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Daimo, you should start your own "I love Midro Club"
What does this have to do with singles?
Dunno know?
Maybe you should ask him out Daimo.
 
Taliana said...
mooch- i was following your lead!
There was a lead to follow?? If you want something good to come out of all this gerl, my advice is to do the exact opposite of anything i have posted!! :D
Today i am missing the copy of my "the color and the shape" CD by the Foo Fighters...and i dont know why :(
 
I give up!!! I'm tired of waiting for the opportunity for something to happen with someone you like! The fear of rejection plays a small factor. But waiting for the right moment is another. How do you make a 'moment' happen? Especially when you've known the person for a while and you're only just thinking that you like them so you hang out a fair bit anyway. It's all too wierd.
 
miss apple: I find the only way to make a moment happen is to wait for that awkward silence, which is inevitable, and then just say what it is you have to say.
Works for me anyways...
 
oh well .. time for some more sideline antics..
dicey never bothered with the whole to hell with the consequences thing.. it was too risky.. but dicey shall try again this weekend!
what the hell am i doing? i'm running after a 19 year old? now that he stopped doing the chasing, i'm the one running after him...ironic as hell but i never thought i'd be one of those people who would do something like that.
geezus.. someone save me!
 
After a year of being single..
Its starting to not bother me anymore.. Im over the rave and club scene
Im still trying to figure out who I am.. work wise Im moving up the career ladder finally rather being stuck in the one spot due to weekend habits and needing monday alot of the time to recover or showing up on monday morning coming down big time.. fuck Im lucky im good at my job and indespensable otherwise i would of been out of there long ago :(
well at least Ill save money now..
 
Its starting to not bother me anymore.. Im over the rave and club scene
Proud of you, your life will start to improve on so many levels :D
Only problem with a soulmate is that you are stuck with them, pretty shitty deal if you ask me.
Kitty thinks all souls should be free!
The multiple kitty cuddles :)
 
I wish I had a girlfriend. But alas I never will. But I have beer, friends, and other yummy things.
 
Originally posted by Sllip:
I wish I had a girlfriend. But alas I never will.
*hugs*
tho a defeatist attitude will get you nowhere, so i hope that's said in jest.
I've been thinking loads about being single lately, watching my sister go through a nasty break-up after three years together and a year of living together has started my brain ticking.
I kind of have this whole "I believe in love, but i'm not sure if it's for me attitude" going although underneath it i'm the biggest softie and romantic you'll ever meet.
Watching my sister, it rmeinded me that nothing's without risk. Perhaps those good times are actually worth the bad times.
 
Originally posted by PsychoKitten:
Perhaps those good times are actually worth the bad times.
The good times are totally worth the bad times. Though when you're going through the bad times it's hard to remember the good times. [edit] They're not totally worth the bad times. The bad times can unfortunately sometimes be fairly bad. But both having loved someone, and pulling yourself through the end of a relationship can only make you a stronger, wiser person.
Well I didn't wait for the moment....I got very drunk and made the moment happen!! lol One of the best things about being single is being able to indulge in drunken snogs. Especially with friends ;)
I'm still very single. But my curiosity has been fulfilled. 'twas lots of fun indeed :D
[ 22 July 2002: Message edited by: miss apple ]
 
After another big night out i finally got found out... I am a commitment phobe.. there's no doubt about it.
Last night, Nathan was there for me for the taking.. what do i do? i run off and snog the most deliciously good looking funny new zealander that leaves sydney in two days.. go figure!
To top it all of my friends bugged me about not gtting his phone number. I never take phone numbers and i always go for men that will dissapper. *smirk*
Alas dicey goes back into the land of singledom with which i'm sure Nathan is not part of the future.. he didn't look too stoked last night when i jump the nz'er! bwuahaha
damn i'm mean.
 
Dicey i used to do that alll the time, and probably still will when i get round to going out again, its not like you want to, theres just something inside you, a compulsion a need that pushes you towards the guy you shouldnt be kissing ,
I am scared of relationships and people loving me so i tend to make the wrong choices, I have hurt alot of people that didnt deserve to get hurt by doing this
Right now im single but throughly messing around with someone, that i really shouldnt be
recipe for total disaster
-funk-
good luck babe
 
^^funki - twisted ain't it? i don't know why i do it.. possibly the fear of getting hurt.. and so i go for the ones that won't stick around so there will be no need to get attached and eventually get hurt because there are no expectations..
gosh im good at making excuses for everything!
 
Night, sleep deprived brain, I do feel rather inclined to post a long and pseudo intellectual heap of drivel, so bear with me if you feel like it.
Firstly, don't classify yourself as someone or something. Dicey, you're going to be an example, saying that you're a committmentaphobe means NOTHING. You happened to not look for committment in this particular situation, but rest assured if you keep thinking of yourself as a committmentaphobe you're going to end up acting in that way all the time, even if you normally wouldn't have.
I must admit, I've got some pretty stupid issues about committment and about relationships, though gradually and slowly and with no small amount of pain (for me and others) I'm starting to solve them.
*hugs for all*
-plaz out-
 
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