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Am I Gay?

Jerry - You definitely have a right to your own opinion but like Noodle mentioned this belief is one that can be used by some to justify discrimination and hate.
So it's good that you clarified yourself.

Homosexuality is a very difficult thing to explain and study. Sexuality
is too fluid and dynamic in humans to be fully understood.

Do you have a child or plan to one day Jerry? Something to consider...

Along with the common issues all of us struggle with, homosexuals face some that others can never relate to. To say that we want this added mental turmoil doesn't make sense. An example would be accepting that you can never have a biological child with the one you love. I guess sterile or barren people can relate.
 
In my experience most men who have slept with other men are either gay or bi, I would say 9/10 cases.....

there is a small percentile who don't identify with either persuasion.

how is stating a worldview that is relevant to the topic somehow a point of controversy??!!


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yeah dude, you're definately gay in some respect.

You don't just decide to take one up the arse for the team. Especially when theres no team to take one for..

Butane or fuel is no excuse neither. I did that shit heaps of times as a kid, never made me decide to let another bloke take the dirt track, or any other kind of track for that matter.

You're Bi or Gay IMO.

You can't just fuck a bloke to see how it goes, sound like you enjoyed it and say oh, well i'm not a fag for that.

On the other hand you could, but i doubt many straight males would see it as 'harmless experimentation'

Whatever floats your boat.
 
Too much talking when it's much easier than that.
Take a look at this:

NSFW:
gay_test.jpg


Now share the result with us :D
 
someone earlier said the drugs/alcohol didn't play a part...As we all know D/A lower our inhibitions, sometimes quite a bit. To the OP: would you consider having 4+ hours of gay sex if you were dead sober??Perhaps they let that tiny voice that has been saying, hmmm maybe I will try this,grow into a boldness that allowed youo todive in.....At first I thought you had been setup in someway, ya know plyed with drugs[of which inhslents are a def part of gay sex/culture]by a slick older gay man[seriously, it was an early thought]. Botttom line, I'd not label myself to early, get some perspective/experience, then just try to be who you are, andhhopefully be happy and secure with it. ....peace.....
 
Mayhap you are, mayhap you are not. For me at least, I always love the cock when I'm sober, except on rare occasions when I do weed I think about being with/ fucking girls.
 
You know if you're gay or not. No one else can tell you. From the evidence we've got to go on, it seems you're bi with a preference for females.
 
being gay is a matter of who you are attracted to both romantically and sexually. just because you could get it up and could have sex with a guy, doesnt mean that thats actually what you desire, especially not in a true healthy relationship. I AM gay, i lost my virginity to a girl in a similar situation (close friend, she would always try to make it happen, i just gave in and acted impulsively). just because i COULD have sex with her doesnt mean thats what i really wanted. but the BIGGEST part of this shouldnt be sex, it should be the romance. could you see yourself in a/ do you want a relationship with a man? if so maybe, but it doesnt sound like it. bottom line, impulsive one time sex DOES NOT define your sexuality
 
in fact it took sleeping with a girl to know for sure thats not for me, im kinda glad it happened in retrospect

sexuality has so many more influences and is so much less black and white than many of the ultra masculine males would have you believe
 
lozgod said:
I thik gay is a choice. You choose who you sleep with. I know people think it's genetic but I don't buy it. You can sleep with guys or girls. Your choice. I've sen sexy transexuals that I thought were hot but wouldn't sleep with them because they are men. I choose not to be gay.
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ummmm no.

Yes some people choose to sleep with whoever they want to(maybe they're on drugs and curious)...but for the vast majority of homosexual people, there's no choice. Do you think all those that have been slandered for being gay want that? Do you think if it was as easy as choosing to be straight, there would still be such a strong upheaval against homophobia? Bisexual people can choose. Homosexuals cannot. Someone who suppresses their homosexuality their whole lives...cannot simply choose to be straight.
 
Not at all. I got really high on googs once had sex with a gay-boy, basically did it because well I had no idea what it would be like and there's only one way of finding out. In fact the only thing I discovered from it is that I am indeed straight... So if you still love vagina then you're not gay.
 
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