Been seeing this girl for a bit now, starting to like her. we always have fun together. we've both said we don't want anything serious or any commitment yet, but we see each other fairly regularly and often have sex.
some dude who's much cooler than me though (covered in tattoos and plays in a band) has now started showing interest, and is playing a gig here in a few weeks. except for being quite short he's better than me by a long shot.
although there's no commitment between us and she has every right to do what she likes, I have gotten a bit attached, and it would hurt to be bouyed off for some guy who she barley really knows.
it's weird though, just a few days ago she was complaining about how I don't seem to like her enough, and she's still arranged to see me knowing this guy is coming down.
weighing it up though
my advantages: slept with her a few times already, got my emotional hook in there a bit more maybe? she knows that i'm fun and we always have a joke and a laugh, I live here wheras he lives a good 3 hour drive away, still showing interest in me even knowing he's coming down and is making advances.
his advantages: much cooler/ more attractive than me
my disadvantages: not as cool as him
his disadvantages: lives far away, is 5'5 (no offence to short people but a lot of girls do consider it a disadvantage)
what would you girls do? tbh don't even know why I made this thread, I think i just wanted an unbiased perspective on where I stood.
some dude who's much cooler than me though (covered in tattoos and plays in a band) has now started showing interest, and is playing a gig here in a few weeks. except for being quite short he's better than me by a long shot.
although there's no commitment between us and she has every right to do what she likes, I have gotten a bit attached, and it would hurt to be bouyed off for some guy who she barley really knows.
it's weird though, just a few days ago she was complaining about how I don't seem to like her enough, and she's still arranged to see me knowing this guy is coming down.
weighing it up though
my advantages: slept with her a few times already, got my emotional hook in there a bit more maybe? she knows that i'm fun and we always have a joke and a laugh, I live here wheras he lives a good 3 hour drive away, still showing interest in me even knowing he's coming down and is making advances.
his advantages: much cooler/ more attractive than me
my disadvantages: not as cool as him
his disadvantages: lives far away, is 5'5 (no offence to short people but a lot of girls do consider it a disadvantage)
what would you girls do? tbh don't even know why I made this thread, I think i just wanted an unbiased perspective on where I stood.