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Bluelight Singles thread "Living without justification" Part 2

Just over four months. I met one lovely boy though but it never became a relationship. I've come to the conclusion that I'm in it for the long haul so I might as well get used to being single.
 
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I've come to the conclusion that I'm in it for the long haul so I might as well get used to being single.
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no point "reserving" yourself to the fact that you are single.. make the most of it, and make yourself happy.

i've only just come to the conclusion that i was always happier to be in a toxic relationship than no relationship at all...


as love is such a powerful and precious emotion, why waste it on someone who doesn't deserve it??
 
not so much single... more like girlfriend less
thats been 2years 4 months 5 days

1234 i'd like you to figure out just how long its been for u... i say the winner should get a prize

-dee
 
You're a terrific person, but I don't want to lead you on, I'm interested in another girl. Was great meeting you, I had so much fun. Take care.

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^^^ thats ok.. that makes up for the "i think you are a great person, really fun to be around... but i want to keep you as a friend. i dont want to spoil that part of us" bullshit that girls always keep feeding us guys :)
 
Hey guys, guys. It's not about quantity of time but quality and I think I've done more whinging and pathetic whining then both of you put together.

So ha! I rule [in some sick, sad, single world] ;)
 
Pfffttt..... I've only been single for 5 weeks and I've allready done more bitching and inane self analysis than everyone else combined. I have got the whole pathetic single thing down to a fine art.

;) :)
 
I hate winning this competition :p but I bet I've been single longer than anyone else in this thread.Been stuffed around by too many girls to count and sick of the rejection.Would like a girl to make the FIRST MOVE FOR ONCE.8 years (Hope someone can beat this,he,he,he,he............ ;) ),NOT by choice either(Mind you I spent 3 of those years in and out of hospital after an accident).

I'm a 27 year old guy by the way.

Anyway,I'm single.Pretty much just live my life and really have forgotten what life is like being anything but single.Would of course like to meet a nice girl, but still waiting.Get's lonely at times,can be depressing at times,but still happy with my great number of friends.

Interestingly,girls that haven't stuffed me around,that I like,end up putting me in the 'friendship' catergory.At least,I feel good about introducing one of these 'friend only girls', to a good mate a few years ago NOW.They got married two months ago :D.

Finally, PLUR to the single people of bluelight ;).
 
Originally posted by che_melbourne
not so much single... more like girlfriend less
thats been 2years 4 months 5 days

1234 i'd like you to figure out just how long its been for u... i say the winner should get a prize

-dee


well, i think it was jan or feb that i broke up with her, so that'd make it around about the same. looks like we're not winning anyway though :)

i'm kinda glad.

thing is, i went the first twenty months or so not giving a fuck about being single, and though i do still like being single (time, precious precious time :D), if i found someone that i connected with i'd be quite happy. pity i'm way too much of a pussy so when i do find someone i generally just run away anyway :)
 
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For those of you long-term singletons - don't you miss sex??!!

I've been single for a few months and miss even touching someone. Am very tactile so rely on this too much I think.
 
True =D But I got the feeling with some people that they weren't getting any generally ..... ;) But I could be wrong of course!

I just have heaps of male friends (and female for that matter on occasion) who complain bitterly about not getting any. Sadness!
 
I think that if you are rejected from a relationship and turn on yourself to find the reasons why then you're missing the point. The reasons will lie in how you and the other person related to each other, not what was not adequite with you. If you're both just being yourself then its all about the connection, not whether one person is not good enough for the other. Why do you think you can have the most unlikely people turn into couples? Its because its all about the love and connection. Don't treat it like you're defected if you get dumped :P Just learn from the time you were with the person and cruise off keeping it in mind you will find someone else that you will have strong feelings for!

There will always be the point that you may have personality traits like selfishness that people do not like in a relationship but then again, if you're getting cut about the rejection then you're obviously not self-centred enough to move on like nothing happened...

Ah I can't be bothered explaining relationships anymore...Too complicated. Just go with the flow.
 
I do miss sex but I had serious issues after my last relationship and going on a total sex ban was the best thing I could have done. I had so much fun going out with my friends and not worrying about picking up. 18 months later I've now got the bitch slut ex out of my head and pick up occasionally just so I don't forget how.

Would love a gf though.

And I like what you said Cpt. Caveman. I always blame myself for everything, now I feel a little better.
 
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