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Bluelight Singles - from begining to end! don't we love the merge feature!

worked out why i'm single.
it's because i like it that way.
1. coqetish smile across the counter. "wtf??? it's like 2am, in a caltex, and you're the checkout chick. i don't have time for this."
2. "so, do you live around here?" mmmm, no. i'm like the other side of town. how 'bout your place? "mmmmm, there's 'people' there." oh, ok. NEXT!!!!!!!
3. hi manny, just calling to see how you are. we haven't talked in so long, and i wanted to see if we could catch up. NO. there's a reason why we don't talk, and it's because you're crazy!
4. hi. hello. we talk. 10 minutes later 'i have three children' ??????????? where's the fucken door? /me does the hundred yard dash.
and many more, all in the last month. why am i an insanity magnet? and why is the only sane woman i have been in love with, have to be in love with someone more sane than me?
being single is nice. for the moment. it won't be forever, and that's the only thing i am sure of.
 
need boy soon.
nice one though. not one ruled by his willy at the expense of girls feelings.
it's not fair. the ones I like never ever ever like me. ever. :(
 
^^^ miss apple - don't we all have that problem though?
plaz- ok ok i take it back.. maybe i am not really a commitment phobe.. most probably i'm just really not ready for a commitment.. yet, i did not say EVER :P
but truth be told i do want a boyfriend.. there isn't anything wrong with that. but at the moment i think i have far too little time to sacrifice for someone. Or most probably i haven't found anyone i am willing to sacrifice my time for. So until that time comes...
happy hunting! *whistles along into the forest to find the right tree*
 
*storms back into room*
Man... what an utter fuck up....... i should never have left here....
ill tell youall a lil story which i hope you all learn from ;) ... it was my brothers birthday party and it meant alot to me for my boy to be there..... he was having a two week break and decided to get a hold of some norti things and have a boys night out... MIND YOU .. i told him not to rock up to my place SCAT or munted..... so the afternonn of my bros party comes and i ring him to see where he is and if he has gotten sleep... WOW.. he is still awake.. so i send my friend to go and pick him up and drop him off... time flies and its time for people to be rockn up for my bros party and my boy arrives.. unable to hold a proper conversation... not only that.....when my brothers mates spoke to him he walk away and spoke to other people...... making a fool out of me and embarrassing me... mind you id been telling him all night to go and sleep............he ended up making my night shit... and making all my brod mates bag him in front of me...... i didnt get to sleep til 7am the next morning and i went and slept in my parents room as my room smelt like DISCO FEET BADLY :( ...... i got up at around 12... and walked out the backhe was sitn watchn dvds and styed sitn there watched about 4 movies before he came and said one word to me.......Time flew and was goin out that night...... i'd asked him to leave cos i wasnt goin to be there... he stayed around and watched another dvd....after the movie finished he comes in and says bye.....and catches a cab home..... then the next morning (today) rings and asks me what my problem was.. i told him he embarrassed me and he doesnt know what i mean.......JERK
ITS ALL OVER RED ROVER
i guess ill stay here for a while noe....... I missed my freedom :(
 
Originally posted by moocho:
*UGH*
Need Chick Soon.
Sick of hugging dudes.
:D
Fucking WORD mooch.
*mad hugs for GG* There are people who will make sacrifices for you, and then there are people who are not worth your time...you learnt from this experience....next time you'll be a better judge.
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GG: Yeah, blink is right! Hold on to your freedom until you can find someone who is right for you! Or someone who can spank you... whatever comes first...
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A double ended dildo
The gift that keeps on giving
 
*huggles GG* welcome aboard...as you will see i have joined the house and im still none-to-happy about my situation. and thats an understatement. why is it that all the best people like us all get fucked over. its horrible. i could start ranting but i wont...il just hug everyone instead
 
*hugs GG n leecie n every other person unhappy with being single*
I've gone and got myself a fuckbuddy, at the moment to be totally honest I just can't be bothered investing anything in a relationship.
 
As much as a fuckbuddy can be a good thing :) , they can also be a very bad thing :( as in friendship wrecker.
But then again if they are a complete stranger I say go with it.
But for me I don't think I would go down the fuckbuddy trail again.
/me looks for the paperwork to fillout to become part of the bluelight singles
Mikey
 
Well I had one foot in here, and one foot out, and now I've been tripped the fuck over, and fell on this side.. Why don't chicks return calls or messages.. Why do they start acting snobbing, instead of just saying, "No, it's not going to work" .. The "ignore" break-up is soo lame its not funny.. *huff*
 
DeeCee *hugest huggles*
That sucks hon, but the way I view it, if she's as immature as that, she doesn't deserve you.
On the fuckbuddy issue - I agree that it's an easy way to wreck friendships. I have real strict rules with my fuckbuddies, to me that's all they are, I've gone down the friendship road before and it's no fun.
It's all about chemistry, sex, pure and simple. And I keep it that way, we don't go out to dinner, we don't catch a movie or hang out at the pub. It's easier that way. When the lines begin to blur is when people get hurt.
It's not an ideal situation, occasionally I really miss having somebody to hold me, having all the comforts that come with being in a relationship, but this would be a really bad time for me to get into another relationship.
My friends give me love, companionship and support, my fuckbuddy gives me sex. I don't mix the two, and that's alright for now.
 
*huggles back*
i just cant believe how embarrassing it was for me to have to say... sorry.. he went out last night and cant talk........ :( .... i wanted toshow him off but instead i shrunk to about the size of an ant..
ahhh welll.... i think i will follow blinks advice.....for some reason i feel like this was a BIG wake up call......
*bounces around*
 
Well i am in here, and this is my first time posting in a month!!!
Sticking to my word that single is fucking GREAT. I am loving it.
I am gonna *TRY* to be single for atleast 6 months... till i move back to melbourne!!! But who knows, someone lovely may come along. Im not looking but.
So yeah, no one should be unhappy single. Enjoy it whilst it lasts. You have your whole lives to be committed to the one person and married and blah blah blah... so why not have your fun now, coz later in life you may not have a chance to be doing all kinds of things!!!
[ 25 July 2002: Message edited by: Boppychick ]
 
There is hardly any activity, any enterprise, which is started with such tremendous hopes and expectations, and yet which fails so regularly, as love. - Erich Fromm
It doesn't seem to matter how many times we've been burnt before, how many times we've been disappointed, we always seem to think that our next relationship will work out.
I hate the fact that relationships require more then good intentions.
 
I have never been burnt before. Never been let down. Why? Well, I have never been in love.
Could it be me not opening myself up to a relationship, or just not finding the righ person, who knows?
Fuck, I can only imagine how jaded about relationships I will be once I have been burnt.
 
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