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Originally posted by Taliana:
*sighs* How does one go about letting another know how u feel about them, what do u say? I dont want it to be awkward in class if he doesnt think the same as me... yet i want him to know. aaaaargh
Psshha
Get a mutual friend to ask him whether he likes you, or whether he'd like you if he knew you liked him. Then the mutual friend can report back to you and you can go from there.
It's juvenile yes.. but it works!
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Cohaagen: I Dunno, pr0n is all some of us have... ;)
...Now, gotta completely disagree with you here Cohaagen:
and it is ALL luck, there is not much of anything else involvedAll there is to relationships is luck? ...What about love, trust, co-operation and understanding? ...Without those, no relationship is going to be a healthy one...
...Or all there is to finding someone to have a relationship with is luck? ...Luck isn't a quantifiable entity, no-one has a finite and measurable amount of luck, it doesn't exist... Its just a term we use to highlight favourable co-incidences... If you don't put in the effort to find someone, and then put in the effort to make them like you (which could just come down to being yourself, no extra effort required), then no amount of luck is going to help you...
...Sitting around thinking "One day I'm gonna get lucky" ain't gonna get you a g/f or b/f...
[edited 'cos Pleo's editing made mine make no sense ;) ]
[ 23 August 2002: Message edited by: Tarsarlan ]
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Tal: to summarise what Tarsy said a post or two ago 1) make your presense felt and 2) FLIRT! (this is my favourite and it's more fun :D )
 
In future if anyone has multiple things to say, try and fit them in one post - don't post 3 times in a row. I've also gone back a trimmed some of the excess from the thread - if one of your posts is now missing it is because it didn't add anything except one more number to the reply count.
Fuck I hate this thread sometimes.
 
Originally posted by Tarsarlan:
[QB...Sitting around thinking "One day I'm gonna get lucky" ain't gonna get you a g/f or b/f...[/QB]
it is tru, sitting around won't help, but it is very hard to control if other people like you in that sorta way or not...
luck is where preparation meets opportunity...
if u see like like that, then it is luck.... u've gotta be prepared to face your fears and let go, that's the hard part of love i guess, letting go of security and giving your heart to somebody else to do with what they see fit... opportunity is when that somebody just happens to be in the right place at the right time... but its tru, if u'r not prepared to do anything about it, nothing will happen!!!
i not the type to quit, but sometimes i'd like it to be easier...
Cohaa
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So for those of you who have been following my stories, well, heres whats happened.
Last night was chatting away with the boy of my affections at a party we were at, and i ask him, so have u got a girlfriend, or something along those lines. He replies he hasnt, but there is a girl hes sorta interested in who he had been out with once but because of being so busy nothing has happened....yet. Fair enough, he sorta has a girl.
When he leaves, im speaking to our other friend, the "third party" sorta one who we have both talked to. So i said something about him, and i drag it out of him what he had told him about me, if anything.
Turns out the guy i like had liked me for a while 2, and had told him that if only he had of known earlier it would of been great. :( Well fuck meeeeeee! Ugh! im tempted to just tell him now, like before he does actually get a girlfriend, but ugh i dont know. :(
Why does nothing ever just fall into place for me? i mean, i PREDICTED this to happen!!!! ppl im after alwasy go n get a girlfriend before i get the chance to say something, or the GUTS to do something about it. Its obviuously a stupid lesson someones trying to teach me about not speaking up earlier, but the time just wasnt right then . jdsfhskjfh blah.
 
Tal, i reckon you should just tell him you like him and let him decide, telling him you like him isn't necessarily a bad thing, and there is nothing wrong with it... even if he does have a girlfriend. Dont let the opportunity pass darls :)
 
Tars: You have your head screwed on right. Everyone, listen to this bloke. :D
Taliana: Seize the day, or lose out. It comes down to that. If you want him, then don't talk about it - just do it. When it comes down to it, you have nothing to lose.
The bulk of replies to this thread are singles who can broadly be put into one of two categories:
1)The type that think its all luck
2)The type that know its not, and act accordingly
Which type are you?
Which type do you think will pick up more?
 
