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Bluelight Singles thread "Living without justification" Part 2

I had to move away from what might of been the love of my life...not to mention a girl I've had feelings for 4 years prior and finally with her....the 2 days before I left the country :(


But now, I'm going back to that country and who knows? Things might happen. I'm not counting on it though. I just want to see my friends again.

I suggest some dancing is in order at the meet up!!
 
onetwothreefour said:


and doofqueen: know that feeling. just let it heal over. i think that if somebody's lying at the beginning of a relationship, it's just a terrible sign. my ex-girlfriend did that, and she turned out to be a compulsive liar. yay for two years of my life gone :p

it's best if you find someone who really respects you; even it takes years to find, it's better than being hurt (in some ways).
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That's the thing though. He never lied. I always knew he had an ex in another state that he was going back to but this was supposed to be a one off/fb thing and it turned into a relationship (his fault cos he acted like it was!) and i knew i shouldn't have gotten involved with him and i saw what was going to happen and i let it happen anyway and now things are all fucked up and i'm hurting so bad and it sux because we only saw each other for three weeks and i feel like a pathetic little shit upset over such a short 'relationship' and he is totally avoiding me when i need closure. :(

I'm so better off not being with anyone, not having fuck buddies, not having relationships and not even having sex. I think need to concentrate on 'me' for a while and not other people.

I dunno...

I havn't cried about a boy for about three years and it really really bites :(
 
Well, no emotional venting here... i ain't got no woman but my confidence and self esteem are slammin!

I'm just livin in the moment, having fun, doin what comes naturally and not looking for anyone else to fill my life. You gotta be whole yourself before you look for someone else. Others won't fill that void, only mask it.

I feel great at the moment, but who knows what the future will hold? I'll find out when i get there, i'm living here and now, not in some distant imagination of a better future or replaying an unhappy past. Stepping out of my mind and into the present. It's good.

Sorry to bring positivity to the thread.

Continue the bitching.

Adikkal
 
hhc_king said:
^^ i envy you wish i could be that positive about being single
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It's not a question of being positive, it's a question of acting positive.. convincing yourself you are even if you're not (not that I'm implying that Adikkal isn't being sincere).

Adikkal's positivity is what will get him out of this thread quicker than others who constantly lament and wrap themselves in their perceived inadequacies. Positive attitudes breed positive outcomes.
 
werd....macksta is on the money. you find it in the most special places when you dont look at all. =D
 
Originally posted by Adikkal
You gotta be whole yourself before you look for someone else. Others won't fill that void, only mask it.


very nicely put, i believe that too.
 
Macksta said:
It's not a question of being positive, it's a question of acting positive.. convincing yourself you are even if you're not (not that I'm implying that Adikkal isn't being sincere).

Adikkal's positivity is what will get him out of this thread quicker than others who constantly lament and wrap themselves in their perceived inadequacies. Positive attitudes breed positive outcomes.
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I've been positive about being single for nearly 2 years.

Been positive about not having sex for over 2 years now.


I still haven't got anything from being positive.


On the other hand though, why be negative and sad when you can be positive and happy?
 
The phone beeps... Cool, a new SMS... from an unknown number...
"Wow love the photo's in ***** mag. Look gorgeous!"



I decide to be polite but firm...
"well thanks very much mystery person but who is this?"



A couple of hours pass...the phone beeps again...
"Caitlin... we met at the ******* party"


Oh yeah. Caitlin. I remember Caitlin. I met you at a party a couple of weeks back. You seemed pretty and nice. A brief chat and I got your number...a keen SMS back from you 2 days later then I never heard from you again. 1 ignored sms. 1 ignored phone call. 1 ignored Shnouzer.

Until now...

Until you spy a photo of me in something. I decide to reply...
"yeah hi caitlin, i remember you. Just didn't think I would ever need your number again because you never did get back to me before. thanks though. Bye."


I may still be single but at least I can hold my head high :)

[EDIT - this is a different girl to the one in the situation I posted about earlier, just remarkably similar circumstances for both of them]
 
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go schnouzer!!! ;)

that's awesome work man! :) i'm really proud for you

scammers huh? who needs them!!!!

big schnapps for the frosty sms....me rikey!
 
Fuck I am so proud schnouzer - just cus I have thought to write the same thing before, but never bothered. I have just ignored people like that. To speak out is very cool !
 
onetwothreefour said:
littleone....i wonder if he should be blamed so much
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oh i think he deserves the blame. he was an arsehole the entire time. first kiss (when she's on a comedown and fucked up ) 'is that how you normally kiss?'. first date- stood her up. nite out with friends- ignored her all night then chucked a tantrum when he found her chatting with an old friend. valentines day- he dumped her, on the phone no less.

i may be slightly biased as her best friend, but i dont think there's any doubt where the blame lays here.
 
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