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Highly amusing DiscoDiablo, you fount of hilarity and chicken fornication, you! ;)
Nobody has ever accused me of being mature, thank the gods! But if 2 mods do na like it, then it is not liked (by anyone that counts ;) )
*crosses arms like a x across the chest*
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Disco Diablo: So what if Tars was defending miss apple? I'm about to defend both of them - quite frankly your post was stupid and the naked pic was out of line... remember people read bluelight at work sometimes...
Also regarding this thread - it's slowly turning into a bullshit fest... to all those that have bothered to write decent replies thank you... but for everyone else, please take your shit and stupid jokes elsewhere. It's crap like that that's made this thread get to part 7 in the first place, and in no time at all this thread is already half way to too big again...
Lets cut out the crap a bit please...
 
Maybe they always seem too young as you are too old Kandeman :P (Ok not much older than me, but hey, it was worth a dig)
And I gotta agree, at least yours is in Oz not Singapore :/
 
THCPuffNStuff: Did you get the theme? if so, please send to me ;)
RushingRococco: Freedom rules but relationships have their good points, too bad ya can't have both huh.
Schizo: When do I get to meet your girl?
I second that WTF miss apple.
Disco Diablo: You amused me, hehe, That girl in the pic is very pretty, very naked too ;) Love the blue eyed cat.
I'm technically single, not really wanting to get into a relationship but wanting to find someone for company. Doesn't it suck when you find the right person at the wrong time in life.
 
Originally posted by Disco Diablo:
Not at all, actually dat grass patch will grow more vigourously than ever & when u return,
there isa possibility dat there will b a jungle there insted & a whole nu-world to explor-e.
Don't f'get your compass & map, though !!!

Actually, yeah, never thought about it that way disco diablo... in my newly-single-induced funk it's sometimes hard to see the bright side... but there's deifnitely a good spin! And I ain't spending anywhere near as much money anymore - why does being in a couple have to be expensive?!
So yes... I feel totally at that fine line between 'was it worth it for all this hurt' and 'well, I've loved, I've been loved, I've learnt something, it's all good'. We only live once I guess... but the feeling of being loved and supported in return is the best feeling in the world... OK, it was worth it!!!!!!!1
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Originally posted by Tabernacle:
Highly amusing DiscoDiablo, you fount of hilarity and chicken fornication, you! ;)
Nobody has ever accused me of being mature, thank the gods! But if 2 mods do na like it, then it is not liked (by anyone that counts ;) )
Make that 3 mods, now,Pleonastic just gave me a thrashin' too. Go on get all the other bluelight moderators to hammer my posting. Bring it on !!! I want a brawl. Any form of excitement will do, I'm bloody bored as hell!
Regarding chickens:
They are dumb, plentiful, and can't fly away to get away from you, which is perfect in my case. No farmhouse is safe from the wrath of my libido. Ha, har !
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Firstly, before I start properly, Disco Diablo, can you please take your off topic posts out of this thread? They do nothing but detract from sensible and useful conversation.
Now that's out of the way.
Well.
I'm pretty sure that because of the way that my one and only relationship ended, I'm going to cause all of my future relationships (if there are any) to crash and burn hard...
Basically, I met this girl in my first year of college (Year 11), and we were in most of the same classes, ended up talking lots, sitting next to each other, doing all activities that required a partner together, yada yada yada. I eventually worked up the courage to ask her out, and surprisingly, she said "Yes". We went out for about two months, nothing physical ever got involved in the relationship, and I mean NOTHING. Like, we kissed maybe once or twice in the two months.
I then came into school one day, and she didn't seem to be in a good mood at all. I didn't understand why she was in such a mood, and asked her if everything was OK, and got a Yes reply. I wasn't too sure though, I had a really bad feeling for some reason. We both ended up in Photography waiting for the teacher to arrive, and she turns to me and says, "I don't think we should be going out anymore."
And it was over like that.
I still to this day have NO idea why the hell things went the way they did, and still wonder about it, trying to figure it out. All I can think is that it's something I did, and I've been wracking my brain for the last four years trying to figure out what it was that I did.
And ever since, I've always considered that any relationship I might get myself into would be fucked up by yours truely, and again I'd have no idea why...
Anyway, enough of my ranting, it's 5:50am, and I'm tired and drained.
 
But Dante if you don't know why she broke up with you, how do you know it was anything you did?
She might have decided to concentrate on her studies.
She might have decided that she just wasn't ready for a boyfriend
She might have met someone else (which means there's nothing wrong with you...16ish year old girls can be a fickle lot)
She might even have worked out she's gay!
There are a thousand and one reasons why she no longer wanted to see you. And I highly doubt you doing something wrong was one of them. Don't let break up from 4 years ago affect how you deal with relationships now. It sounds like you've been just thinking way too much about it.
I don't mean to trivialise what you had with this girl, but when it comes down to it, it was a 2 month relationship in the second last year of high school. You had some classes together, you didn't sleep together and you only kissed a couple of times. Please don't let a high school dalliance ruin any possible mature and adult relationships you might have in the future! There's so much out there to experience. Forget about it...stop wondering what you did wrong...tell yourself it was her loss...and move on!!
 
^^^^^ what miss Apple said Dante, in the nicest possible way :) .
Hell, I've had... what... 6 serious relationships (ranging from 6 months to 2.5 years), an affair with a married man, dumped and been dumped on numerous occassions, 'cheated' on casual boyfriends, been cheated on by my serious boyfriends (!), loved like I thought I could never love again, and given away so many pieces of my heart I'm not sure how much of the original is left anymore! I'm 25, and when I see Four Weddings and a Funeral, and she makes that comment about Hugh Grant being s 'serial monogamist', I think of me!
Every time a relationship ends with someone, I wonder what I did wrong. That's where the talking and closure bit comes in, which it soemthing that didn't happen for you with this girl. If you're in a good relationship where you both respect eachother, you can generally have a conversation some time after the event where you can clarify your feelings about the whole thing and get your closure. then you're free to move on, knowing what happened last time, hopefully learning instead of letting it be a blow to your self esteem. However, if it was a bad relation ship and there's no possibility of talking, you pretty much know what was going on anyway ;)
All in all, it's so worth it! And I've just been broken up with! Jump into it with both your eyes and your heart open!!!
 
Disco Diablo: Your shit has been noticed by more than just us three mods - and believe me, you're on some fucking thin ice at the moment. DO NOT post any more shit like this in this thread, or any other threads. Any more off topic comments here will be removed.
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Well RRC if that's the kind of man you are looking for Tars is the perfect candidate! :)
I enjoy the freedom of being single, but i refuse to say that i want things one way or the other. When i find someone who i am attrracted to i will quite gladly enter a relationship, if it feels right at the time. I dont beleive i can make the decision that i want to be single or i want to be in a relationship unless there actually is an option. Just my 2Cents for today.
*runs off to ask Tars for hair and fasion tips* ;)
 
I'm just cruising through life. I don't know if I will ever meet the right person. I don't care.
Dwelling on circumstances which I cannot control is a waste of time.
I am alive, can listen to music, smell the mornning air, and watch the sun rise. That's enough for me.
Happiness is in the soul. :)
 
Sybarite: If RRC approves I'll let you borrow my wig and glue... 'cos seriously, you don't think this mofo purple afro is real do you?!?! ;)
And you're right (or sybaright), you can't decide that you want to be in a relationship if you're not, thinking that and trying to then be in a relationship is most often when things go bad and people get hurt...
 
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