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'i dont know, i think sex is just overrated.'
'oh no, its soo good! man, what the hells wrong with you?'
<insert extented discussion, on topic, do not even allow that she may be right>
'well.... be that as it may, you still havent slept with me.....'
tada!
sex is easy to get, and ever so very very good, its all this realationship twaddle that is so hard.
 
^^RRollie.... Shows you've got an open-minded and trust worthy relationship. Just because you're it's not a dedicated and monogamous doesn't mean you'd care any less.
 
Originally posted by Innocuous:
sex is easy to get, and ever so very very good, its all this realationship twaddle that is so hard.
I think a few here would disagree with you.
LIKE ME!!!
*edit*
On the sex part, that is.
[ 02 September 2002: Message edited by: Russ ]
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sex is so totally and utterly over rated it's ridiculous. I've had pretty amazing sex before (which is why I'm not keen on one night stands anymore...I know how good it can be) but I can honestly live without it.
I know I know all you people in couples will tell me it's just cause I'm not getting any. But that's not true. I've chosen not to have any unless I meet someone I think I can fall in love with. Until then I'm completely happy, fulfilled and enjoying life without sex. It can be done.
(I'm going to love digging this post up when I finally do meet a boy ;) )
 
I still stick to my thoughts that if you think sex is overrated then you must not be GETTING any good sex or any sex at all!!! And be getting i mean having.
I agree with miss apples to an extent, i at the moment would also not sleep with someone unless i thought there was a future (thats my rule in most situations) and i haven't slept with anyone in a long while... it is not a big deal, but it does not show that sex is overrated.
About RR and Hijinx- i think it is a good idea, i think another rule that should be added is that you are not allowed to talk about the people you are sleeping with or say that you may be sleeping with someone. You both know the other may be, but you dont need to know who it is, when it is, etc... I personally dont think i would be able to do this, but maybe you guys can pull it off.
Good luck.
 
*erhem*
russ, that line of discussion only works in a situation where your physical proximity to the another debater allows it to procede to the *see* i was right stage... but practice makes perfect. ;)
i hold my view however, sex is not underarted, its just performed by underqualified individuals far too often, thus giving it a bad name. i'll allow though thats its not necissarily easy to get laid, like in sparsy populated deserts for instance.
sex is overrated? man, next i'll hear, 'i'm not interested in sexual satisfaction, like, i dont need it. i just want True Love.'
oh, i see, thats here too.
*sigh* delusion.
.....i'm so jaded to today, anyone would think singledom was getting to me.
 
Originally posted by Russ:

I think a few here would disagree with you.
LIKE ME!!!
[ 02 September 2002: Message edited by: Russ ]
i'd say that sex is very easy to get... i mean u can pay for it... but its all about quality... thats the bottom line... :)
Innocuous : i'm not interested in sexual satisfaction, like, i dont need it. i just want True Love. :P
Gen : yep... my opinions are based totally on my pool of experience... :P i'm gonna go out and kill somebody tonight so i can talk about murder better too and have an opinion on that... :P
(NB : the previous statement is untrue and in no way meant to be taken seriously) Better put that in for a disclaimer.
i'm happy being single... world is my oyster... no need to worry about other people... and i can live in the fantasy world without all the complications of a real relationship... although i must say... my brother has been going out with the same girl for 6 years... they are as happy as ever and i guess they will get married... and he's a better person for it... good luck to him... (i talk to my brother about his relationship with his g/f and to my family about that sorta stuff Gen, so i'm not totally ignorant) but he is not me and everybody has different likes and dislikes...
To me a relationship seems like the most mature and adult-ish thing a person (2 people) can do, because in the end the whole point of a relationship, if you remove all forms of birth control and knowledge of pregnancy, is to have a child and reproduce... sex in the end is all about reproduction... i am not really ready to be an adult just yet... i'm still very much a child... and that's just the way i like it!
still got plenty of good years left... the best is yet to come... would i seriously want to be in a relationship whilst touring europe for 6 months... i don't think so!! :D
RR : good idea, sex and a relationship are different, although very complementary... :) just don't get anybody pregnant... ;) and also don't forget "absence makes the heart go yonder, err... go blonder... err... grow fonder" :D
Cohaa
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*hugs for Dante*
i wasnt gonna post in a singles thread for a long while just because i hate being single. actually i dont have problem with being single because im a strong independant person but im still really down about recent happenings (refer to singles thread v.13). offering my condolences to dante though is a good reason to be back though. if you need an ear im here to talk hun...been there done that know what its like
 
