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^ ^ ^ Perhaps once you've seen and felt the possibilities you'll be willing to take the chance again. :)
Love is a much abused word.
 
It funny really. I meet some real nice girls, go out with them. At the start, I like them heaps, think of them lots. Well, you know how that feels.
Then, I just start to loose interest in them.
Things they do piss me off, I stop thinking about them 24/7 and the relationship would go down hill from there.
Could my standards be to high, or is it that I have not met my ‘soul mate’ yet?
Oh yeah, I am in no real hurry. It will happen. (I hope)
 
Originally posted by Russ:
Could my standards be to high (I hope)
It depends what you're after. If you want short-term companionship then yeah you're standards are probably too high in that regard, but if you're looking towards the long-term you shouldn't drop your standards for anyone.
That's my problem, i'm always thinking about the long-term when really at this point in my life maybe i should just be focusing on the short term. But it's hard not to look ahead...
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Single for 6 months, pfft, Childsplay. Try being single for 18months, then finding the girl of your dreams, only to have her break your heart 2months later. I loved her, and she loved me, but then she just ended it. Why? I don't know, and it hurts too much trying to guess why.
 
Okay guys here's some advice. You want to listen up?
The past is over. The WORST thing you can do, is allow yourself to get tied down by it. Don't tie yourself to a person who's left you (I'm guilty of this one, very guilty). Attain some form of closure as best you can, realise that if they left you once, odds are they aren't going to get back with you, or whatever. Then move on.
You can't find a future in the past.
Queen Beat I agree with the best intentions thing, but the best laid plans... And in the end, does it really matter anyway?
So really guys, just examine your actions, learn from them. You can't control other people, can't really influence them even.
So do what YOU can, and if that doesn't work, then don't worry.
-plaz out-
 
Miss Apple, i like your style. :)
It's very familiar.
Everything you post is like the female version of my life...good luck champ, chin up.
*mooch goes back to his only love, mixing*
 
Originally posted by plazma:

The past is over. The WORST thing you can do, is allow yourself to get tied down by it. Don't tie yourself to a person who's left you (I'm guilty of this one, very guilty). Attain some form of closure as best you can, realise that if they left you once, odds are they aren't going to get back with you, or whatever. Then move on.

WORD TO that WHOLE fucking statement plaz! I was having a conversation about that exact thing on the way home tonight wit my friend... we both have held feelings for our first true relationship (for me it wasnt love, but that attatchment to the first bf is always there)for yewars, and im finally pretty much over all my past relationships. Actually i am, which makes me feel great, because whenever i get into a relationship im always wondering about the someone else i like, or an old bf i think i could get back with. Finally i dont anymore, and only look to the future. I have one or two hopefuls on my horizon and yay im all excited again.
But what do you do when you like someone, see them a bit, etc, but have nfi if they even THINK of you the same way? A guy i go to uni with, well ive had a secret crush on him since last semester,m and now im acting in a film that hes part creating, and dang hes so cute! Like hes not even that GREAT looking, just really fucking sweet, and so cute. hehe... but the question now, is how do i get the ball rolling? Theres only so much small talk you can do between scenes lol, without looking like im interested muchly. uck. DILEMMA!
I guess im just hoping something might happen at the end of filming party, but theres another thing i dont want to do, start a relationship by getting together trashed.
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Somebody recently told me I need a more confident, assertive and arrogant nature in order to survive properly in the world of singles realpolitik. Could this deficiency be at the core of my dilemma?
With this in mind:
I am AVAILABLE. So that means women, FORM AN ORDERLY FUCKING QUEUE ALREADY. You may make it to my shortlist of 10,000. Perhaps.
Second thoughts, It doesn't have to be that orderly. Fight amongst yourselves over me if you want, I dig that sexy animalistic behaviour.
Just remember, you need me.
Its OK all you horny females, you don't need to reply to this post in order to tell me how much this strategy is working on you. Because frankly, I already know.
Be seeing you soon.
Yours,
Pimp Minister Th0th.
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*looks at thoth, standing amongst a sea of....nothing*
Oh pimp daddy thoth you make me so HOT! take me NOW! I'm busting out of myself to be attacked by your pork sword! Oh baby make me your own personal ho!
That arrogant shit turns me on.
 
