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BL, help me figure out if this guy is into me

sounds like the start of a typical pump n dump college relationship.
 
I prefer fuck & chuck but I guess that is more civil
 
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OK based on what you wrote yeah he's into you. He gave you a hug, and said he really liked you. Just be friends with him and see how it goes you don't have to rush into anything.
 
If he was me, I'd be super excited about getting laid tomorrow. He likes/wants you, and that's what you want so enjoy it! I give it 30 minutes tops before Fifa turns into a movie, sharing a blanket and making out :)
I'm could be way wrong, and he is just super friendly and wants to get to know you but yeah.
 
Licence to Pill said:
If he was me, I'd be super excited about getting laid tomorrow. He likes/wants you, and that's what you want so enjoy it! I give it 30 minutes tops before Fifa turns into a movie, sharing a blanket and making out :)
I'm could be way wrong, and he is just super friendly and wants to get to know you but yeah.
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Cornishman said:
He wants to fuck you.

I'm British, and asking a girl into your room to play Fifa is code for wanting to have sex.
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Cool =D
 
Well he said he'd text me around 4 to tell me when I could come over - it's 5:40 and he didn't. Ouch.

Edit: actually he rescheduled to this week-end.
 
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Awww, Pagey, that's so awesome! I'm late on the scene here, but yeah, I think he was trying to make it obvious that he's into you.

I hope you have a good time. Let us know how it went. :)
 
Hmm. If anyone wants to continue with this (and it would be much appreciated!), I'm very confused as to what's going on. We spoke for a while on facebook last night, I ended up telling him he should come down and watch Friends with me in my room sometime, he said yeah that'd be great, so I took that to be a good sign. So tonight I ask him if he wants to come over, he in return asks me if I want to go play pool with him and a few people downstairs, so we do that. He hung out and talked to me a lot while we were playing (more than to the other people I think), asked me to come out with him to smoke (although granted, we both do so that's not very weird) etc. I caught him looking at me a couple times but yeah...I don't know. I'm thinking he's maybe just extremely friendly? Or is he just being slow about things or something? I might have freaked him out, he came in my room at a bad time earlier, I'd taken too many drugs and was feeling sick so I probably acted weird.
 
He might be confused as to whether or not YOU are interested. I think he's interested still. If he wasn't interested, he wouldn't invite you out with him. He would have just said "nah, not interested."
 
Lysis said:
He might be confused as to whether or not YOU are interested. I think he's interested still. If he wasn't interested, he wouldn't invite you out with him. He would have just said "nah, not interested."
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Exactly what I was thinking! Too many drugs + acting weird COULD have given him the wrong idea!!! :P
But inviting you out with his friends, in my opinion, means he could possibly want more than just a fuck buddy / friends with benefits type relationship.
 
Well...I'm a fucking idiot. We were just out at a club with a few other people and for some reason I thought it would be a good idea to just tell him how I felt. Well I simply said something like 'I kinda like you'. He answered that he feels the same way about me, that he is attracted to me and all that, but it's only been a week and he doesn't want to rush into things. So basically he just wants to stay friends like before, not to anything now, and 'see how it goes'...also we kissed which makes the whole thing so much worse because it was so great. Do you think I should keep my hopes up about this since it wasn't a definitive no, more like 'let's wait and see', or should I just suck it up now and start forgetting about him? :(
thanks for the help everyone
 
Yeah...well I tried to convince him for a little while, I mean I told him we didn't need to commit to anything, that we may as well give it a try if we both had the feelings and the attraction, blablabla, but I dunno he stood his ground. And then he said something about keeping his options open which was the most telling part I think. He said something like 'what if you meet some hot english guy next week' but it was obvious he was more unsure about himself. Oh well. I'll just wait and see if he comes back to me. What pisses me off mostly though is that now I have to continue acting like before around him, so fun and stuff, if I want to still have some chances - even though I don't exactly feel like being all happy when I look at him. Urgghh.
 
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