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Bluelight Singles - from begining to end! don't we love the merge feature!

Fluffy: Who said the title refered only to guys? ;)
Oh boy, that's just too wrong...
Besides, I would have added 2 of cups' suggestion, but there's not enough room in the title...
Everyone should have figured out by now that the endings of my titles have no bearing on the content of the thread, they're just me stuffing around, if anyone wants me to stop or tone it down, lemme know in an email so I know you're serious... And remember the lack of tone with all things typographic...
2 of Cups: Just go to the laundromat, then you don't have to worry about your sister killing you when you break your washing machine... ;)
Glowy: My place, Friday lunchtime? It's a date! ;)
Dante: Ahh, that makes sense... I can see what you mean... I guess when you get into a relationship with someone you really like its hard to control your desire to show them how much you like them... Some people like the attention tho... Damn hard innit? ...No need to go make a eunech of yourself tho, that's kinda irreversible... And besides, I'm still single, have been for the entire length of these threads, and more, and you don't see me entertaining thoughts of testicular separation do you? hehehe
Anna: All that I can say has been said already... Just keep in contact alright? *hugs* :)
hugs_all_round: Whenever I end up in the same situation there usually isn't any problem with awkward silences... However, that's not nescessarily a good thing because the words that fill the silence are usually about her boyfriend... :/
 
Tarsy, a good friend I went to uni with was known as 'the original dollar fifty girl' due to her supposed penchant for the laundromat... however, due to inflation (damn laundromat is now at least $3 if you wanna get to the end of the spin cycle), I don't think I'll take up the habit any time soon... even if those machines are of industrial strength ;) :D :D
Oh yeah, I'm sposed to contributing constructive things! Well, I just went for a long lunchtime walk round the river, and dammit if it didn't clear out any tuesday single blues! I'm enjoying my freedom today! *hugs* for all :)
 
eer tuesday single blues...acturly just tuesday blues eerrrrrr! Or maybe just day off work blues and being bored...mmm still have 2 more days off this week im not going to survive!!!! :(
[ 30 April 2002: Message edited by: BUNKUM_BUNNY ]
 
DJ Kitty: Could you explain how that comment makes any sense what-so-ever? 'Cos it doesn't seem to atm... Does it mean that if I think I'm not single, then I'm not? ...right... 8)
[ 30 April 2002: Message edited by: Tarsarlan ]
 
Tarsy: But it's not when I'm in a relationship, it's before I get into a relationship... :P
And how long have these threads been around for, cause I think I've been single that long too :P
 
hugs_all_round: Here are a few possibilities regarding the Ominous Silence:
  • We don't really 'click' with the attractive other which is too bad. Move on.
  • We realise upon gaining greater proximity that we aren't really that attracted to them after all. Hence, enthusiasm for conversation on our part kinda dwindles or dies completely. A potentially tricky situation. When safe to do so, move on or wait for other person to excuse themself.
  • Conversely, the other person's not interested or loses interest. Move along, move along.
  • All of the above. Buy new vacuum cleaner.
I think if the person we're talking to is genuinely interested in even knowing us (not even necessarily hooking up etc), they'd at least make as much effort as we are to keep the conversation going. Unfortunately, and this is just my personal view right now, a large majority of girls especially seem to think that every guy that talks to them just want to get in their pants which is probably fair enough seeing the number of guys who do. Still, it can be quite frustrating and rather insulting at the same time.
Lastly, there are some people with whom the silences aren't even awkward i.e. you are both happy be around each other without feeling the need to talk all the time... now THAT to me is something special and of course, rare... so as to remain that way :) .
[ 30 April 2002: Message edited by: yaya ]
 
*has finally found the sumbody who makes silence so comfortable*
I haven't posted in this thread for a while, cos I figured I was gonna be alone forever and there wasn't much point goin on about it.........but, after years of bein hurt, screwed over, learnin to deal with bein on my own, and thinking that finding the right guy would always be just a dream, I've met a guy who tells me to believe that dreams can come true....
It's so new, and scarey, yet so wonderful at the same time............all I wanna say is, if it can happen for me, it can happen for anybody!!!
*goes back to workin on her plans to follow her heart to melbourne*
 
Originally posted by Dante:
And how long have these threads been around for, cause I think I've been single that long too :P
Apart froma 2 month fling with a guy in London, I have been single the entire time I have been a bluelighter...and for about a year before that.
Maybe I should stop posting in this thread. It's getting embarrassing.
BMW...congratulations.
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Hmm... Sadly I don't think I could lose a competition to see who's been single the longest... But frankly the time doesn't bother me, but well, I'm only 22... If I were still single in a few years it'd bother me, but that's not gonna happen...
Nice post yaya :) In my experience however, most girls at the parties that I've been to have been willing to talk, even if they did have a boyfriend, and if they did think that I just wanted to get into their pants, they at least gave me the opportunity to prove that that's not all that I wanted... It's part of it, but not all ;)
 
yep - single here and really I have no gripes about it. I still manage to get hugs from complete strangers chat to girls and meet new people.
I think one of the things I like to think while I'm single is that I'm able to go out and do things which maybe I wouldn't want to/be able to do in a relationship (at least without feeling bad about in the morning) - for example: head out at a moments notice and return sometime late the next day, not organise everything in life for two (or maybe more? ;) )... Single life has it's ups and downs though... It's just a matter of focusing on the good things and putting the crap thoughts behind ya :)
 
Holla fellow beings of the human race.
The one thing that pisses me off about being single is the way fellow female friends loose all independence when they find a new guy. I am sick of friends saying "I'll see if whatshisface wants to go" and you know that if they don't then she will be a no show. Then when they do come out they don't even put in the effort to enjoy themselves. You have to remind them that she is allowed to enjoy life without whatshisface around. Why is it that girls loose all ability to think for themselves when a new guy comes along? Then when the relationship breaks up they wonder they've lost their place in the group. I have lost a lot of respect for some of my friends through their actions and not taking the consequences for them. Throwing yourself at a guy and then wondering why he has no respect for you is just pathetic.
And what's with the trying to set me up with a guy all the time! (ok, so maybe one wasn't too bad). And then they look at me like there's something wrong for not wanting what they THINK i need. The best relationship i have ever had was one of mutual respect. He ended up wanting something more that i didn't, we are still best friends to this day. I apologize if I come across as a bitch. But I see nothing wrong with being single.
It’s not like I have leprosy is it!
Thankyou. :)
 
ADSR I so know how you feel...and it shits me! My friends do it all the time to me...they think I have something against their boyfriends or something...but really I just want to go out have a fun nite with just them for a change! *mmm misses the good old days* :(
But on a happier note the best thing about being single is you can have a crush on someone!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! *jumps up and down with excitment*
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*marks off another day on the calander*
Yep 5 months and still single and loving it :)
[ 01 May 2002: Message edited by: Schwoop ]
 
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