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i've done the "dating the best friend" thing, and let me assure you it was not pretty. It didn't last very long, and our friendship never entirely recovered. There are somethings that should not be, and that relationship was one of them...
This leads me to a minor tangent, but i would be interested in hearing your thoughts on the matter:
When someone says "relationship" do you automatically think a sexual relationship, or is it possible to have a relationship between two people who are purely friends?
I have encountered some difficulty with this confusion of definitions, has anyone else?
 
Actually you made a fucking good point ^^^ what the FUCK did happen to going from friends, to dating to being together?
Lets hear it for naughty thoughts too damnit, they make the world go around.
I think that there's often some edge of sexual tension in a great many male/female friendships, and that's to be expected I suppose, its mainly a question of how you deal with it that's going to determine the outcome.
-plaz out-
 
I will never ever do anything to jepordize a friendship.
Friends are the most important thing in my life.
As to the difference of fucking buddies and relationships, rolling over and going to sleep or rolling over and cuddling.
 
hoptis:
Nah... I never ever wanna have some rough and tumble the ugly ones.
Pretty much all of the attractive girls out there I'd like to put away until some young lass wants to put me away as hard as I want to put her away.
Then I know I've got something special going ;)
but on another note I'm completely a one girl guy... Why wouldn't you be?
*glug*
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I can't imagine you leaving the enterprise
[ 23 November 2002: Message edited by: SupaDiscoBreaka ]
 
My mom
Is better than
Your mom and your dad too
She's there when she needs to be there
That's why I'm here today
Because she cooks
She cleans
She lies...she says...
You fuckin' lied to me
 
Originally posted by me:
I like to think I can be "just friends" with a guy but in general...there's always the odd naughty thought floating around.
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so, who here has gone the friends to r'ship route (no pun intended)
did it work out? would it have been better if you just stayed friends?
I take back some of what I said before...had a bbq with some old school friends tonite and I realised that some of the guys I have known for years have become really good friends without any attraction either way.
and to answer my own question...I have been with friends on 2 occasions and both turned to shit. First time round it took a year before we were even friends again, 2nd time round (and you think I would've learnt) we haven't spoken since.
sKc = shit at r'ships :D hehe
[ 24 November 2002: Message edited by: sKatteredchickee ]
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Hence why I would never ever even kiss a friend. The down side is that I rarely get any sex, but on the up side I have the strongest friendships with all my friends.
 
tis the season to be jolly....
work christmas party is this friday, I've only been there 2 months so I feel I should be on best behaviour (something tells me this wont work out)
anyone done the dirty at the work chrissie party?
 
SDB you can be my friend any time. At least you know I'm not going to start any crazy man sex with you.
Chrissy parties. Hmm, well considering my office only has guys working there, including the secretary, I can't say I've done anything with my co workers.
 
First time in four years for me to be single over summer :D
And yeah I have friends that are guys with no sexual tension, but then again most of them are gay!!! I love gay guys :D But I think that most friendships I have had in the past with guys have ended up in difficulties due to that kind of stuff. It really sucks when someone you think of as a friend likes you and it makes me uncomfortable too.
Neways atleast I am happy about being single. I really cant see a bad side about it at all :D
 
Hey Boppychick I don't suppose your a blond?
I've got some photos from Gods Kitchen with a bunch of BL and I'm trying to work out who the mystery girl is.
I'm starting to think I'm gay. Single, neat, and I get along with girls too well. Plus I take a little bit too much care of my body then whats healthy for a male, ie moisturising, waxing, exfoliating.
Hmm maybe I'll try the gay thing, just for laughs.
 
Dude I so met you like 5 times, remember walking through the crowd in the big arena and we bumped into each other when you were looking for someone and then at Bass Station we were sitting on the side for a bit near the round couch things with fb1 :)
Oh and yes I am blonde.
 
Sllip : Single, neat, looks after his body... apart from intelligence what else could one ask for in a man? It doesn't sound like there's anything wrong with you to me... :)
 
oh shit I didn't expect that....
I might have found a way out of this thread..
funny thing is we hooked up sober!! but we were both super under slept.
anyhow lets see
 
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