I'm the type that doesn't go out with just anyone. If I don't think I could have a future with someone, then I don't want to hurt them in the long run.
Right now I don't know anyone I want to go out with, so I'm single. I still go out and meet new people, but I don't want to jump the bones of every girl I meet.
 
Sitting around thinking "One day I'm gonna get lucky" ain't gonna get you a g/f or b/f..
worked for me. we don't really have control over this things they just happen and a lot of the time luck and/or chance are involved.
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Originally posted by Sllip:
I'm the type that doesn't go out with just anyone. If I don't think I could have a future with someone, then I don't want to hurt them in the long run.
This is *exactly* the way i think of it as well. I'm always thinking of the bigger picture, instead of just living for the moment. The downside though is that you have very little experience when you do eventually meet "the one".
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)The type that think its all luck
2)The type that know its not, and act accordingly
Which type are you?
Which type do you think will pick up more?
I see the logic behind what you're saying. Yet whenever I try to change myself from (1) to (2), and take control of my own destiny, I fail. Then, when I'm bemoaning my failure, I end up getting together with someone, without trying - often the person I was moaning to. It seems like it is luck.
(And if I ever pick someone up randomly, its always on the nights when I wasn't expecting it, wasn't planning it, was just looking for a few quiet drinks with my friends).
I'm guessing the secret lies in being more relaxed on those occasions, not worrying too much about it?
(Anyway, thought I'd check out this thread since Catch-22 mentioned it in SLR, and judging from the number of singles leaving the thread, maybe you need some new, single blood ;) )
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I should put out an enlistment form.
Jesus, spring is taking its toll. Its a catastrophe.
They shall not grow old
As we who are left grow old
Age shall not weary them
Nor the years condemn
At the going down of the sun
And in the morning
We will remember them...
To the fallen.
-plaz out-
 
Originally posted by plazma:
I should put out an enlistment form.
Jesus, spring is taking its toll. Its a catastrophe.
They shall not grow old
As we who are left grow old

I'd love to grow old, or at least look a bit older. It's absolutely killing me.. trying to date girls my own age, or younger, but who look a good 6 or 7 years older than I do. fuck it!
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Prom: For you yes, doing nothing turned out well... But for most other people? ...The point is, regardless of the amount of control we have over our lives, we're a lot less likely to get anywhere unless we try...
Taliana: Go for it! You have a chance now and if you wait you will miss it... The guy said nothing has happened with the other chick because he's been too busy, and its also been confirmed that the guy likes you... If you convince him now to put aside some time for you, that's less time he has for the other girl, and a greater chance that he picks you over the other girl... It might be too late, but better for you if you find out rather than just assuming you've missed your chance...
I know exactly what you mean about feeling like you're being taught a lesson, I've had that feeling a few times in the past... After learning that lesson tho I found out that there's plenty more where that came from...
Boppychick: Didn't you say you were against relationships? ...just a little fling is it? ;)
 
^ ^ ^ Don't listen to him Macksta. He's a crusty, cyncial muthabitch. ;) Looking young can be a blessing, some girls like the baby faced boys. :) And like I've said to you before, you don't act young and that's the most important thing.
Do you think there's any point in getting attached to someone when you know you have to end it in the not too distant future? Is the small amount of happiness you'd receive in the short term worth the long goodbyes when one of you has to leave?
 
Tars: Yeah... i *kinda* still am... but this guy is too good to let just pass :) Prolly the nicest, best looking, most generous, most respectful and sweetest guy i have ever met... and he likes me!!!
But we will see what happens... i only met him friday!!! I kinda feel like he is too good to be true and is WAY too good for me.
But neways i am just having fun so all is good :)
 
Ok.... now i have a BIG problem....
You see ive given my ex a second chanceand everything was goin really well UNTIL... i had a dream of one of my friends that i use to like....... and now i cant get this person out of my head.......Its weird.. but not lust but not love.... GRRRRRRRRR
[ 27 August 2002: Message edited by: GlowGurlz ]
 
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