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Ratherbewater, seriously, read what your saying. You say that "if you dont want to read it all, then dont." Im an avid reader and happy to read anything of a worthy SUBSTANCE. All you have done is repeat yourself. "My boyfriend likes this" and "I LIKE GIVING HEAD." Congratulations but for the love of fucking christ stop demonising it if you love it so much!

I mean seriously, you have completely contradicted yourself throughout this thread. One minute your commenting on this slimy, sticky ball of white stuff that is being "shot" down your throat and how traumitising it is (your boyfriend being exempt of course) but then you go on 45,622 times about how you love giving head and how you enjoy it and how you love your boyfriend and how you love pleasing him and how you enjoy it and how you love your boyfriend etc etc.

I think i have made my point. There are many things in life that we dont like doing, and for the majority of these, we have a choice as to whether we want to do them. So you either love giving head, or you dont? Stop contradicting yourself by saying how disgusting and tough it can be, but then its ok because your love your boyfriend?
 
ratherbewater said:
.....and because i don't respond well to men who think they can bark demands at me and get their way.

You dont respond to men well....period! You have been criticising our opinions from the start. As soon as we said eating out a girl doesnt taste to nice, you had to back it up with your experiences with women, and how they were ok to you! Just because you have had a couple of experiences with CLEAN women doesnt mean they all are...
 
i really hate how easily people sucker me into responding to things.

after this comment, i am leaving this thread, and anyone with anything else to say to me can do so via PM.

to clarify things regarding giving head, i very much enjoy giving head to my boyfriend. i don't go around sucking guys off as a hobby; i work hard to satisfy the man i love.

while swallowing is not my favorite thing in the world, i have done it for previous boyfriends and do it regularly for my current one. i don't find it the most pleasant thing in the world to have anything shot into my mouth since i have a sensitive gag reflex -- i would be just as likely to gag if someone aimed a water pistol at the back of my throat. my only real point about swalowing is that if a girl chooses not to swallow, it's not right for a guy to treat the incident as though it somehow cancels out the blowjob and it spun out of control from that point.

i have always been more than willing to give my boyfriends head (as long as they return the favor, fair is fair); sometimes i swallow and sometimes i don't. both of us are comfortable and content with that arrangement and the rest of our sex life. it seems there's a lot of weight put on the importance of swallowing, and that's your prerogative. however, in our sex life, whether or not i swallow isn't an issue. we're both more than satisfied sexually and both of us prefer a good bout of position-changing, hair-pulling, good old fashioned raw sex to getting head. the only people who need to be happy about my sex life are myself and my boyfriend, and if respecting a woman's right to not always swalow makes him a pussy, so be it. the topic of swallowing is just not that important, and it's already been discussed to death.

i've apologized for anything offensive i may have said, and i meant it. i didn't mean to make a bad impression upon anyone, but you've all made up your minds about me, so there seems to be no sense in me sticking around this thread while you toss insults at me and can't seem to understand anything i'm saying. i don't see how hard this is: giving head is not the first thing on my "favorite things" list, but i give todd head quite regularly and swallow sometimes. i'm sorry if anyone got pissed off when i said that it's wrong for a man to be rude or complain after a blowjob if the woman doesn't swallow, but it's the truth. i'm sure behind your monitors you're actually all decent people who don't actually think that women are disposable line items who aren't worth anything if they don't swallow, but it's your choice if you want to show another side of yourselves or not.

greenfalcon, condescension is something that you really can't derive from text, but if i came across that way i apologize. as for "disagreeing", it seems the disagreements include the actual version of my sex life versus the fabricated ones by everyone else here, whether or not a woman has somehow failed if she doesn't want to swallow, and whether or not i like to give head (which i hope i've made clear).

i am asking you sincerely and nicely... please, let's just stop this. i realize that i incited something of a riot, but it was quite unintentional and i'm truly sorry and harbor no ill will towards anyone; we just don't agree on certain things, and i can live with that and be cool with everyone if everyone else is willing to do the same.

if anyone has anything else to say to me (including anything posted before this comment that i didn't see yet, because i won't see it), you can reach me via PM. my apology is sincere, but this conversation needs to stop now, at least from my end. i sincerely hope some or all of you actually do PM me and we can be civil, but i will leave that up to you. i am now through with this thread and if i do not hear from you via PM, i consider the matter closed and will assume that you're unwilling to accept my apology and move on. that's your choice and i respect it; getting out of this thread is my choice, and i hope you respect that. i meant no one any ill will or harm and hope the rest of your day is more fun than the time you spent dealing with me.



