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Bluelighter
So, I got in touch with an old friend of mine. She is Mexican. We went to highschool with each other and have known each other for over a decade. Well she was giving me a ride the other night. It was a long ride, so we got to talking. We started to talk about her relationship. She is with a younger guy, and although he is Mexican, he seems like a total tool. I had him and her over to my apartment a few weeks ago, and was getting some very negative vibes from him (mean muggin', sticking his chest out, etc)
Well we had a little manly moment where he was walking by and I kind of stood as a barrier. You know what I am talking about. I won.
He is a lot younger and smaller than me, I could destroy him.
That being said, she tells me about how abusive he is. Tells me she cries every day, and that he cheats on her, uses her for a place to stay, and often physically abuses her. What the fuck am I suppose to do? I could easily beat his ass, but at the same time, is it my place? Yes she is an old friend, but I have no seen her in years. Is this a cry for help? Would beating his ass solve anything, or just make him more abusive toward her?
I really do not know how to handle this. I feel like I should AT LEAST confront him about it next time I see him. He is a cocky guy, so I know if I bring it up, I will have to end it my way.
Suggestions?
ps. it would feel good to beat someones ass for a good cause like this
Well we had a little manly moment where he was walking by and I kind of stood as a barrier. You know what I am talking about. I won.
He is a lot younger and smaller than me, I could destroy him.
That being said, she tells me about how abusive he is. Tells me she cries every day, and that he cheats on her, uses her for a place to stay, and often physically abuses her. What the fuck am I suppose to do? I could easily beat his ass, but at the same time, is it my place? Yes she is an old friend, but I have no seen her in years. Is this a cry for help? Would beating his ass solve anything, or just make him more abusive toward her?
I really do not know how to handle this. I feel like I should AT LEAST confront him about it next time I see him. He is a cocky guy, so I know if I bring it up, I will have to end it my way.
Suggestions?
ps. it would feel good to beat someones ass for a good cause like this