Originally posted by Innocuous:
i hold my view however, sex is not underarted, its just performed by underqualified individuals far too often, thus giving it a bad name.
Here, here.
Where do we sex professionals go to get certification of our infinite studliness? (And before some smartass answers, the nearest sexual health clinic is not the right answer :) )
I went out on the weekend wearing a t-shirt that said 'Male Escort Service', it *is* meant to be a joke but a girl was lucky enough to pick me up using the line, "Nice t-shirt, what are your rates?". I said that I accept payment in chupa chups and Bob was then my father's brother. Haha :D
Seriously, for the single guys who aren't getting any can I suggest two possible courses of action when going out.
1. Be fun... I realised how true this was again at 8am on Sunday morning, dancing on a table at Revolver to MJ's Billy Jean. Sure, I was miles off my rocker, but I was having *lots* and *lots* of fun, and it showed. People are *attracted* to fun. By the time the song finished and staff were telling me to get off the table, it dawned on me that I could be deformed with a face like a pizza and still gotten laid, judging by the way girls around were looking at me.
2. Be interesting... if you can't be fun or lack the confidence, then be interesting. Next time you chat a girl up, don't ask if she's single within the first twenty minutes. Usually the big bikie with arms the size of tree stumps and enough tatts to cover Antarctica standing over you will be an obvious enough sign. Show that you can think of something besides from sex, at the same time, don't move too slowly or else she'll get bored and start making tracks for the moron dancing on the table. :)
Most of all, remember to go out to have fun. If you ever, ever go out expecting anything else from the night, you'll be severely let down.
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/me crawls out of the darkness
Well Hoptis, you summarised it quite well, good advice overall. I mostly agree with it, but following it is another matter though...need a good kick before I'd actually actively try to make a move.
Why is that most of the time I'd rather be shot than actually try ? It happens espessially if I'm really interested in a girl, the more I like her the more crippled/disabled i feel. (Like we haven't heard all this before ?)
I need to give myself a good serving for that, but it's unintentional I guess, happens on much lower level before common sense kicks in, stupid brain !!! *shakes his fist* ...
Having said all that, I'm quite happy being single now though, if anything was to happen...great, but I am not really actively looking to pick up or anything.
Guess something more meaningful is needed here.
The end of boring post
 
Originally posted by hoptis:

1. Be fun...
2. Be interesting...
Most of all, remember to go out to have fun. If you ever, ever go out expecting anything else from the night, you'll be severely let down.
3. Be happy and SMILE... today i was walking thru the city just with a smile on my face... and i had so many looks from girls... it was really nice... :)
just flash a smile... hehehehe... its all good... nothing is better than flashing a smile to a girl and see her go all embarassed... ;)
a girl even commented "you look so happy!", a smile can be the difference between being "hot" or "not"... :D
4. Relax... don't do it... if u wanna...
if you are nervous, it shows worse than poppy seeds in your teeth... if u act as if u don't care either way what happens when u talk to a girl or look at girls... they will be more keen to pursue you... well so i've been told... but don't take it too far and look the other way... just be cool...
i totally agree hoptis, if u go out to a club or even on a date expecting to score, u more often than not won't... but this raises an interesting dilemma... does one take condom(s) on a date? cos just by taking a condom u are automatically giving some thought to sex... but in all seriousness who in their right mind could go on a date without any thought of getting a screw out of it? :) i don't think it would be human to think any other way... (or is it just me?)
note to self : don't ever ever bring 10 condoms on a first date again!!! :(
also, don't rush into love... cos it is very hard to communicate feelings to people u don't know very well, it takes a long time to be able to read emotions well, and falling in love is for sure the strongest emotion we can experience as humans (IMHO)...
note to self : don't fall in love with somebody if u haven't met them yet! :(
finally, remember its all a load of crap... if u are not happy with urself then u won't be happy with anybody else either... learn to love yourself... and you'll always be there for you :)
(and its cheaper too!)
now i mite just get off my arse and actually talk to some girls once in a while... :)
Cohaa
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hoptis:
People are *attracted* to fun
Amen, hoptis bruvahhh!!.. this is soo true.. People giving of the vibe of having fun could be similar to the pharamones theory? :D
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well, broke up with my girlfriend last night, (she was beautiful...but so boring and self obsessed...lesson learned - never date a model)
think i might become a monk, relationships just fuck everything up. : (
 
If I said I broke it off with one of the most amazing, attractive and wonderful people I'd ever met you would all believe me right...
Anyway.. Dont want a page of 'oo awwws' just felt like letting it out...
 
I just wish that I didn't feel so fucked over from all of this... I don't know if it was any intention of her's at all, but I just seem to feel used now...
One of the major things that sticks in my head was her constant persistance for me to talk to her about things, but her complete lack of communication to me as well. That, and that she seemed more concerned about not wanting to be hated by the friendship group than to not want to hurt my feelings... meh.
I'll probably be hanging round this thread for a long while, not really keen on jumping into any form of relationship soon. Besides, I love my music too much, and it's gonna be hard finding someone with the same level of appreciation for it that I've got.
*starts wrestling Tarsy for his crown & scepter*
[ 03 September 2002: Message edited by: Dante ]
 
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