Ask an Escort- by XtcgrlATL

[GoddessLSD-XTC]

Would U Ever Give $$$ Back?

NO PRICE DISCUSSION !

Sorry Goddess, but you know the rules.

I never mentioned how much he paid me for more than a BJ.

I wrote, "I gave him $$ back but kept the rest 'cause I didn't feel like I earned it."

I would charge XX.X% more than $XX.XX 4 a BJ, provided it was convienient.

IMO the "Soup Nazi" was being over-zealous or I didn't explain myself as well as Xtcgrl did to my question. (Shoulda added that he didn't get what he paid 4.)

U xtcgrl!

I gave $XX.XX back because I didn't really need it, I figured the guy needed it more than me and I was on vacation on the best nude beach on the Pacific Coast.

Give money back? I might have in the past, but more likely it would flash through my head for an instant, I'd let my logical side brow beat my nice side, keep all the money with a smile, he'd leave in short order, and then maybe I'd feel a little guilty about it for half an hour, possibly talk to my roomie about feeling guilty and then she would think I was a dope for being the Hooker With a Heart of Gold and then I'd go buy myself a nice dinner with the money I considered giving back and all would be well.

The third time I had sex 4 $$$ I went to my car to get a condom, went back, he was passed out, so I locked, closed his door, pocketed the money and felt very good about it.

 

[beamers]

I'm sure you're a lovely girl and all but it sounds like a rip off, with all of these extra bits and there not being a menu. I guess there are people left wanting in society.

 

[GoddessLSD-XTC]

I'm sure you're a lovely girl and all but it sounds like a rip off, with all of these extra bits and there not being a menu.

I think the menu system xtcgrl has is pretty good. The grlz in Amsterdam have menus because time is $$$. A half hour of [set U'r limits here = "menu"] goes 4 $$$.

I guess there are people left wanting in society.

Yes, wanting 4 sex, love & $$$.

 

[xtcgrlatl]

Having a "menu" is totally just saying "I'll perform XXX act for $$$".

On top of being really trashy it's also a fantastic way to ensure an easy prostitution conviction when your "menu" is printed off your website and read back to you in court or even better, maybe they play the recording of you agreeing to a Number 3 combo of a Handjob, a blowjob, vaginal sex and a side of anal.

 

[beamers]

On top of being really trashy

You know what's unfortunate.....there are probably sex starved women at home that would do the honours for nothing with most of these guys (unless you're fucking homeless bums)......if only there was a way for these people to meet....like on the internet.

Having a "menu" is totally just saying "I'll perform XXX act for $$$".

Well you could be smart about the menu system and only use it face to face, I used to be a dealer for 5 years and offered more than one service/product, I never ran into problems with charging different prices for different products/amounts....(to all the cops reading this I said "used to be" there is nothing in my house, but feel free to double check for me if you feel like wasting your time). It sounds like a blow job would be way overpriced.


Do you do "greek" and dominatrix type gear (choking, slapping his balls with a horse riding crop, or maybe a pony tail butt plug whilst he's fucking you)... the mind wonders and wanders.....

 

[xtcgrlatl]

You know what's sad.....there are probably sex starved women at home that would do the honours for nothing with most of these guys (unless you're fucking homeless bums)......if only there was a way for these people to meet....like on the internet.

This has been addressed but I'll repeat it again. My clients are generally in a position where they don't have the free time or privacy they would need to chitchat some (probably not very good looking) "sex starved" internet chick into a position where she'd be up for getting together for half an hour at lunch time.

Secondly, if a woman is sex starved then she's either one of those women that will only have sex in the context of a relationship, or she's not very good looking. If she is good looking and looking for fun on the internet then she will probably soon realize that she doesn't have to do it for free and will get the idea to make some money while satiating her sex drive.

It makes much more sense when you consider all the variables involved rather then coming to the table with preconceived notions about how someone who's willing to pay an escort is probably a mutant that can't even get the local drunk bar sluts to go down on them in the bathroom.

 

[xtcgrlatl]

Well you could be smart about the menu system and only use it face to face

Yes, I suppose you could, if you want to get busted.

I used to be a dealer for 5 years and offered more than one service/product, I never ran into problems with charging different prices for different products/amounts....

As a dealer you probably didn't have your picture and phone number posted on the internet as providing "party supplies" on the highest traffic drug websites you could find and deal with anyone who called the number listed.

I do. I don't really have the option of advertising strictly through word of mouth and only dealing with friends of friends.

How long do you think you would skirt the law were you to post your picture, phone number and general location right on the open forum and say that you provide "party supplies" and then proceed to set up face to face deals straight talking what the products are and how much they costs with anyone who called your number?

It sounds like a blow job would be way overpriced.

Something is "overpriced" when the supply far exceeds the demand. Yet I have guys that show up, pay their money, and expect nothing but a blowjob.

Now you could say that it is "overpriced' based on the fact that you could find some guy on craigslist willing to give you a blowjob for free. If it's just the blowjob that matters that should be sufficient.

