it's better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all :( *hugs you*
 
It's amazing what a good haircut can do... The amount of attention I received last night like tripled. Maybe I was giving off an open positive single vibe?? [this is only humorous if you know me]
 
funluvingurl said:
It's amazing what a good haircut can do... The amount of attention I received last night like tripled. Maybe I was giving off an open positive single vibe?? [this is only humorous if you know me]
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Hairstyle, to me, is one of the key factors that make a person. I think hair examples a personals individuality, and personality. I love hair, I especially love funky, different hairstyles. :)

shals!
 
<3

^What is it with these random expressions of love for our alcohol tonight, guys?
Meanwhile, I have posted in a thread I swore I never would. Not because of relationship status, mind you. ;)

I just think there's a certain level of desperation one must reach before proclaiming one's singledom in a thread. :(
 
<3

^Erk, I guess it's nothing more than usual.
Just another Sunday home. Alone. Wanting a cuddle, is all. :\
Argh, now I know why I didn't want to post in this thread. -=Looks from side to side=-
 
^^^Thoughts of cuddles sent your way, wait for it, wait, there, sent...

We're all alone when you get down to it, single people are just more honest about it.
 
1234: the only good thing about you always posting drunk is that your posts are amusing. why a badger man? How random.

Everyone else: never admit to being desperate. Standards people.
 
sorry... but i think that just by posting in this tread about how much you want a r/s or you're sick of bieng single for so long kinda counts as saying u r desperate :/

-dee
 
nah it just means one of two things: 1- that you cant get anything or 2, that you cant get what you want ;)

if you cant get what you want your just frustrated not desperate, and yes peoples frustrations arent really the funnest things to listen too to.

i only count desperation when you cant get anything but are prepared to settle for anything you can get.

personally i like having a bitch about my singledom sometimes cos god knows i do enough listening to other peoples relationships troubles the rest of the time.

or then again maybe i'm just in denial and that's why i'm still single???=D
 
Yes, that's all it is, it's a whinge thread. :)

Speaking of which, she stood me up today. :X We both had classes till 5 today so we agreed to meet up for coffee/drinks/afternoon tea/whathaveyou. She told me to call her when I finished. So I did. She 'forgot' 8). Apparently she had just got on the train to Gosford to get high.

Well people, karma really does bite and she got caught without a ticket. When I called her, she told me the rail cops were patrolling the train and asked me to pretend she was her alias when they called me up. Apparently they tried to but couldn't get through. And now she owes me a favour. ;)

On the other hand, today I scabbed an old record player that still works! Gots me a Tech 14, which sadly isn't as functional as a Tech 12. Did a nice little number on my Chisel record too. :(
 
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