Older men aged over 45 who are unemployed, on the disability support pension, taking medication for emotional or mental problems, living in room in a rooming house or a tenant in a department of housing flat, how you feel about never getting a female partner for the rest of your life?
How do you come to accept and cope with the reality you will never have sex with a attractive woman again for free in the rest of your life?
The only possibility of having sex again involves winning $70-$100 on the pokies or at the TAB and paying a cheap Chinese prostutie for a quickie.
I ask this question because that is the future I face, I've been on Centrelink payments since age 22 and now aged 39 I am starting to think one day I won't be able to afford bookings with cheap prostuties as I can now.
I have never got sex from an attractive woman for free in my entire life.
I've never had a girlfriend or even a one night stand.
I am not looking for sympathy but I am hoping for advice from single men living off a low income with no savings on how being a older man living a sex less lifestyle is possible and how it feels to be past caring about not being able to get a attractive woman for acts of intimacy?
At my local gaming venue pub I know many older men aged over 60 well in to their 70s or older who have come to accept living the asexual lifestyle. They would rather gamble or drink the odd pot of beer.
How does a man in his forties or fifties learn to live with the fact he will never have sex for free with an attractive woman in his lifetime?
In a perfect world I would continue paying prostuties who I find attractive for sexual services but eventually I will be unable to afford them because I have no job and everyone tells me living off Centrelink payments is bloody tough with no savings or family support to fall back on.
Apparently you can't smoke drink or drug when on Centrelink because if you blow your small amount of income on Vice purchases you will be forced to go without.
I figure if drugs are not affordable for a Centrelink recipient how on earth could brothel bookings be possible.I was told real men don't pay a hooker for sex, real men jerk off. I was also told at Catholic school being a man refusing to pay a prostutie for sex even if you can't get sex free is the righteous decision. It's always better to be a loner who jerks off over porn by himself than a desperate paying a hooker for sex.
Do you reckon I would have my dignity if I stopped paying prostuties for sex?
Apparently according to women's rights activists like Melbourne University academic Shelia Jefferies who leads a coalition of women against the trafficking of sex workers in the Asian Pacific region all men who pay prostuties are guilty of abuse' against women. Shelia also campaigns against the decriminalisation of sex work on the grounds a legal commercial sex industry regulated by government laws is actually the state sponsored abuse of women because any woman getting paid for sex work by a man is being abused and all prostuties actually are victims exploitated for a man's sexual gratification.
Shealia reckons Men do not have the right to sex and for the well-being of women caught up in the murky waters of forced sex slavery it's better govenments adopt the Nordic model of making it a criminal offence for a man to pay a woman for sex.
Back to my original question how do men like me deal with my situation? Do I tell myself I am better than paying for it??
I actually live very cheap aside from seeing hookers and I don't mind hanging out at the TAB to socialise or cooking rice and veggies at home for a cheap meal but when the day comes I can't afford to see a prostutie at least once a fortnight it's going to be awefully depressing.
