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Bluelight Singles - from begining to end! don't we love the merge feature!

I really think I have more fun and am happier single and am a bit jealous of you guys for being single, just a bit.
Sometimes relationships just get to be too much trouble :(
 
yeah being single is quite fun, minus the regular sex, but i guess along with the regular sex comes the regular problems, so i am quite happy to pull my dick at the moment bwhahhahah
 
LOL @ Doon! Hah! That funky chicken dance really made me smile... even though i used to hate the fucker in primary school. :)
And yeah, i love the freedom that comes with being single - it's great. There's also something great about having someone special to talk to and share your moments with, but here's a conundrum for you all:
When you are sick, do you want the S/O to come over and comfort you, or should they keep well clear? WHich option is preferable? (assumingyou'r enot in hospital of course, in which case it's pretty fucking obvioius where they should be) ;)
Any thoughts?
 
If im sick id rather my boyfriend stay away.
But I doubt I will have a boyfriend for much longer anyways.
I think I will be happier in the singles land and I will be doing a long stint here :)
Now I just have to get off my arse and do something about this bullshit situation, which I will say has probably been the most complicated and pathetic relationship I have ever had.
 
yeah you can get regular sex when your single, but it takes much more work, i mean you have to go pick up etc, unless you have a fuck buddy, but even then those sorts of arrangements tend to get fucked up!!
mmmmmm sex
hehehehe
 
I was starting to get a bit worried about this thread, getting all a bit too deep and meaningful for my liking. We need a bit more alcohol fueled mayhem.
*Slides up to Boppychick*
So do you come here often?
 
So again i may be legitimately able to step outside of this thread for a little bit.
Though nothing is rock solid.
ITS A WRAP.
Don't plunge me with your crop.
hehe ;)
Confused? Rightly so...
 
I'm bored with being single again.
always goes in cycles.
frustrated at the work it takes to even get a one night stand. really can't be arsed.
ah well. such is life.
 
miss apple: I think we all no how u feel at times I like being single today. no today I dont like being single... never ending. I guess Im still waiting for the right person to come along. but arent we all??
 
Originally posted by miss apple:

frustrated at the work it takes to even get a one night stand. really can't be arsed.

Um youre a chic, the work it requires to get a one night stand is as much effort as is required to go to any club and ask a guy if hed like to fuck you....are you really THAT lazy?
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Yeah but RR, you have to got o the trouble of finding someone who you would even consider having a one night stand with - i guess it all depends on your standards really... ;)
 
Originally posted by RobertRollie:
Um youre a chic, the work it requires to get a one night stand is as much effort as is required to go to any club and ask a guy if hed like to fuck you....are you really THAT lazy?
By that you’re implying that neither men in general nor apples has standards.
Now we’ve all had moments where we’ve been fucked up on drugs or alcohol and have ended up with someone we wouldn’t touch with a ten-foot pole whilst sober. The problem with this is the sex is nearly always bad and IMHO bad sex is worse than no sex.
Having a one night stand is not as simple as being horny, having a couple of drinks for courage and walking up to the nearest bloke and saying "d’ya wanna fuck?" and it’s ignorant to believe that just because apples is female that she has an easier time of it than blokes.
Fact is we don’t have it any easier. Yeah that approach might work in 3/5 cases but is it worth it?
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oh so you wanna have standards now? well beggars cant be choosers yknow ;) You cant be lazy and expect good sex ;P
 
i dont believe miss apple was bitching or whining so much that she deserves ur unasked-for opinon/criticism.
if u're not gonna have anything constructive to contribute besides making degratory allusions then i suggest u take them elsewhere.
if u cant spare a thought for another person's feelings, i will (and please, no arguments about this being JUST a forum board)
henceforth i will be deleting any non-construstive comments from u in this thread.
u or others might consider that a gestapo act but u've crossed the lines of courtesy and decency too many times in the many incarnations of the singles thread.
not happy? dont pollute this thread, u can take it up with me or any aus social mod in email.
 
[Rant ON]
Man, after being dumped by my ex about 3? weeks ago...now i'm in a bit of a predicament. She wants me back. So what the fuck am I supposed to do huh? YES I love her...YES I need her...YES it kills be to be away from her....and then there's the sex...
But I CAN'T get back with her. It's just not possible, it would just bring more pain and more heartache. So now I have to relive the pain of being dumped...BY DUMPING HER!
I don't know what is harder...avoiding the issue so I can keep the slip hope that perhaps we could get back together and be happy. Or tell her that it's truely over, and that there's NO CHANCE OF EVER GOING BACK. This is probably the hardest thing i've ever had to do, and I can honestly tell you that I wish I was a million miles away.
[Fuckn rant OFF]
 
well its been almost a month now and i suppose to a point i am getting used to being single. I have had some pretty average days lately and have been on some extremely expensive spending sprees (almost bought myself enough furniture to fill another apartment). I have been offered sex 4 times in the past fortnight by guys that i thought were just my friends, now i think otherwise.... so if u want to be my fuckbuddy then get to the back of the line it does suck wanting sex 24 7 but believe me if anyone has will power to get through something then it is me and i don't plan on jumping everything in sight just to keep my hormones happy.
the good things about being single though, are 1. i have only 1/3 of the clothes to wash each week
2. have less people to clean up after 3.Actually get use my own car when i want rather having to find where my bf has gone with
4.I actually get to work on time now because i don't have anyone making me late.
think i could get used of this single life
 
Originally posted by *Cosmic Mist*:
Yeah but RR, you have to got o the trouble of finding someone who you would even consider having a one night stand with - i guess it all depends on your standards really... ;)
that's exactly it. it's all about standards. and I'm a very very picky girl ;)
man this always happens when I try to write short posts. no one knows what the hell I mean and it ends up causing arguments LOL
thanks vurt & psychokitten :)
RR - yeah I could get drunk and pick up any random guy. But the fact is that I've done that many times before (in my one night stand stage that I went through) and psychokitten is right...I'd rather have no sex than bad sex with some guy I'll be chewing my arm off in the morning to get away from.
What I was actually referring to is a situation I'm in right now where I've met a cute lovely boy who just wants casual sex which is just perfect for me cause that's all I want. Trouble is he's 9 years younger than me and lives with his parents somewhere in the depths of Sydney suburbia so actually finding a time when we can meet up and do the deed is proving to be a bit of a problem.
However I'm going to persevere. The idea of me being able to give him the experience of sleeping with an older woman is kinda cool ;)
Actually...has anyone had the experience of being with someone either a great deal older or younger than you? Any tips or advice or just retelling your experiences would be great. I'm torn between acknowledging the age difference and giving him pointers but worrying if this will come across as being condescending.
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