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40 day and 40 night Challenge

Hmm, I think the theory is not have an *orgasm*. That's by any means.

Therefore masturbation does count. It's about not "releasing" - that's the self-control part. Some people believe it helps keep your energy inside, or something, making it better when it finally does come - it's part of some Tantric philosophy or other.

Hell it'd be easy to do this if masturbation were allowed! Everyone would be doing it!

I haven't had one so I'm still in. But hey, I don't mind, your call :)
 
The challenge is 40 days without sex or masturbating...you said you have gone for 1 year couple of months etc without releasing....Im asking you havent had an orgasm in 1 year is accurate or not...I assume although you aint having sex you are still relieving your self by other means....im asking you cos nobody else has gone longer than a year doing this...duuuuh
 
So let me get this straight, we're allowed to masturbate, and have sex provided we dont "finish"? hehe sounds too easy to me. In fact, sounds like the first 20 something years of my life!! I would have thought to abstain would be to abstain from all sexual activity.
 
well trubble for a guy it is different... you see 99% of the time when we do slap salami it ends in oooohhh ahhhh ahghhh...so for me its not easy.

But for a girl, I understand that some girls never have an orgasm or find it very hard too....so i guess thats why you girls are the masters at this...so i guess you do have an advantage over us
 
So CB, what exactly are the rules for this then?? What is allowed and what isn't?
 
I'd say it's just NO ORGASMS. Keep it simple.

I know that leaves a bit of leeway, but honestly, who's going to start masturbating without the "goal" in mind - or start sex for that matter.

My slip up was a mistake... but if you guys insist I will go back to day 5. No biggie.

Whiteboy: Chill babe! No-one's attacking you... it's all in fun. hell, we should be the ones who are antsy, all the damn sexual tension... heehe :D
 
SLM Sorry hun but I reckon technically you should be on day 5.
I as thinking about joining cos its been 12 days since I had sex but...according to the rules I would be on day 1 !!!=D and I'm a girl!!;)
 
actually I tried that for a week when i was single, not a good idea coz I woke up evry morning with a harddest wood and whats worse? it automatically ejaculated, I dont know whats the word to describe that, so yeh it got too full 8)
not cool
 
hmmm okay i'm in too.
just "released" my tension this morning so i'm starting fully fresh.
i have no idea how i'm going to last 40 though... this is going to be awful... :) hehehe.
hopefully i wont do it absentmindedly, it often seems to happen by accident for me. when im bored or whatever lol.
and the sex isnt much of an issue with me... my new boy seems terrified of the concept.
but i'll take my little vow a bit further than some of you, cause my relationship isnt that important, and i wont do any other sexual stuff either.
argh i'm almost ready to give up already just thinking about how its going to be!
but i shall stay strong... everyone wish me luck! im 17 i shouldnt be doing this to myself!!! teehee.
 
;) I'm going to give it a go anyway...see what happens.
So I'm officially on day one!!!
Oh no now its the weekend!!! I have plans tonight as well
hehehe.
Guess I'll take it as it comes...LOL pardon the pun;)=D ;)
 
muffin by tommorrow you will be back on day 0 !!! but of course I want you too avoid this if possible cos we want u to suffer with us for the whole journey...if you cave we might be really tempted, and yes oral sex counts too :P

gemslave welcome to the movement...i will be your master now heheh master says no touching, fondling, penetration, DOM, B&D of anysorts for 40 days.
 
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