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Bluelight Singles - from begining to end! don't we love the merge feature!

Apples, no real pointers for you hon, I haven't really been with anyone that much younger than me. Heh if i had it'd be illegal ;)
I've been with a man 12 years older than me (i was 18, him 30) and i can't say the age difference had any impact, although I sure learnt a lot ;)
Although I suppose it would be no different than if you give guys your own age some pointers. Nobody’s perfect in the sack and it takes time to learn what pleases each partner, I don’t see how you showing him what you like can be viewed as condescending. Don’t make it a point to mention the age difference in relation to sexual performance though as I can see how that could lead to problems.
GL hon
[ 01 November 2002: Message edited by: PsychoKitten ]
 
I give up. can someone please explain men to me.
cos even the nice guys i no turn into wankers at some point.
 
you obviously don't know the guys i know. 99% of them are champs... especially my b/f. :)
*skips happily out of thread*
 
I think a lot of guys put on the nice guy attitude just to try and impress you then as soon as they have shagged you a few times they grow weary.
I've worked out why I need a gf. To help wax the hard to reach places. I have to hand it to the chicks, waxing is a real pain in the ass. Next time I'm just going to pro.
 
While we're on a bout waxing, let me ask you something (that's a non-specific "you" btw):
When you get a brasilian, how do you cope with all the stubble down there????
;)
Apart from that, still just cruising through the end of semester, attempting to look as though i'm studying, when in reality i'm sitting on my arse and doing pretty much sweet f/a. Still single, still happy just being misty. :)
 
You don't really get stubble after a waxing; the hair grows back softer and sparser, not at all like it does when shaving.
Apples - asked a couple of friends who are currently the older woman and they said it's fine to acknowledge the age difference just don't make it a point to do so in the bedroom, his age doesn't have any correlation with his sexual performance.
[Edit] and for ingrown hairs - never had a problem wih them but there's products you can buy to help prevent them :p
[ 03 November 2002: Message edited by: PsychoKitten ]
 
yeah, i have my legs waxed so i know about not stubble... what i should have said was ingrown hair, but didn't due to trying to think about too many things at once. ;)
 
Originally posted by Hardicus:
Man, after being dumped by my ex about 3? weeks ago...now i'm in a bit of a predicament. She wants me back. So what the fuck am I supposed to do huh? YES I love her...YES I need her...YES it kills be to be away from her
If you really love her maybe it's worth taking the chance to make it work again....I don't know the details but sometimes real love is worth the pain. Me and my boy went through a lot of pain for about 2 years and now we've been together for almost a year and it's better then it has ever been before. If you love her you should seriously consider it.
[ 03 November 2002: Message edited by: sweetaskhandi ]
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To Hardicus:
With the one and only guy I have ever loved (in my short life of 20 I must say) it took me breaking up with him and being apart from him for three weeks to realise I really did love him and wanted to spend any time I could with him (I was moving away in the next 5 months and thought it was inevitable anyway.)
Being away from him just made me realise how much he meant to me and how much I utterly adored him. When we got back together everything was FANTASTIC :)
But only take her back if you trully think you are meant to be.
I hate to admit it but two years now after I did move away I am still thinking he was the one and that is a sad thing :(
Dont give up on your chance :)
 
im sick of being single.
dead sick of it all.
Im also sick of dating..and that boring inane small chat you have to do and the same stories...ugh...just to know someone.
So if any bluelight girl that is out there who is reasonably attractive and wants to be pleasured many times over please, come to Perth.
im slowly going insane here :/
 
Originally posted by sydkiwi:
I give up. can someone please explain men to me.
cos even the nice guys i no turn into wankers at some point.
yeah I agree...in the last year I have had NO luck whatsoever. I have been in mega drought territory!! My sob stories... one left the country after leading me to believe he was going to stay here long term, another turned out to be gay, and 2 were (good) friends who turned around after the event and said sorry, don't think we should go there (you think I woulda learnt after the first one)
I'm not a person who will just approach a guy in a club or bar, so I find that I tend to fall for friends who I have got to know over a period of time. Why do I keep getting burned?!?
Don't get me wrong, I'm happy being single most of the time but, damn I just need some snugging!!!
[ 04 November 2002: Message edited by: sKatteredchickee ]
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do people really think there is someone out there that is the one? i mean like your perfect partner or soul mate?
if so does that mean i could of passed them on the street without even knowing it, and that means i will never get that chance again?
 
Originally posted by doon:
do people really think there is someone out there that is the one? i mean like your perfect partner or soul mate?

I dunno...yeah I would like to think so, cos I look at people like my parents and I know they were pefect for each other.
But then, I haven't come close to meeting anyone who i could imagine spending my whole life with. Maybe this generation has more expectations of a partner?!? Because we are so self sufficient, a life partner really does need to be someone you connect with on an intellectual and emotional level, not just someone who will provide a good home for you.
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my second to last bf we connected on all levels.
pity how he treated me.
why is it i attract such assoles?
 
Originally posted by doon:
do people really think there is someone out there that is the one? i mean like your perfect partner or soul mate?
yep.
if so does that mean i could of passed them on the street without even knowing it, and that means i will never get that chance again?
i hope not. i'd like to think it generally works out.
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^^ I think thats a load of crap.. I've met at least 10+ females "who were the one" for many months+. It's just whoever is making you feel most comfortable at the time is 'the one'.
All totally subjective in my view of the world :)
*in regards to doons question (prom bet me to a reply :> )
[ 04 November 2002: Message edited by: wazza ]
 
yeah i tend to agree with you wazza, i mean there are so many women that could be the one, i guess it is just a matter of choosing the right one out of that bunch!
 
Bah... there is no right one. There is simply compatible people that eventually become incompatible and stab each other through the eye with an icicle.
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Contemplate this on the tree of woe
 
Hey Disco, feeling a bit cynical by chance? ;) I don't think i'd like to mess with the people you seem to mess with... no icicles in the eye for me!!
However, i don't believe that there is ONE person for each other person, but several people. I think this is how (for example) my parents could be married and then divorced, and then remarried very happily again to other people. It's just a matter of common dreams and goals.
I oncemet a girl whom i believed to be one in a million. Since we broke up i have realised that that if she was one in a million, then there should be at least 5 more guy/girls like her just in NSW. :)
Just my 0.02 :)
 
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