...one final note. in no way do i believe, nor did i say or intend that all women are clean. i realize that some women do indeed have unpleasant odors and/or tastes; however, i personally have been lucky to not go down on any of them. as long as my cunt and the ones i lick are clean and don't smell like anything from the ocean, i'm satisfied. i understand the comparison being made, but just like all women don't taste good, they don't all taste/smell bad, either. also, i believe i mentioned the actual TASTE of semen once, but allow me to say that the taste generally doesn't bother me, although after eating certain foods it can be bitter and that's not the best flavor. i've now put forth more than enough effort at making things right and will gladly do so via PMs with anyone who PMs me. accept my apologies or not, but now that i've given them and tried to make things right repeatedly, i give up on trying to make peace, though i hope to hear from you. good day.
 
anyhoo,back on topic....I enjoy swallowing my partner's cum,it makes it feel like the job's been done well,also it's great feeling him wriggle and squirm in delight as he's cumming and i just suckle the end of his cock,tis fun!but everyone's different and i don't think he'd enjoy it half as much if he thought i was just swallowing because i think he wants me to,rather than because i actually want to.=D If a guy told me to swallow,regardless of wether i would have or not,i'd refuse to suck his cock.it's the girls choice to swallow or not and if you don't like it learn to bend in half and do it yourself!:)
 
i wouldn't say i'm a 'real woman' because i like the taste,but i do cook for my guy so i make sure he eats properly and i know he's clean. i cum and ejaculate...granted it's a different texture from a woman but he never complains about me, and i don't complain about him.swallow and smile and if it's really that bad tasting force him to kiss you and swirl it around his mouth so he'll never force you too if you don't want again!
 
whats a REAL woman?
i always thought it was an adult bearing a pair of tits and a pussy, born wiv the XX gene.....
im a real woman, well i was last time i checked
women can b grossed out by things, so can men
i dont mind performing oral sex for my partner and spitting out his cum, even tho i nearly always choke on his cock - please 'real women' grant me sum insight into how u DONT bite or gag on a spewing six-and-a-half inch cock
surely there rnt bigger mouths than MINE out there ;)
 
i always hated spitting... i either swallow or just let him come on my tits or whatever. the very first time i ever let a guy come in my mouth i went to spit it out and it was really gross... like it didnt' taste bad or anything like that, i was just young and had never had anything quite that consistency in my mouth before. so ever since then i've never even attempted spitting. honestly, i'm not adverse to the having someone come in my mouth (well, at the moment i'm adverse to anyone other than todd doing it but you know what i mean), but my gag reflex is so sensitive that before he comes i have to like, slide my tongue up over the top of his dick so that he comes under my tongue and it doesn't hit my gag reflex. as long as i do it that way i'm totally fine with swallowing, but todd's the first boyfriend who remembers *every time* to give me enough advance warning to get my tongue in the right place. so upon thinking about it, i'm fine with swallowing as long as the guy can do me the simple favor of telling me before he shoots so that i can aim it away from my throat. but in my dating history i've found that more men (i can't say more men as a grand statistic, just more of the men i've dated) like to come ON girls (like on their tits or stomachs) than in their mouths. i only had one other boyfriend who wanted me to swallow, now that i think about it... everyone else either wanted to come on me or in me. but the reason i'm always willing to swallow for todd is that he actually gives a shit about me while i'm doing it instead of just thinking "blowjobblowjobblowjob" or whatever they think about (i've never asked, because i don't want to know which megahot celebrity it is... i tend to think about angelina jolie and carmen electra when i think about girls)... he's not one of those guys who like shoves his cock down your throat, i can't deep throat with my gag reflex and it's really cool that he's careful about that, and he gives me like more warnings than i need, he'll tell me like three times before he comes. and the fact that he's completely fine with kissing me afterwards, now THAT is what i consider a real man, someone who isn't all squicky about getting jizz on themselves.

but really, todd and i are both more into sex and mutual masturbation than head... mutual masturbation, now there's something that i could do every day.

once upon a time, BL was a drug site...

oh, right. *waves white flag* i'm back here to have fun with this thread, and fun i shall have.

drug wench, thanks for the quick rundown of what makes a real woman. i checked and i meet the criteria, although i do have balls.

(on my piercing.)
 
bluelight is a drug forum in general,but this is slr,if you don't like it don't post.
i think the general consensus is that everyone enjoys different things.and that the op shouldn't make his gf do anything she doesn't want to do.
This is just my opinion,but i think most men would would want to cum on you rather than in your mouth only for you to spit it out.
 
relax, did the tone of that post seem particularly serious to you? if i didn't like it, i wouldn't have posted... by virtue of the existence of my post, i obviously have no problem with the topic. and for a minute i didn't even know what forum i was in. sorry, blame sleep dep. but i was really just joking.

most guys i've been with have actually preferred coming on me to coming in my mouth, even though i don't spit... it's either down my throat or on me. i'm sure it's not exactly what a guy wants to see right after a hummer, and there's no graceful way to get up and spit out a big wad. it's way easier just to swallow. but really, i've found that most guys i've been with and most of my male friends get more of a charge out of coming on a girl's tits or somewhere else on her body than from doing it in her mouth.

damn it, why can't women play target practice once in a while?
 
