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Age differences

I'm positively surprised by the relaxed attitudes on here. Personally I grew up with movies like Harold and Maude and I found there can be a lot of truth to that movie.
 
It shouldn't, but I had someone's mother making her dump me as I'm 39 and she's now 20, I think. But I fear growing old. Kind of.
 
Kaori said:
It shouldn't, but I had someone's mother making her dump me as I'm 39 and she's now 20, I think. But I fear growing old. Kind of.
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yeah, same for me, now I'm feeling that my "relationship" with this 20yo is fading out cause of myself having adhd, I tend to overshare and be too affectionate, without filters, too soon. That could be seen as creepy or as needy or interpreted as love bombing, which is totally not the case but....
I do feel bad thinking that I'm no longer 25 but 35, because I don't feel myself old neither I look old, but the age is "coming" and it's difficult for me to recognize that soon I won't be able to date women younger than 30 or something like that, and to be honest I don't consider attractive most women over 30-33...
 
Neuroborean said:
yeah, same for me, now I'm feeling that my "relationship" with this 20yo is fading out cause of myself having adhd, I tend to overshare and be too affectionate, without filters, too soon. That could be seen as creepy or as needy or interpreted as love bombing, which is totally not the case but....
I do feel bad thinking that I'm no longer 25 but 35, because I don't feel myself old neither I look old, but the age is "coming" and it's difficult for me to recognize that soon I won't be able to date women younger than 30 or something like that, and to be honest I don't consider attractive most women over 30-33...
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haha, finally it wasn't the case at all,
I did some amanita deep dive, I was stuck in a loop and I discovered some things about love and about her...
then I was 3 days thinking some words to reach her...
and... it completely worked! crazy.. I also ask God to help me reach her, so probably it's not "one-sided" but both things are connected (I don't buy that idea of God not being connected to nature)
the message I got from her... wow, I'm happy again guys.
 
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