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Bluelight Singles - from begining to end! don't we love the merge feature!

/me picks up thread and points in different direction.
so, what's the longest that all the people here have been single for? yeah, i'm just depressed. 11 months for me with not even a prospect :(
grr.
lonely!brad
 
I think the longest break for me has been 4 or 5 months. This is since I really started dating which was when I was 17 (Its a few months till Im 21 now.) I like being single and I would like to be single for a long time now that I have been for like what, 2 days. But something always seems to pop up. Maybe I should make sure I am for a while though. I think I would like to be single for the holidays for once :)
 
a year for me. but then thats how long my longest relationship lasted.
Im starting to think Im ment to remaim single for the rest of my life.
 
^^^
That's the spirit! Expect the worst so when things all decide to flux and you're standing there with your tounge down the throat of the cutest, nicest person you've ever met, it can be more of a "WOO!" moment. At least, thats my theory.
Longest time I've been single would be about 9 months, and it was self imposed... kinda. :\
[ 06 November 2002: Message edited by: Fetish Jester ]
 
I could beat you all, I could prolly say I'm in my first *real* relationship now, and I'm 21yo ;P
 
I thought i could win this with my extended period of singleness (scattered with the odd grope/one night stand,) but Miss Apple beat me to it...
I don't think that being single is that bad though - it's kind of nice to be your own person and not have that siamese-twin (ie, joined at the hip) feeling 24/7. When the other person tries to control your every action with guilt trips, you know you can do better...
[EDIT] In answer to the stated question, i'm coming close to 1 1/2 years, a lot of which has been through bad timing and misconceptions. [/EDIT]
*sigh* :\
[ 06 November 2002: Message edited by: *Cosmic Mist* ]
 
miss apple: maybe I don't *WANNA* beat that!
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This is a very sad competition.
I can't see myself voluntarily avoiding women for 2 1/2 years to win this.
But, I don't think I have any choice on the matter.
2 1/2 years to go......
 
i think I can beat you all...my only relationship to date has been my "boyfriend" when we were 11 but since it didn't progress past holding hands I tend to think it doesn't really count.
been a few one night pickups and first dates but that is all.
don't really care, I know I can handle being on my own and I happy in myself (which i cant say for a lot of friends who have had plenty of relationships). just every now and then i think it would be nice to have someone to share life with
 
I think it's easier to describe the entire length of time in my life that I haven't been single in my 22.5 years of living.
Exactly two weeks. We were very much in love, but she chose to return to her first love; heroin.
 
Hehe, almost 3 years since my last relationship (which was pretty long term) and none since then...
I wouldn't mind being in a relationship but I don't think I'm ready for a serious/long term one just yet... I'm having too much fun :D
 
I went from a 3 year relationship to nothing for a year and a half. And by nothing I mean no sex either.
 
i sometimes think the reason that i'm not in a relationship is that i don't know myself well enough to be able share myself with someone else - that basically if you don't posess yourself, you can't give yourself to another person
but then sometimes i think it's just a cop out, a stupid excuse...
anyone else had a similar thought or thoughts on it?
 
hey look when it comes down to it I'm damn picky. I have this thing about not taking second best cause it'd be a waste of time. Consequently I don't think I give boys enough of a chance. So I've ended up single for this long. Maybe I'm just far to independent to let any boy come close to me now.
Also, 18 months of those 5 years was spent travelling...where it's quite difficult to start up a serious relationship.
But I don't need to make excuses for myself. I'm happy with my situation. I'm just getting so god damn impatient. And unfortunately also quite jealous of all of you people who seem to be able to meet the girl/boy of your dreams after 6 months....but I get stuck with lots of people who like me who I just don't like back.
ah crap. I said I wasn't going to whinge anymore in this thread. :\
 
Currently,I'm single,have been for a while.
Sadly,I recently had a falling out with a girl I really cared about ("We were just friends for a bit but almost went out").We are currently up in the air as friends or anything more.But have briefly talked at a party and she knows how I feel about her.
So,I've decided to leave it and am leaving it to her to chase me,if she really cares about me,she'll contact me again.
I'm NOT waiting around for her but.Deep down I hope she does contact me soon.In the mean time I'm open to meeting a nice fun loving girl and enjoying life in general.
In recent times I took up DJing to pick up chicks but it hasn't worked so far :( So,I think I'll quit DJing.No I'm just kidding,I'll pick up a chick soon,he,he,he.......... :)
At least I've still got my sense of humour and I love the music I play and get to listen to.
My best advice to the people here feeling down about being single ("Yes I feel that way myself from time to time") is:-
Surround yourself with family and friends,make new friends as well if you like and keep yourself busy doing something you love.
Good luck to everyone ("Myself included,he,he... :) ") and I hope we all find that special someone and enjoy our time NOW while we are single.
:)
[ 06 November 2002: Message edited by: Wacky ]
 
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