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Bluelight Singles - from begining to end! don't we love the merge feature!

It funny really. I meet some real nice girls, go out with them. At the start, I like them heaps, think of them lots. Well, you know how that feels.
Then, I just start to loose interest in them.
Things they do piss me off, I stop thinking about them 24/7 and the relationship would go down hill from there.
Could my standards be to high, or is it that I have not met my ‘soul mate’ yet?
Oh yeah, I am in no real hurry. It will happen. (I hope)
that will happen until you find the right person.
When you find the right person, your interest and obsession will grow more everyday.
Finding this right person is the best feeling in the whole world.
You will find them. If it's next month or 5 years. Until then, learn and grow from the relationships you will have before you find this right person.
The biggest thing i discovered in the first month of finding my right person was that the relationship was EASY. There weren't many problems and not much effort was needed. Of course, you do come across big issues that need sorting out and 100% effort is needed by both people to succeed in a giving a loving relationship. But knowing that how big a problem is, that you will work it out in the end is an awesome feeling.
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^^^ I hate to shatter your illusions but lesbians cheat too yknow.
The bottom line really is that people suck. Especially me, im shit :P
 
Three words...
Bluelight Singles Orgy
We're young, we're un-attached, we're all in good need of a great shag - i cant see a problem ;)
 
Originally posted by moocho:
Bluelight Singles Orgy
@Newcastle did I hear?? :D
I think I might try thoth's technique..
OK Gurls, form a line over her and you each get your turn!! ;)
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lol dc u wish :)
I havent posted in here for a while perhaps its a good thing but then im out having fun at utopia and eckythump (which i thought was better than utopia as much as i love the superdome small parties like eckythump rock and it does attract a better crowd if u ask me)...
Maybe there is someone out there for me, maybe there is no such thing as a soul mate but hey Im 24 i should be enjoying being single and free while i can.. heaps of people say im still young but at 24 im hardly an 18 year old just starting out and fresh out of school. well at least i dont have a divorce or kids to my name yet unlike some of my mates back home however..
 
Doesnt it suck that when you get a guy you get a lot and you have to choose the right one.. i get it all the time.. but i always make the wrong decision... and end up getn hurt or FUCKd over big time
*raise bottle of beam*
YAY for FREEDOM
 
Queen Beat, it is even worse, when you have no one in mind, and can't see yourself with anyone at all.
At least you have your eye on someone.
As George off Sinfeild once said:
(Bad memory quote here ppls)
"I can't ever imagaine myself ever having sex again. I have looked at my situation, and I just don't think it is ever going to happen again."
Or something like that.
Ever get that feeling?
 
Or to use another Seinfeld quote:
George: Oh, what's the point? When I like them, they don't like me, when
they like me, I don't like them. Why can't I act with the ones I
like the same way I do with the ones I don't like?
Jerry: Well, you've only got another fifty years or so to go before it'll
*all* be over...
George: Maybe I need someone who doesn't speak English.
Jerry: Yeah, how about a mute?
George: A mute would be good.
Jerry: Ah, where you gonna meet a mute?
George: This is what my life has come to... Trying to meet a mute.
[ 26 July 2002: Message edited by: Donny Don't ]
 
I just wanted to say that being single is great in the way of self develpment, but it really sux sometimes too :(
Sometimes you just need to roll over and find that the person who connects with you so well is there to roll over with you :)
For me, i find it hard to meet nice, genuine guys who are after a friendship or anything but just sex.... It doesnt help the guy species when the onnly guys you meet from alll areas of your life arent honest, or are only really after one thing.
OR: if you do meet a really nice attractive genuine guy, they are going for their own league or taken by a little girlvulture already :) hehe
I dont have much faith in guys anymore due to past experiences of unfaithfulness and disrespect but i guess the mission when your single is to become independent and enjoy your own company- which i feel is something eveyone needs to do.
But it still is a lonely path sometimes without that special someone to talk to about your day, or hug when you feel sad or smile with when you feel happy!
Just a bit of a whinge and chatter out of my mind... thanks for listening or scrolling down at least!
 
Originally posted by polkadot:
I dont have much faith in guys anymore due to past experiences of unfaithfulness and disrespect but i guess the mission when your single is to become independent and enjoy your own company- which i feel is something eveyone needs to do.
That's really sad to hear actually. All I can say is don't give up because there are nice, single guys out there (LOL, I promise!), and plus, you're young anyway... give it time. OR you can do what some of my single female friends are doing and that is going bi or lez (just for good times or a relationship) for the next few years while the boys do some growing up. Some of these friends have voiced the same sentiments about giving up on guys, at least for now.
Shit... haha I can just feel half the guys on Bluelight giving me dirty looks right now. :D
*glares back*
*giggles*
*runs off*
:p
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well, im single, have been for a few months now, however, ex-gf wants to have a non-attached relationship if ya know what i mean. it would be good to have someone i guess, but i dont think about it much. if someone comes along, someone comes along, if not, then well ill keep goin out with mates, and focus on uni.
there are advantages of both single life and being in a relationship, and which ever one im in, i keep reminding myself how good it is....worrying about someone u like can be long and painful, so i guess ive kinda made myself less vunerable to liking someone. that sounds pretty stupid, ah well.
prolly the best bit of advice id say is, if u like someone, come out and tell them, being str8 forward saves alot of time and pain for some.
i saw some posts from u guys sayin that u like other people from bluelight, cmon, spill the goss, would make this thread more interestin haha.
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Russ: Maybe you're right. But when you don't have your eye on anyone you can just go out and have a bit of fun. When you know who you want but can't have them (or can but you know that road is just way, way too messy), you don't even feel like going out and looking for someone. So I sulk and mope about the house. ;)
 
Queen Beat: So you have a chance with the guy that you're interested in? When you say 'messy', do you mean 'involving a lot of guaranteed pain', or 'involving a bit of work' ...'cos if its the latter, well every relationship involves a certain amount of work, but its worth it in the end...
If its the former however, then you've just gotta try to realise that its not gonna happen and move on... (hehe, way harder to do than type, I know... Convince yourself tho, the sooner the better, for your own sake)
I think I prefer having someone in mind though, 'cos at least then you've got something (or someone I should say) to work towards...
polkadot: Here's a thread you may wanna have a look at on the topic of nice guys...
 
Originally posted by Tarsarlan:
[QB]If its the former however, then you've just gotta try to realise that its not gonna happen and move on... [QB]
I know. :) The guy is an ex who I know will have me back, but I just know that however hard we tried it wouldn't work out. And I have been sulking and feeling sorry for myself for way too long already. I don't know if its better to sit at home on my weekends and sulk because I really don't feel like going out, or go out and pretend I'm having a great time when all I really want are my slippers and a cup of tea (how old am I again?? ;) ) Self indulgent misery or fake fun? Which is the best for healing?
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Self indulgent misery or fake fun... Not very good options hey?
I'd choose the misery ('cos I did, and the less fake the better), and turn it into something more productive (or at least something not miserable ;) )
...And there's nothing wrong with slippers and tea... Unless the slippers are about to fall apart, like mine ;)
 
Being alone can be real painful when youre used to having someone there all the time. Its great to have friends who are right there when you need them to be :) *hugs his lil raver buddy*
 
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