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I sssssoooooo agree with u!
Seriously why spend your whole life trying to find that perfect someone when u don't even know who you are... and before u know it your too old to find out and your life has just disapeared!
I reckon more people these days should just take life as it comes!
If a realationship gose wrong you gotta think of it as an experience and a step closer to finding out what type of person you really are!!!!!
Another note to add: I don't beleave in a Romeo and Juliet type of love unless it acturly happened to me!
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Originally posted by punch e punch:
when they do find someone, they get so caught up in looking at (or imagining)themselves through another person's eyes that they forget who they really are.
Wow...you've managed to explain in one sentence what I've been trying to figure out for three years.
Click to expand...
 
Just when you think you've got it all figured out and all the self doubt is cleared up, two people come along and make some very insightful posts, and you have to go back and re-analyse to be sure in your beliefs...
*puts on comtemplation cap*
What if you've found yourself, quite a while ago, and what others have said and done has affirmed the results of your search... You know who you are, you know who other people think you are... What if you still can't find someone then?
[ 29 January 2002: Message edited by: Tarsarlan ]
 
"You can't find anyone until you find yourself first"
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that is definately true.. Relo's dont interest me at the moment, simply because im concentrating more on getting *MY* life the way i want to have it, then i will find someone who also has similar goals/aims and ideals that i have set for myself. Its all just a bit to hard if you ask me, and thats just setting my goals, haven't even got around to thinking about finding someone! :P
Chem.
PS This may be because either I like my life right now for the time been (therefore i dont need to move forward) or that im not sure how to/ where to move forward to.
 
being single is fun for about 85% of the time...you are your own boss and can dictate your life the way you want.
but that other 15% of the time can be depressing... lonely etc etc...
but hey if im happy 85% of the time id say that isnt too bad at all.
still i wouldnt hesitate to ditch my 'single' tag if the *right* girl came along ;)
[ 29 January 2002: Message edited by: circlecircus ]
 
A special note to chem:
One of the worst things you can do right now (well I think anyway) is to try and plan your life, especialy if u do it on paper...
Just go with the flow and take life as it comes-don't stress!!!!!!
Doh gone off track again...uuummm quick gotta say something to do with being single to relate to topic...ahhhh think brain think whats a good quote??????????
----------"When your single you feel so free you can almost fly"----- the most corny quote i have ever posted in my life!
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Firstly congrats n *hugs* to apollo.
Seccondly *hugest hugs* to Plaz...
Honey I'm so sorry things didn't work out for you. :(
I know it hurts now, but please don't totally loose faith and don't hide from trust. Somewhere out there is a girl who's just made for you and although you haven't met her yet, you will. It's very easy to crawl into a corner and sulk but the brave lick their wounds for a bit then put on a happy face and go out to confront the world.
*hugs again*
and thirdly *Kitty rapes deeCee1* ;) ;) ;)
 
Okay, I've been single for, hmmm... about 6 months?
Basically what happened was I was at a really low point in my life and I thought I was giving my girlfriend of 2 years too much shit to put up with (she was not in a good point in her life) we were aruging, making love was not what it used to be, blah blah blah. So I quite brutally broke up with her or she broke up with me, I'm still not sure of that.
A week after we broke up, she did say that she loved me, then we had a huge fight and didn't talk to each other for about 3-4 months.
The thing is... I think I still love her, BUT! I enjoy being single AND she's going out with another person (which's she's told me she's just going out with because she doesn't want to be single.) The thing also is, my attachment to her is causing me to not go out with these 2 other people who I both think are really cool people.
That sucks.
And the thing is, I know she isn't the right person for me, she's got many traits that I find incredably annoying, and the way she is really pisses me off, yet I still am in love with her.
Bah.
We just have this chemistry, we clicked the moment we met, love at first sight blah blah blah. The thing is, I WANT to not have these feelings for her, but I can't. I WANT to go out with some other person BUT I can't.
What I want from a relationship is intamacy. I want hugs in the morning, a sudden kiss when we're watching tv, that sort of stuff. That's all I miss.
But all in all, I'm enjoying my single life!
 
Oooh Fetish Jester - are you some kind of alter ego of mine? I understand everything you're saying (even down to the two other people who you can't really convince yourself to like...)Unfortunately, the two other people are also friends of my ex :-(
I think I need to get a bigger circle of friends.
(And if anybody I know / involved is reading this, ummmmmm, pretend you're not)
 
jester, ive been through that exact same thing.. cept i was lucky enough to have not gone through the whole messy breakup thing - ours was a mutual "ok this is really over..lets end it before we hate each other".
personally, i dont think its worth holding up your life or happiness just coz of a girl who you know you have no future with.. and i also think that being in a relationship purely for the sake of having the relationship-kinda thing going is really just leading to a spiral of hurt.
but hey thats just me. maybe you need to just do the friendship thing for a bit before you get yourself into anymore fullon relationships.. at least give yourself some time so you can move on from your past relationship. if you're not ready, then you're not ready.. dont go hurting yourself more just coz you want a girlfriend.
*tight understanding hugz*
and plaz, i feel for ya dude.. breakups suck a whole lot
*frowns and hugz plaz aswell*
stace.
 
*hugz plaz*
Im so sorry :( ...... i hate the break up part.. it makes me feel alone again... but recentley i have come to the conclusion that i am allergic to committment...... so.. im quite happy to be in here with the singles and have huge orgasmic orgasims... in the kandy room :) ..
Whos with me!!!
 
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