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acceptance of a sexless life?

andyturbo said:
What if you enjoy having sex with a range of endangered specie animals like me? How am I "just going to find some"..
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By looking until you do.
How else.
How is a prostitute better than a fleshlight for you?

Nightrider19 said:
Unless I am reading this wrong.

It’s all about the sexual attraction, I’ve had partners who have treated me very well and respected me yet I didn’t desire to have sex with them. I am all about quality over quantity, unless your sexual deviate like me I wouldn’t waste my time but it’s a bit hard to find that out right away. “Oh hey do you like anal... no... oh I can’t be with you” ??
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Yes you need attraction, but even if it is there you can manage ruin it in many ways.
So you can add to the attraction but the minimum requirement is not to destroy it.
That's what I meant.
 
If I were an escort you would find me in the unusual fetish section.
It’s what I enjoy and I’d probably get paid allot for it and I wouldn’t have to find anyone.

There we go all problems solved

But OP - what’s your plan of attack how can I help point you in the right direction?
 
Thanks for all the replies guys and girls.

As I said if I could afford to continue paying sex workers that would suit me just fine.

To be honest I'm many years away from not being able to pay for it. AND lucky for me There's Chinese massage shops where I live that $50 AUD is enough to get a hand job. So perhaps in the future when I am living off welfare with no savings some form of paid intimacy may be possible.

As for the comment that prostuties that are not high class escorts look like they live in a skip that's not the case in Australia. We have migrant sex workers from China Vietnam and Thailand that admittedly are aged in their forties and fifties but the price is right. The Australian sex worker market is that over saturated with Asian women the price for a massage with happy ending booking is the same as 20 years ago.

I have a regular chinese sex worker who charges $70 AUD for a topless handjob and $100 AUD for oral and sex.

This Chinese girl is 35 years old and sexy as.
 
andyturbo said:
What if you enjoy having sex with a range of endangered specie animals like me? How am I "just going to find some"..
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Move to Africa,go on safari,see the gazelle you want and then jump out of the jeep to the surprise of the other safarigoers and just hump your way across the Savannah.

Nightrider19 said:
Unless I am reading this wrong.

It’s all about the sexual attraction, I’ve had partners who have treated me very well and respected me yet I didn’t desire to have sex with them. I am all about quality over quantity, unless your sexual deviate like me I wouldn’t waste my time but it’s a bit hard to find that out right away. “Oh hey do you like anal... no... oh I can’t be with you” ??
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Asking a girl if she likes anal is a great opener I reckon.if she doesn't say no
you can pretty much take it as a probable yes,if they say I'm not answering that its a silent confirmation she does.if they say no then move on to the next one who doesn't flat out say no.
 
And Zopiclone I don't appreciate you saying Jesus wept you fucking smart ass.

I have PTSD from having my head shaved and being sexually abused in kindergarten.

And oh did I mention some Anonymous dickheads murdered the love of my life

That's why I fuck sexy ho's.

I know paying for it suxs but Zopiclone mate none of my childhood friends are dead yet, and 99 percent of my memories from high school are positive. Do you Zopiclone have a young mistress yet,? I bet you don't, with all due respect I ain't the one fucking a bush pig Anglo Indian missus
 
Boku, I think you might be better off paying the Asians for their meth rather than their women lol at the rate things are going. You seem more worldly than a welfare case. I just think the world has evolved past this point of sex and drugs because frankly you can't singularly afford to mix both or fund both given the circumstance of single life. there's more to life than the pro's. it's not like all the money drugs yielded couldn't have provided you with a pleasing female confidant with whom you might have grown chummy. I think the guy on his disability payments might have been smarter than winding up in a boarding house, yucky, though you never envisage these places exist until your career takes you there as a guest. something for everyone or is there. I think these places offer little in the way of encouraging people to break the mould. but you be the judge. strange goings on. aw well. you'll climb the mountain before long. the women are just a crutch I think, just something to marvel at rather than take too much to heart okay pet.
 
In the end, no matter what you’ve been through it doesn’t allow you to simply look at women as sex objects. Because of your view, you’ll akways be fucking Asian prostitutes with zero prospect to ever get that “out of your league” girl you want.

Women want that guy that goes through life confident as hell, not needing anyone or anything to enjoy life. It’s not about looks, it’s about attitude and how you treat the women around you. The less you care the more they’ll want you.

And your far from the only one that’s been through some shit OP so frankly, shut the fuck up.. Go throw that pity party somewhere else cuz it ain’t happening here.

Get a gym membership, change you diet, try to be a person some woman actually wants to b with.

-GC
 
I think the OP was pointing out a worse-case scenario if people weren't tempered with ordinary reality, and getting caught in the timewarp of daily life.
 
Taking pity on your life will never get you out of the rut.

Their are very few people who legitimately can't work there is something out there for you to do.

If your on meth then go date a girl strung out on meth cause nobody not doing meth is going to be willing to be a in relationship with a meth user

I seen many of your types through life always playing the victim card wanting everything good without the hard work put into it.

If you short on money then hustle like other people ( i ain't saying do illegal shit but start mowing ya neighbors lawns) Put ads out doing work for whatever
 
Hey man OP is the one that does nothing but complain that regular women don’t wanna be a fuck doll for him... Then goes off on people who frankly only deserved it a little. (ZB lol)

Shitty people get shitty responses.

-GC
 
Guys I wasn't intending to play the victim card and I really don't want to come across as viewing women as simply sex objects for my sexual gratification and nothing else.

It's just my current living arrangements and personal circumstances do not allow me to have casual sex as easily as a individual living independently.

I honestly appreciate women for more than their sex appeal and believe it or not I actually have a couple of female friends in my life who I have a built a sincere friendship with. Sure they're drug friends but we were mate's before we got into the gear together.
Helping each other get high strengthening our relationship.

However my purpose in starting this thread was to get insight and inspiration into living a life with no sexual intimacy and as I said earlier plenty of single or divorced men once aged over 45 get over the activity of sex and accept a solitary lifestyle being a bachelor.
 
You shouldn't be content to live a life with no sexual intimacy, if you have any sexual desire. That's an unfulfilled need.

Everyone needs love. You don't get "love" from hookers. I agree with G Chem that this acknowledgement seemed conspicuously absent from your OP
 
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