rofl -Thoth! I have to say thats the funniest thing i've read on this thread in ages.
Though i do recall an article on a past Cosmo (yes yes i am guilty of reading that crap or maybe non-crap, whichever way you want to look at it) that to be able to get into something relationship, career, basically life in general is just to be assertive in all aspects of your life and don't expect things to just happen to you. Oh wait, i think my mother told me that before Cosmo! But these things always need to be reitterated to be remembered.
But as far as the arrogance goes, it does become quite attractive to the female psychie, i personally have been guilty of that performance. And somehow if i act slightly arrogant myself i seem to attract more people to me, but unfortunately not always the ones i want to be attracted to me. You win some you lose some.
And arrogance isn't always an attractive value.. confidence and arrogance can be quite a fine line.. push the arrogance too far and you end up looking like a narcissist! Which isn't very attractive no matter how physically good looking you are. It might help you get a foot in.. but hell, believe me, you are asking for a kick out the door. (i am guilty to have done that as well :D )
teehee.. *end of rant*
 
Hell, I'd join Thoth's queue. ;)
*guilty of posting crap again*
Taliana: Glad you got something out of it. I think its important that people know how to deal with the past, take responsibility for their own actions and learn and move on. :D
I'm learning slowly, mainly learning how slowly I get over the real things. The bastard is always that a relationship, or the build up to one is always something of an emotional investment in someone you trust is investing the same in you. Then when it all goes pear (insert fruit of choice here) shaped, its pretty hard to deal with. :\
I think one thing I do need to learn is to tell people when I have feelings about them, rather than expecting them to pick up by some kind of mystical force. And I guess I'd hope people would do the same if they had feelings for me.
The problem of course with the aforementioned is that it leaves you very open to emotional pain and suffering. I guess that's the price you pay. I'm going to try it for a while, maybe. Of course I wish there was some way you could tell whether someone had feelings for you before you told them, but you can't ever tell 100%, so what you do is just make the leap and hope for the best.
Rules of life apply, nothing's for certain, but if you don't throw the dice, your chances are zero.
Not sure quite what I was trying to say in all this, I'm still rather confused by it all.
-plaz out-
 
Take a leaf outta Thoth's book...
Yo Yo bitches, get on your fecking knees!!
Hmmm, doesnt sound as good coming from a scrawny little white dude with no fashion sense...
Oh well.. :)
 
Yeah I'm over the past, but if you spend your entire life looking for someone then you forget to enjoy the ride.
My Philosophy to life,
Looking back isn't the answer.
What could be will only hurt.
What will I is the future.
 
Originally posted by plazma:
if you don't throw the dice, your chances are zero.

Holy fuck plaz stop saying such things that apply to my life at this exact point in time, its freaking me out! But such good words at that. :)
thanx
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*dicey looks solemnly at her feet and sighs
sorry being a posting slut at the moment.. but *shrug*
why is it that i meet these most awesome people in short periods of time only to find that most of these people that i meet i will never see again?
ie. the man that had me laughing for hours on saturday morning left back to n.z. on monday.
someone tell me *why* i can't find people like that that live close by?
 
Just a random whinge.. well not totally random...
It really gives me the shits when I'm having a great conversation with a women, flirting my arse off but can't be 100% certain if she's doing the same or not. Certain signs like touching are generally obvious but why do women always have to do something that seems to contradict it a short time later?! Perhaps it's just me running out of good material and she's sick of laughing at ny jokes already. That said I can usually tell when I'm doing alright but I have this habbit of brushing those thoughts off as me being cocky and so I wait for more blatant signals. :\ Stupid really, hehe.
Anyway just a whinge, none of those applies to my life right now it's just been something that's always annoyed me. :)
I think we need a flashing light system.. i.e. people either have a redlight, greenlight or no light above their head. red = wildcard (could be good or bad), green = go for it and no light = not worth your time. Well it'd be better for dummies like me :D
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Originally posted by plazma:
Me? I'm Mr Stupid. :\
Ahem. I believe that title belongs to me.
Learn from my (poor) example kids. When the entire future of your relationship relies on one thing, dont fuck that thing up.
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