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Bluelight Singles - from begining to end! don't we love the merge feature!

Is it just me or does it only ever seem like girls that are leaving this thread for doubles-life?
Anyway, I'm not going into my weekend's debauchery this time, I really did go way too far and the details aren't for public viewing. If you really wanna know, find me at WOTW and I'll tell ya. :D Hehehehehehe....
 
*LAUGHS HIS ASS OFF*
Wiretrippa that was a CALL & THREE QUARTERS!
Oh? As for me? I'm here, I'm always here, except when I'm not here, which is kind of self explanatory, leaving me to explain why I explained it in that case.
Being single is half as easy as being in a relationship, but then its half as hard too. You win some, you lose some, but the point is you have to think half as much, and you're still a whole person! Or perhaps its completely vice versa, because two minds could be better than one.
But my point is, if I had one, I think its a pretty blunt point, it needs sharpening. My point is, that life is a state of mind. So quit worrying and start living.
Always.
-plaz out-
 
I'm not going to bother repeating myself, but my brief sujorn into the world of couples may have been cut short.
I spin shit about how fucked it all is, as well as raising a few interesting points on my homepage here.
Basically the question I raise is how many of you people would stay single for an extended period of time if you knew at the end of it you would hook up with someone that basically fulfilled everything you wanted in a relationship?
Or how many of you out there are already in this boat?
 
Hell yes? If your going to end up with the person that fulfills everything you desire (and I assume you would for them to) then I know personally I'd wait whatever period of time was specified....
I dont think anyone would say otherwise ??
 
If everyone knew they were going to find that special person at the end of it all then I don't think anyone would actually mind being single, even for very long periods of time. The point is that no-one can be sure that person will come along, so we fumble our way through and hope for the best. The worst thing about being single is the thought that you will always be alone. If you knew that wasn't the case, then most of the problems with singledom would be erased.
 
Does anyone out there truely believe that they will be alone forever? I haven't met many people truely devoid of that hope.
 
QB, I believe I will find that certain someone, and I will spend the majority of my life in a relationship/marriage.
Enjoy this time while you have it. You will look back upon it in many years and think off all the possibilites.
You are young, good looking, charasmatic and smart. That perfect someone will come along.
 
^^^ werd DC. It never ceases to amaze me how many problems in any kind of relationship or friendship stem from a lack of good communication. People frequently seem to be 'unable' to communicate to their partner about how they are feeling, or an issue they have, either because they are affraid of the reaction it might cause or they dont know how to say it right, or any number of other reasons. In the end tho, the problem will not go away if you ignore it, usually it gets worse, so i think its better that you tell people how you feel or let them know something is bothering you than letting it slide...
I mean really... how many times have you not said something to the person youre crushing on and months later regretted it?
 
Whether two people are just fooling around, a regular hook-up or going out, talking openly about what each person expects out of it is ever-so-important... don't you agree? :D Hahaha....
Anyway, on another topic (re: knowing there'll be someone at the end of the single's tunnel). I was on a date a couple weeks ago with this girl and we were talking about this. She was only 23, but totally anxious and stressed about being single and when I said, "Chill out... we all find someone." She quite adamantly said, "NO! No we don't... not everyone does!!!"... Uhhr... okay...
So not long after that she got back together with her ex. The same ex she dumped for cheating on her and playing games with her. It's a cycle that'll repeat itself until she finally wakes up.
I was actually bluffing when I said we all find someone (LOL), I can't be 100% sure, there's no guarantees and that's just the way it is. Even while we were talking (we were at a bar on a Friday night) I saw a sad old man sitting opposite us who was drinking by himself (yeah, the date was going so well that I was checking out old men lol).
Still, I feel as if I knew something she didn't know... but I have no idea what it is.
 
^^^^
Owww don't worry buddy, things will pick up. It's not all that bad being single. I'm single and I'm alright. (Said with a very disturbed smile on my face)
 
deeCee *hugs* you’re right bub, it’s all about communication.
Open, honest communication.
You can talk to each other til you’re blue in the face but it still won’t work if somebody’s not being honest.
Compromise is a big thing too, people have to learn that they can’t have everything their own way, to be in a successful relationship you need to give as well as take.
 
What is that tingly grey space between singledom and being in a relationship? Why do all singles seem to be wanting to be in a relationship? And all couples in a relationship? What if you are just happy being yourself, not wanting, not needing, just contemplating and existing? Perhaps I could call it greydom, or something...
What happened to just chilling to the ambient beats of life itself?
*eats some raisins*
 
werd fb1, I AM just chilling to the ambient beats of life, floating along, loving day after day. But thats because I am aware I'm in greydom, I know that soon enough I will be back in a relationship, so I am enjoying this time as much as you all should be :)
 
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