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Bluelight Singles - from begining to end! don't we love the merge feature!

Dante: its only as awkward as you make it man. Just be upfront with her. Trying to hide your intentions behind the guise of friendship only makes things harder in the end. Im not saying you dont want to be her friend cuz i know you do an dI know that you would be happy with just being friends with her, but I also know that you would like things to go beyond just friends, so just tell her, sit her down for coffee or sumthin and say 'look, i like you alot and as more than a friend' and see what she has to say...its really not that hard and once its in the open its one less thign to worry about.
 
OK, seriously, it's been one week since this thread was started and it's already on page 6. Can everyone please think before they just hit the "Add Reply" button? Is your post worth posting, or are you just getting your name added to the thread for no real reason?
I think there should be one new singles thread every month roughly (like it used to be before everyone suddenly got trigger happy) so if the next one fills up this quick I'll put it on ice for a while and start the new one a couple of weeks after closing the old one. Because we're not going to have a new thread every week.
 
Tell everyone to find a partner then and to stop dropping pills and pulling themselves (work it out what women do) at all the 'hot raver chicks' they see at clubs/events so they don't have to look in this thread?
Which reminds me, wheres all the pills, Im off to goto a club now to 'get comfortable' in a dark room after I see all the 'hot raver chicks'
Pleo, joining me?
[ 21 June 2002: Message edited by: wazza ]
 
100% Perfect
For everyone who was talking about finding that perfect partner read this. It's still the best thing I've ever read in Words and it ALWAYS makes me think about oppurtunities missed....
 
Im here...I never left.
*takes a seat on the grandstand next to MadMonkey and steals his popcorn*
Robertrollie and Schizo, Im with you guys...
And...
Wazza, next time your sitting home alone on a sat night drinking red wine, you know where to find me(well actually no..you dont...but we can remedy that!)
being single is fun....ho hum ho hum......
 
I met a real nice girl on the weekend. She was funny, cute, liked clubbing. We got on real well. I meet her at a party.
Then I met her boyfriend.
All the good ones are taken, goddamm it!!!
 
Bluelight Singles - Part XI - "Get me off this rollercoaster!"

Just before we get on with the thread, here's a few words from Pleo from the old thread:
OK, seriously, it's been one week since this thread was started and it's already on page 6. Can everyone please think before they just hit the "Add Reply" button? Is your post worth posting, or are you just getting your name added to the thread for no real reason?
I think there should be one new singles thread every month roughly (like it used to be before everyone suddenly got trigger happy) so if the next one fills up this quick I'll put it on ice for a while and start the new one a couple of weeks after closing the old one. Because we're not going to have a new thread every week.

So everyone remember that ok? If you make Pleo close this thread pre-maturely I'll hurt you... Lots... Sharp implements will be used for maximum pain...
[edit: ...And just adding to that, can we please not have any posts saying just "Hey I'm single, pick me!" ...That might have been the original purpose, but this thread has grown enough and has enough opportunity for reply that basic posts like that aren't needed... *glances at Sllip* ;p ...in other words, make your post count, say you're single, that's fine, but say something which contributes more constructively to the thread too]
Now, in reference to the title, I'm sure everyone knows what I mean in regards to the emotional rollercoaster relationships (and lack thereof), and the fun it can be, but also the pain it can inflict...
[ 24 June 2002: Message edited by: Tarsarlan ]
 
I'm very single and very lonely, so any girls out there, your looking at a free lunch.
[ 24 June 2002: Message edited by: Sllip ]
 
The question always is, do you jump when the rollercoaster is going fast and is close to the ground, or when its going slow and its really high up?
(Edit) An interesting reminder of the way people percieve things, I was referring to jumping OFF, not ON. :)
-plaz out-
[ 24 June 2002: Message edited by: plazma ]
 
Dvah: So you never have any changes of mood concerning being single? Not sometimes content, sometimes unhappy? ...If so, you're on the rollercoaster... If you're mostly stable it won't be an exciting rollercoaster, but I'm sure there's a few dips and peaks...
What I mean is, you don't have to be in a relationship, or even looking for one, to be on the rollercoaster... You just have to have mood changes...
plaz: Why would you want to jump if it's really high and going slow? ...If you're bored, yet happy, isn't that better than the alternative?
[ 24 June 2002: Message edited by: Tarsarlan ]
 
Well, I started the old thread, and posted a total of two posts (including the opening post :P)...
And I'm still here as your
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Singles KING, although I'm making a concerted effort to actually get out... Nearly there, but I'm not going to go running off quickly to simply come straight back.
[internal monologue]
Patience, my son, patience...
[/internal monologue]
And I'll say one other thing which applies to life in general. Take a holiday to visit your parents, you'll be freaking glad you did. :)
 
Dante - not when your mother sends you books entitled 'The Marriage Plan - How to meet and marry your soulmate in a year or less'
Which she did. 2 weeks ago.
 
oh apples, serious? I'd kill my mum if she sent me stuff like that.
My mum has this idea that I'm the type who will only have "one great love", and until I find him, i'll just flit around. Which i guess is her way of explaining the fact that my two younger sisters are in steady relationships and I'm just not interested.
Oh well, i guess it's better than self-help books :(
 
I find being single is more akin to spending time on the kiddy merry-go-round than a rollercoaster.
No highs or lows, just a quiet boring ride with few surprises.
 
Look on the bright side apples... only 50 weeks to go! ;) j/k
You should send her a book called "Leave me alone, I'm aware of my situation and you're not helping by sending me silly fucking books you probably saw on Good Morning Australia"... :)
You know where I am if you feel like chatting.....
 
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