i really hate how easily people sucker me into responding to things.
after this comment, i am leaving this thread, and anyone with anything else to say to me can do so via PM.
to clarify things regarding giving head, i very much enjoy giving head to my boyfriend. i don't go around sucking guys off as a hobby; i work hard to satisfy the man i love.
while swallowing is not my favorite thing in the world, i have done it for previous boyfriends and do it regularly for my current one. i don't find it the most pleasant thing in the world to have anything shot into my mouth since i have a sensitive gag reflex -- i would be just as likely to gag if someone aimed a water pistol at the back of my throat. my only real point about swalowing is that if a girl chooses not to swallow, it's not right for a guy to treat the incident as though it somehow cancels out the blowjob and it spun out of control from that point.
i have always been more than willing to give my boyfriends head (as long as they return the favor, fair is fair); sometimes i swallow and sometimes i don't. both of us are comfortable and content with that arrangement and the rest of our sex life. it seems there's a lot of weight put on the importance of swallowing, and that's your prerogative. however, in our sex life, whether or not i swallow isn't an issue. we're both more than satisfied sexually and both of us prefer a good bout of position-changing, hair-pulling, good old fashioned raw sex to getting head. the only people who need to be happy about my sex life are myself and my boyfriend, and if respecting a woman's right to not always swalow makes him a pussy, so be it. the topic of swallowing is just not that important, and it's already been discussed to death.
i've apologized for anything offensive i may have said, and i meant it. i didn't mean to make a bad impression upon anyone, but you've all made up your minds about me, so there seems to be no sense in me sticking around this thread while you toss insults at me and can't seem to understand anything i'm saying. i don't see how hard this is: giving head is not the first thing on my "favorite things" list, but i give todd head quite regularly and swallow sometimes. i'm sorry if anyone got pissed off when i said that it's wrong for a man to be rude or complain after a blowjob if the woman doesn't swallow, but it's the truth. i'm sure behind your monitors you're actually all decent people who don't actually think that women are disposable line items who aren't worth anything if they don't swallow, but it's your choice if you want to show another side of yourselves or not.
greenfalcon, condescension is something that you really can't derive from text, but if i came across that way i apologize. as for "disagreeing", it seems the disagreements include the actual version of my sex life versus the fabricated ones by everyone else here, whether or not a woman has somehow failed if she doesn't want to swallow, and whether or not i like to give head (which i hope i've made clear).
i am asking you sincerely and nicely... please, let's just stop this. i realize that i incited something of a riot, but it was quite unintentional and i'm truly sorry and harbor no ill will towards anyone; we just don't agree on certain things, and i can live with that and be cool with everyone if everyone else is willing to do the same.
if anyone has anything else to say to me (including anything posted before this comment that i didn't see yet, because i won't see it), you can reach me via PM. my apology is sincere, but this conversation needs to stop now, at least from my end. i sincerely hope some or all of you actually do PM me and we can be civil, but i will leave that up to you. i am now through with this thread and if i do not hear from you via PM, i consider the matter closed and will assume that you're unwilling to accept my apology and move on. that's your choice and i respect it; getting out of this thread is my choice, and i hope you respect that. i meant no one any ill will or harm and hope the rest of your day is more fun than the time you spent dealing with me.
...one final note. in no way do i believe, nor did i say or intend that all women are clean. i realize that some women do indeed have unpleasant odors and/or tastes; however, i personally have been lucky to not go down on any of them. as long as my cunt and the ones i lick are clean and don't smell like anything from the ocean, i'm satisfied. i understand the comparison being made, but just like all women don't taste good, they don't all taste/smell bad, either. also, i believe i mentioned the actual TASTE of semen once, but allow me to say that the taste generally doesn't bother me, although after eating certain foods it can be bitter and that's not the best flavor. i've now put forth more than enough effort at making things right and will gladly do so via PMs with anyone who PMs me. accept my apologies or not, but now that i've given them and tried to make things right repeatedly, i give up on trying to make peace, though i hope to hear from you. good day.