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BL, help me figure out if this guy is into me

Ahh, Pagey, sounds like he doesn't want to be tied down. S'ok. That doesn't mean he isn't interested. He's just keeping himself from getting tied down. Maybe he was recently hurt by someone? That'll do it for most people.

The dating world is fun, eh? :D

I commend you on that "just go get 'im and stop playing games" attitude. I like that. Good for you. It didn't work out this time, but sometimes ya gotta just swing at the fences in the dating world.
 
'Fun', yeah! And thanks, although I have to say I think it was more of a 'I'm drunk, let's just say everything and see what happens' type of attitude, haha. Well we did kiss and he did say he has feelings for me so it does sound like he's interested. I think yeah, it's because we barely know each other and he basically wants to make sure we really do get along before we get more seriously involved or something - so yeah he doesn't want to be tied down with me in the event that we're not actually that good for each other and he finds someone who is or something. We hung out after that discussion last night and again today and there was no awkwardness at all, so I'm just going to continue being normal and fun with him and we'll just see if he comes around! Fingers crossed =D
 
Cornishman said:
He's being a pussy.

Tell him it doesn't matter about 'rushing things'.
Tap into that passion.....

If it's there on his part you'll soon know. ;)
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I like how this guy thinks! People suck so bad at dating anymore...so what if you've been hurt or whatever, you got to try to get with someone new. You don't have to give it all away, but don't be afraid to spend some time with someone. You won't know until you do. You're actually going to hurt yourself more by being a pussy.
 
And thanks, although I have to say I think it was more of a 'I'm drunk, let's just say everything and see what happens' type of attitude, haha
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Amen, sistah! Nothin' wrong with that!

And amen to the rest of your post. You know when they come around? When you find someone else. LOL If you happen to find someone else and lose interest in this guy, I give it a 95% chance he'll suddenly want you to pay more attention to him. Happens allllll the time. lol
 
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