But that's not sufficient. There's more to it then that. I could suggest that a sushi dinner is overpriced because I can catch fish for free in the lake by my apartments, but that would be silly.

What clients are paying for is more then just a blowjob, they're paying specifically for me because I am attractive, genuinely pleasant to talk to, and have a reputation for providing above average service. They're also paying for the convenience of being able to get that service as of right now without having to dig through all the trash on "Casual Encounters" section of craigslist and hope to work something out with a girl who's acceptably attractive and who's actually who she says she is.

 

[Avporx]

othing I am not comfortable with can be bought for more money, and whether the guy wants to sit and play playstation 2 for 20 minutes or fuck hardcore for an hour, i expect the same rate.

on that note, HAS anyone hired you just to play video games or do something other than sex like just hang out or anything?

 

[PriestTheyCalledHim]

Have you ever been hired as a stripper for Bachelor parties, or done stripping in clubs at all? Do lots of strippers do sex for pay on the side too? The few strip clubs I've been to with friends, it was well known/let on that hypothetically anything could be done for the right price.

 

[xtcgrlatl]

on that note, HAS anyone hired you just to play video games or do something other than sex like just hang out or anything?

I've had a reg who just wanted me to model lingerie/various sexy outfits for him and another who pays just to take me out to dinner even though I've told him that there's no need for that, I've invited him in for "desert" twice and he says he just likes to take me out for dinner.

 

[xtcgrlatl]

Have you ever been hired as a stripper for Bachelor parties, or done stripping in clubs at all? Do lots of strippers do sex for pay on the side too? The few strip clubs I've been to with friends, it was well known/let on that hypothetically anything could be done for the right price.

No, can't say that I have. I think I could only do stripping if I were rolling and thus had no inhibitions. I'm actually fairly shy, I've gotten over a lot of it (especially 1 on 1) but still get shy around groups

 

[GoddessLSD-XTC]

I've had a reg who just wanted me to model lingerie/various sexy outfits for him. . .

Do U allow him to take pics? (Wonder if he posts them anywhere?)

. . . and another who pays just to take me out to dinner even though I've told him that there's no need for that, I've invited him in for "desert" twice and he says he just likes to take me out for dinner.

Must be a good dinner, good sex and pleasent conversation. I'd do it 4 free too but would substitute a take out veggie sandwich and E, U can't put a price on pleasent, intrigueing conversation!

 

[Mariposa]

No, can't say that I have. I think I could only do stripping if I were rolling and thus had no inhibitions. I'm actually fairly shy, I've gotten over a lot of it (especially 1 on 1) but still get shy around groups

Hence why you're "GFE".

xtcgrlatl: do you ever feel as though you're denying yourself the opportunity to have genuine interpersonal relationships?

 

[xtcgrlatl]

Do U allow him to take pics? (Wonder if he posts them anywhere?)

I do, and I doubt he posts them anywhere because he can barely manage to email them to me when I ask him to But even if he did I don't really care. It's not like there aren't already pretty much totally naked pictures of me on a myriad of websites.

Must be a good dinner, good sex and pleasent conversation. I'd do it 4 free too but would substitute a take out veggie sandwich and E, U can't put a price on pleasent, intrigueing conversation!

Well the guy doesn't ever actually seem to want sex. I've offered, but he just wants to pay me and take me out to dinner, even when I tell him he doesnt have to pay for that.

 

[Jabberwocky]

xtcgrlatl: do you ever feel as though you're denying yourself the opportunity to have genuine interpersonal relationships?

yes, I wondered this but couldn't think up a way to phrase it. That's what I wonder about your lifestyle also, XTCgrl.

 

[xtcgrlatl]

Hence why you're "GFE".

Precisely, it's the easiest thing to be in my opinion because you really just have to be yourself.

xtcgrlatl: do you ever feel as though you're denying yourself the opportunity to have genuine interpersonal relationships?

Not really. This isn't that big of an aspect of my life so I don't feel that I need to tell friends/family about it to feel that I am having "genuine" relationships. Assuming that's what you mean. Plus there's always the risk of it damaging the relationships I do have.

My family and friends already know that I use drugs because I'm up front about it because my experiences with drugs have shaped my character. Even so, the last thing they need to know is that I use drugs AND I'm an escort or else they might come to all kinds of conclusions that are completely unwarranted about how I'm just escorting to support a huge drug habit, and next thing you know "Intervention" is beating down my door.

If you meant in the sense of romantic relationships I don't feel that way either but that's because I'm not really looking/longing for a romantic relationship at this time.

 

[ControlDenied]

Are you worried about being a bit "worn down" by the time you get older?

 

[xtcgrlatl]

What do you mean?

 

[youarewhatyouis]

I got a serious question

What makes you different from all the other working girls in the world who probably wouldn't put up with one question about what they do, much less 10 pages of questions....? Do you want to justify what you're doing?

 

[ControlDenied]

Yeah, why?