The Anti-Man said:
Aren't there certain foods you can eat to make your semen taste sweeter or something? Maybe you could start eating a lot of the foods to change the flavour of your come, so that your girlfriend would be more willing.

yeah, i heard that pineapples make your cum taste better.

but meats etc, make it nasty.
 
i don't know what the hell he ate, but one time my boyfriend's was INCREDIBLY bitter... or at least "bitter" is the closest word i can think of to describe the flavor. it was like... the taste of what burning plastic smells like. whatever it was, it was gone by the next day and it never happened again, so he must have eaten something bizarre, but that's quite a shock when you're expecting normal-flavored spooge.

meat makes it nasty? really? todd's is always fine and he eats meat on a regular basis.
 
beamers said:
She's started going on like there's this huge plan to oppress women and all of these bullshit gender issues in the bedroom. Semen tastes gross, sex is so much work for women, I mean please spare me. I was only showing her how ridiculous and misguided this point of view is, it's not nice when it's on the other foot is it? You didn't like the idea of someone saying that your body fluids taste unpleasant.
I've heard similar crap from a woman before and it was because she was raped (hardly unbiased) and this one is a lesbian (again hardly unbiased), it's about hating men that's all. I'm sorry you were born with a vagina.

and answer greenfalcon's question.....

You're acting as if any woman who isn't turned on by semen is a "man-hater" or a "prude." That's an absurd, reductionist way of explaining away anyone who doesn't enjoy performing your favorite sexual acts. How'd you like it if I said all men who aren't aroused by menstrual blood are obviously just prudes or hardcore woman-haters?
 
Sheesh, this thread was tiresome just to scan, and not really even worth it.

Some girls swallow and undoubtedly some won't no matter whether the guy is offended or not.

If you're that offended by your gf being absolutely opposed to swallowing in all instances, decide whether it's a dealbreaker to you. If so, move along. If not, live with it.

Some girls would like to fuck their men in the ass with a strap-on or engage in asstoy play with them, and most guys are absolutely opposed to that. Are the guys being selfish prudes?

An orgasm is an orgasm. Whether the blowjob byproduct ends up swallowed or spit into a washcloth, you still came. I don't think not swallowing is unreasonable per se, and I just don't see how it's unfair to have to respect another's reasonable sexual boundaries. Besides, sexual boundaries do sometimes change of their own accord over time.

If you consider one rather minor subissue of sexual compatibility to be of such great importance that your SO's disagreement renders the two of you sexually incompatible, then that's a pretty good indication you need to be moving along and looking for someone who sees facial to facial with you.
 
glowbug said:
An orgasm is an orgasm.

No it's not! :p

To come in a girl's mouth is a much more satisfying way to finish a blowjob. I can't explain why, but it is.
 
beamers said:
It's a valid comparison, have you tasted a vagina? Salty has got to be better than rotting fish.

Not all girls taste like that. Not all guys taste disgusting either, Ive been with some guys who tasted really good and I enjoyed giving them oral. Ive also been with guys who smelled/tasted so disgusting I couldnt go down on them at all.

Either way, if I was to go down and they guy actually got mad I didnt swallow, that would be the last time he got head from me and probably the last time I ever talked to him at all. This is insanely disrespecful and not something Ive ever encountered in real life..
 
beamers said:
Females do have arange of other sexual body fluids that are produced from arousal and guys on here don't complain about getting it in their mouth, around their mouth, rubbed onto their chest (this one was a favourite of mine) or wherever.

Id just like to point out that there is a big difference between getting something ON you, and EATING IT.
 
7zark7 said:
No it's not! :p

To come in a girl's mouth is a much more satisfying way to finish a blowjob. I can't explain why, but it is.
Relax, I wasn't insisting that YOU had to quit swallowing. If you enjoy it that much, by all means keep it up.
 
Asenath said:
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And you're probably one of those dudes who would react with revulsion to the idea of performing oral sex on a menstruating woman.

NEWSFLASH: Sperm is nastier than blood! It smells nastier, tastes nastier, looks nastier, and even feels nastier than blood.

Sperm is the most vile of bodily fluids (a fact so certain that odds are there's a mathematical formula to prove it ;)). Only our society's carefully constructed and unnecessary collective sperm fetish stands in the way of this knowledge.

If pro-sperm fetish socialization didn't exist, spermophilia would be considered as deviant as coprophilia currently is. pro-sperm fetish socialization does exist, and sperm fetishes in females are instead considered "teh haWtness."

Whatever are you on about woman? You should study feminist social theory less and shag a bit more sweetheart..

Hey, I'm one of the few guys that can rarely cum via oral sex, and I'm not a huge fan of receiving oral..but I have no problem with my own sperm, hell, I even lick it off my fingers after jerking off, or I'll stick my finger inside the woman after cumming and then lick my finger.

Partners I have been with enjoyed swallowing cum, I just don't get off on making a woman do something to please me and wouldn't cause a scene if they decided to not swallow. One girl loved watching me masturbate and at the crucial moment would make sure every drop of my semen got into her mouth.

Human sexuality is extremely varied, it's quite pointless make gross assumptions about what happens in bedrooms across the world.

What's with the grossness of semen? I love a women's wetness, and I love all the smells and tastes of sex, including cum.

Cum is life, cum is manly lust, vigour and virility, cum along with sweating, panting, groaning noises of sex. It actually has a slightly nutty smell to it.

If anything you are a frigid woman, embarrased about flesh and lust, you need to get away from behind your books every now and then.
 
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