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Bluelight Singles - from begining to end! don't we love the merge feature!
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Russ
Bluelighter
Daimo is just jaded because Midro keeps rejecting his advances.
Pleonastic
Bluelighter
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Originally posted by moocho:
Taliana, if you were a fish on a menu. You'd be catch of the day.
Im gonna take that as a compliment mooch hehe thanx
Tars- yeh i mean, i REALLY want to just go and tell him, but its just really strange! He knows i like him, but, due to the simple fact he bothered telling me about the other girl has turned me off telling him because he obviously wanted me to know that. Make sense? Bah. Im still gonna take things as they come, who knows, i may get the guts to tell him after filming is finished, if not, well so be it, it wasnt meant to be.
and in reference to what daimo said, im not the kinda person anymore to just go out and pick up, i used to be, yet i never let it work because i knew the foundations for a relationship were all wrong. ive changed my ways and its the reason im having troubles actually BEGINNING relationships from scratch. it will happen. one day. i hope
miss apple
Bluelighter
Tarsarlan
Bluelighter
Taliana: You asked him if he had a g/f... If for some stupid reason he wasn't at all interested in you anymore he would have said "Yeah I went out with this girl recently and things are going really well", not "nothing has happened"... So no, it doesn't make sense... I've talked about girls to other girls before and it hasn't meant anything... Infact one girl did think there was something going on between me and another girl because of things I'd said (when there wasn't anything going on) so I missed my chance with her...
Don't read too much into something so undefined... Unless he says "No I'm not interested in you anymore", then there's still a chance for you...
...And I don't think you should be saying "if not, well so be it, it wasnt meant to be" ...Like I said earlier, unless you put in some effort it won't happen... He may have been thinking "well she hasn't said anything to me yet, so maybe its just not meant to be", and if so, it sure ain't gonna happen is it?
And just maybe the other girl was mentioned for the reason Apples mentioned... Maybe he wants to see if you're really interested, if you're going to put in some effort for him and challenge someone else... Maybe he thinks that if you just let someone else take him then you're really not all that interested so it wouldn't have worked out anyway...
But ultimately you can't know what he thinks or the reasons for anything he has said or done, and he can't know the same about you, so don't write him off until you've confirmed where things stand...
Don't read too much into something so undefined... Unless he says "No I'm not interested in you anymore", then there's still a chance for you...
...And I don't think you should be saying "if not, well so be it, it wasnt meant to be" ...Like I said earlier, unless you put in some effort it won't happen... He may have been thinking "well she hasn't said anything to me yet, so maybe its just not meant to be", and if so, it sure ain't gonna happen is it?
And just maybe the other girl was mentioned for the reason Apples mentioned... Maybe he wants to see if you're really interested, if you're going to put in some effort for him and challenge someone else... Maybe he thinks that if you just let someone else take him then you're really not all that interested so it wouldn't have worked out anyway...
But ultimately you can't know what he thinks or the reasons for anything he has said or done, and he can't know the same about you, so don't write him off until you've confirmed where things stand...
NULL_Ptr
Bluelighter
Glowgurlz: seeing that person in your dream must've stirred up some forgotten emotions or feelings you might've had.
Seriously though treat it for what it is - just a dream.
Unless you have a pattern where most of your dreams come true, there is no need to worry about this. It will sink back to the depths of your mind where it came from in no time.
If I paid serious attention to my dreams I'd end up in a mental institution for sure
Seriously though treat it for what it is - just a dream.
Unless you have a pattern where most of your dreams come true, there is no need to worry about this. It will sink back to the depths of your mind where it came from in no time.
If I paid serious attention to my dreams I'd end up in a mental institution for sure
Boppychick
Bluelighter
Okay so i have a question:
How do you deal with a situation where you think someone is WAY to good for you?
I know this person likes me... but i just dont understand why!!! I hate feeling inadequate. I want to be able to not question their like for me... but they are just too damn good to be true!
How do you deal with a situation where you think someone is WAY to good for you?
I know this person likes me... but i just dont understand why!!! I hate feeling inadequate. I want to be able to not question their like for me... but they are just too damn good to be true!
Prometheus
Bluelighter
^^^^^
Do you feel the same way about them?
Do you feel the same way about them?
Why do people assume that because you 'party', you have absolutely no morals whatsoever and condone just about anything. Sure, I get around, but never behind someone's back and I never put myself in a position where someone else's feelings get hurt. That's why I stay single, because at this point in my life, I know that if I did hookup with someone it's unlikely I'd stay faithful for long.
So, case in point. Yesterday afternoon I meet up in the city with friend 'X' during my lunch break who I went out with on Friday night. We're talking about the usual stuff, catching up and I ask how his girlfriend's going. He then proceeds into a thirty minute boasting session about how he fucked and sucked some other girl on the weekend.
"Yeah, so I did *this* and *this* and *this*."
Okay... I'm so impressed... not.
Personally I've been in this situation enough times to realise the smartest thing to do is not get involved. As much as I'd like to wipe that grin off X's stupid, smirking face by telling his girlfriend, I've been taught that nothing good will come from this and I should let it slide. I agree with this policy and it's made sense in the past, but still doesn't make me feel better about knowing what I do.
I'm shitted cause I see this all the time. People, including friends, who firstly, should know better, and secondly who know they won't be faithful, getting into relationships. I mean FFS, if you know you can't keep your dick confined to one hole, then don't promise you can. Splutter, splutter, rant over.
So, case in point. Yesterday afternoon I meet up in the city with friend 'X' during my lunch break who I went out with on Friday night. We're talking about the usual stuff, catching up and I ask how his girlfriend's going. He then proceeds into a thirty minute boasting session about how he fucked and sucked some other girl on the weekend.
"Yeah, so I did *this* and *this* and *this*."
Okay... I'm so impressed... not.
Personally I've been in this situation enough times to realise the smartest thing to do is not get involved. As much as I'd like to wipe that grin off X's stupid, smirking face by telling his girlfriend, I've been taught that nothing good will come from this and I should let it slide. I agree with this policy and it's made sense in the past, but still doesn't make me feel better about knowing what I do.
I'm shitted cause I see this all the time. People, including friends, who firstly, should know better, and secondly who know they won't be faithful, getting into relationships. I mean FFS, if you know you can't keep your dick confined to one hole, then don't promise you can. Splutter, splutter, rant over.
Queen Beat
Bluelighter
^ ^ ^ ^ Well said!!!
Boppychick
Bluelighter
Prom: was that to me, and if so, what do you mean?
Prometheus
Bluelighter
Do you also have feelings for this person? If you do there's a fair chance they probably feel the same as you do in that they think you're to good for them. I'm in a similar situation with my girlfriend in that I feel she's to good for me(which is odd cos I'm the best... go figure 
). Feelings of inadequacy are natural in these situations and I think just signify that you're onto a good thing. Really no one's all that much better or worse than anyone else.
[edit: wow look at that, i posted something nice and didn't insult anyone]
[ 28 August 2002: Message edited by: Prometheus ]
). Feelings of inadequacy are natural in these situations and I think just signify that you're onto a good thing. Really no one's all that much better or worse than anyone else. [edit: wow look at that, i posted something nice and didn't insult anyone]
[ 28 August 2002: Message edited by: Prometheus ]