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Bluelight Singles thread "Living without justification" Part 2

go for it doofster!! :)

As for me, well, i probably shouldn't be posting seeing as i haven't been single for 13 months now, but...

I found that when i was single i really missed my ex. All i wanted was to be witht he person that i still adored, even though it was quite obviously not to be. After about 2 years of moping and hating myself, i finally realised that what i was doing was not benefiting me and i did something i should have done years before - i got over it. I became someone full of confidence, who went out with friends never hoping for something more. I had a few lays and it did me well. I finally found that i was happy - i was contented by what i had and where i was.

Suddenly, only a few months after this transformation, i met someone completely randomly in a club, who was in the same situation as myself and we just clicked... since then we haven't really looked back.

I think it's about perspective - when you realise that you are a bright, intelligent person with a fantastic set of friends, that's when you start to be happy. ANd it's when you're happy that you attract people to you. :)


... oh, and to all those newcomers in this thread, here's a bit of advice that MrFluffy passed on to me in Jan of 2003:
If you're in this thread now, you'll either leave before 6 months is up, or you'll be stuck here for the next 2 years.

Good luck people. :) =D
 
hmmm...

all the cute single girls are in sydney...

all the cute single boys are in melbourne...


i have the solution~!!!!!

lets all move to tarcutta and form loving relationships...



*edit* better? :)
 
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I think im sitting on the fence of something.......
Suspect Z: Just turned 18, im 20.5 10/10 for cradle snatching properties =D, hes a cutie but he is also in ALOT or crap :( He also has an abusive psycho X who abused me via sms and the internet.. which really just made me want him more out of spite, but i actually spent some time with this person and well I THINK i may like him, its a THINK hey.
Because i do not like guys! :P
 
I am a person that is genuinely happy with being single, and to tell you the truth its a position I will chose to be in for quite some time. I was just wondering if anyone else choses to be single or just loves it, and tell me why you do.

I love being single because I have awesome friends (esp my best friend) who all love me, and that is all I need at the moment.
 
Ive recently been offered to play with fire and have a secret sort of thing with someone... why do such things you know are so wrong, seem so tempting?

Someone answer me that.
 
BREAKaBEAT said:
I am a person that is genuinely happy with being single, and to tell you the truth its a position I will chose to be in for quite some time. I was just wondering if anyone else choses to be single or just loves it, and tell me why you do.

I love being single because I have awesome friends (esp my best friend) who all love me, and that is all I need at the moment.
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been single most of my life, really only had one serious girlfriend, pretty much same reason as u, i have been mates with my current mates for ages, some since prep, some since highschool, and simply too busy having fun with them for a relationship with someone else.... all a girlfriend would do i slow me down atm, and thats not what i want
 
Taliana said:
Ive recently been offered to play with fire and have a secret sort of thing with someone... why do such things you know are so wrong, seem so tempting?

Someone answer me that.
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Because human instinct is to seek the things we desire, and to deny our desires is to deny our own impulses and more so we to often desires the things we cannot have. What we cannot have makes it all the more exciting when we finally do have the taste of something we shoulden't be tasting. Those who play with fire will be burnt - It's all a matter of time...

Just accept the consequences of your actions, if you cannot accept the consequence, don't be foolish enough to do them.

Action = reaction = consequence for initial action.

shals :D
 
shal said:
Those who play with fire will be burnt - It's all a matter of time...

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Yes i know, its very true.

Which is why i know i would never do it, i have morals. I just wish i could say with 100% honesty that im not tempted. But i cant.

Such is life i spose.
 
I have too much respect for peoples feelings to ever get caught up in a little affair. Its one way or the highway I say..Do things properly otherwise your charater will suffer later.
 
Life while you are still young is to be played around with, make mistakes and have fun. If nobody is going to get SERIOUSLY hurt by this, Taliana, I would go for it :)

We may not have the chance to do such things when we are older - and as such, may regret them. Act now, enjoy now :)
 
well been single for a year. While Im picky I dont want someone whos going to try and be controlling.

I also dont want someones whos an insensitive so and so.

Yeah the last person I was having a big bitch about apologised but it will be a very long time before I either trust or forgiven him for a few things I dont think that apology covered.

My flatmate is single, hes out every day of the week seeing girls hes chatting to off one of those internet dating sites. Tempting to try one but think people can easily lie on those sites.

Has anyone used one of those sites and had any luck? or one of those telephone chat lines and found their soul mate like an old mate of mine did?
 
Go for it Taliana, its great fun doing stupid things you know you shouldn't. And I seriously doubt you'll end up with a black eye like I did one time.
 
capt cave- it wouldnt be an affair :P since theres no partner on either party.

anyway im enough of this my head keeps saying yes no yes no. go away voices. LOL
 
Taliana said:
capt cave- it wouldnt be an affair :P since theres no partner on either party.
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so where's the potential danger in playing with this fire :)?

breakabeat is right in saying go for it. you might never have the chance again. and you may always wonder "what if i did"...
 
hehe cuz theres still fire. im not gonna go into it its too long and complicated.
/end my scenario! ;)

aaaaaaanyway

Going to see more bands tonight @ Metro transit lounge if any hot single girls or boys want to come to perve on other hot single girls and boys, and to see some wicked bands in the process.

HINT TO SINGLE PEOPLE: JUST GET OUT OF THE HOUSE AND MEET NEW PEOPLE.
 
Maby the type of music has something to do with it, i went to plenty of raves and clubs with plenty of MDMA induced hugging, massaging even the odd pash, but nothing ever eventuated..... got dragged to a retro-club with some new people, alcohol to help with the mega 80's music and picked up my girlfriend of 10 months. I never imagined that so strong a relationship could evolve from such bizarre beginings but if you're single and unhappy, go out and try something different, you never know
 
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