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Bluelight Singles - from begining to end! don't we love the merge feature!

OH FUCK IVE HIJACKED THE THREAD AGAIN... ITS THE BOPGIRL AND BACKO THREAD

my address is 492 Maple Systems Road. Its up State in an area called Cybercreek
 
Cosmic Mist said:
Stars: Just because i'm no longer single i can't post here anymore?? QueenBeat isn't single and she posts here!! Damn double standards!
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Just post as if you're still single and nobody notices. ;)
 
have you people heard or irc? most of the last three pages has been innane chatter and whinging bulshit. there's also been some good points made, but it's hard to find them amongst all the dross. especially seeing how most of the crap is posted by ppl that live in the same fukn town. go to the pub ffs and talk about it there. or use the telephone. heard of that?

stars is right, not everyone that posts in here is necesarily despondent, but it does seem at times that the title of this thread should have been desperate and dateless =D

and yes, it is patronising to say, go find yourself. i found myself a while back. still single!! so what, the right person hasn't come along. i'll keep looking, and if i haven't found anything by the time BopGirl turns 50, then i'm in :p.

*slinks back to the corner and has a seat*
 
mr_fluffy said:
i'll keep looking, and if i haven't found anything by the time BopGirl turns 50, then i'm in :p.
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^^^^ There are exceptions fluffster! You don't have to wait until I'm 50 =D
 
The thread may be negative but it's kind of informative and sometimes funny (eg the banter)

About the "find yourself" bit, just curious though - how do you really know if you've found yourself?? What are the signs??? Some people could be 80 and still haven't found themselves ;).

Singlehood sucks sometimes, but it's interesting as well :)
 
There's only so many 'single' related topics that you can have a deep and meaningful discussion about. The banter breaks up the heavy (and sometimes depressing) topics that come up in this thread. Life is 95% inane banter so I'm sure the singles thread won't suffer from a few laughs.

And whinging bullshit may be bullshit to you but it's how some people vent and get things off their chest. They may not want to do it in IRC or ICQ which are places where you're actually speaking to specific people. Messages boards are that much more impersonal. And besides, IRC is extremely cliquey. People who aren't IRC hoes may not feel comfortable trying to make their way into conversation.
 
*dresses like a nun in preperation for her 50th with bopgirl

bop:hell yeah!

backo: just book me in and i will b there.

QB: totally agree with you there! *cough* why r u in here? *cough* =D

maybe the flirting continually could be toned down guys...but dont have a mini war over it... =D maybe i should join the flirting to??? ;)
 
I'd flirt with you doofie, except that you'd probably think i was boring and not flirt back! ;) =D

i agree that the inane banter can become a bit overwhelming, but so too can the heavy "why doesn't anybody love me?" discusions...

Personally i think that an even mixture of the two would do nicely.
 
Hey i understand your concern and this is why I am constantly leaving this thread.... Im sorry that people like to seek my attention.

but this thread becomes extremely depressing... We need to represent that not all singles turn into depressed head cases.. some are particularly flirty and like to have a fun time... So our contribution is to bring it out of the state of ruin.

If u really have issues with my presence in these threads tell me and I wont participate. Im happy to leave it to the suicidal ramblings of depressed BL.... I maintain that many of them get too introspective which can work against them....

I like to make people smile.... If im not doing a good job... fire me. The singles thread represents single people... I am single therefore I have a right to post here... THis online persona is also my social persona.. so by saying that u find me inane is a criticism of my character that I take to heart.

Leaves the thread feeling like he has won yet another victory.

Damn Queen Beat is on the ball =D
 
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to starfalls and backo, i certaintly wasnt talking directly or about either of you. i was talking about the general vibe of this thread.
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i wasnt speaking about a spirtual journey about finding yourself, but more to do with finding out hwo you really are. i mean how can you know who you want if you dont who you really are?
 
Backo said:
.... Im sorry that people like to seek my attention.

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...pops backos attention bubble... ;) the reason people seek ur attention is coz ur so dam cute =D j/k and u post in here like every second reply... 8)

breakabeat: u've had a lot of time to think bout this havent you... :) *hands u a corona*

i dont need to find myself. i know exactly who i am and what i want. what type of relationship i want. what i want in my life. what sort of guy i want in my life... and right now i dont want any type of relationship or anything along those lines. im happy plodding along right now enjoying my time out and just taking my own time to find what i want...

if something comes up...so be it...if it doesnt...oh well...
 
*starfalls69* said:
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if something comes up...so be it...if it doesnt...oh well...
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perfect.

the reason why it took so long to reply is cus i have internet access at work only which i was not in attendance today. i went to an internet cafe just to make u feel better
 
hey guess what, im STILL single ;)

think ive been here since the start of the series of these threads, impressive huh?

not to say i dont have my eye on some ppl...
 
I find it i nteresting to note that as soon as you become unavailable it seems that that makes you all the more attractive to others... Since having removed myself from the market in a very semi-permanent way, it has come to my attention that people for whom a burned a semi sort of a flame for also carried a semi sort of a flame for me. It seems that people are scared by the potential o factually being with you, but when you';re unavailable, then they feel they can tell you these things.

What is with that??? :\ <-- confused face
 
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