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40 day and 40 night Challenge

isnt it shocking.. all i can think about is sex too. its like it builds up more every minute! and any encounter you have with someone talking about sex or seeing a couple crawling all over one another makes it so much worse. I'm determined to do it though, even at the cost of my own sanity lol
 
Hey how is everyone doing I'm doing a lot better than I expected...Currently on day 4.
I'm almost considering actually trying to do this for 40 days.8)
 
yeah hehe. its kinda bad though.. i mean i think "yay four days down!" then... oh SHEEET 36 to go!!
and i keep having sexual dreams too, hopefully orgasms in sleep dont count cos im pretty sure i will be having them soon. but i can't control that.
but yes... weird weird thoughts about people i had never thought about before.
but i shall resist, and i shall beat the pants off everyone else it seems, cos you guys can't do it :P but then again... we'll see how i am by day 10 lol.
 
its quite amusing
i'm sure by 10 days i'll bump my dick on something and i'll have some sort of super-climax-whale-shot
the dreams are good because they are beyond the control of the conscious mind :) guess for the lucky dreamers they can release their build up and have an excuse for it.. please oh please let me dream something erotic lol
 
Well I reckon I might just be able to hold out for the 7 or so hours I plan to be asleep tonight.... But 40 days and 40 nights!! Fucking Hell!! You are all nuts. ;) =D

I have massive admiration for anyone who can manage this.
 
Thats what I was like before I decided to do this.. but i am doing it basically to better my mind, to realise that i can control myself when i need to. i think i read too many personal improvement books lol stephen covey THIS IS YOUR FAULT.
 
Meh, I'm a virgin anyway *cries* :(

I could see how it would be difficult for people having regular sex... though I guess it doesn't apply to me :D
 
do you masturbate though.. its just as hard, if not harder to abstain from masturbating than it is from sex. takes a hell of a lot less physical exertion anyway!
 
^^^ true...ive gone to pick up my vibrator a couple of times. then gone...nope the challenge!!!

*flexes what muscles she has* ;)

3 days and 20 hours and still goin strong :D
 
^^^woo! go you!
I've been tempted a few times tonight and changed my mind :) for the better, of course.. *cough*
 
Guys you are doing all very well...As for myself I know I did say failure this time round wasnt an option but ever since the weekend I have just been reliving my fantasies over and over and getting very horny in the process...

I think once you lose the mindset of why you want to do it its very hard to get back on track...For me Im gonna give it a little break until my next 'mission statement' comes around again.

So far the leader should be torture if she is still with us....and should be day 13 or 14 for her!!! When you make it pass day 10 the challenge picks up...your first milestone dun do anything silly like I did!!!

Sonicnature
"You know you want to! Prove to yourself that you can do it.."

That is exactly why I wanted to do this and because it seemed like a good idea at the time (the movie was funny too and struck a cord somehow!)...it doesnt faze me to much that I didnt finish the challenge but I cant help thinking how I would be feeling if it was day 14 today.

Sonic...what I discovered for guys is after keeping the tap off too long...its exactly like a rusty machine when you crank it back up....creaky, not very effective takes a couple of days for the good water to flow again and effienciently if you know what i mean...

guys and girls i will be the ejudicator and motivator and says continue your journey of self discovery not on a physical level but on a level of the mind and will ;)
 
heheheh maybe you need to get a plumber in there to have a good look Charlie.. I'm sure I'll be all systems go after 40 days. It was pain this morning though, I jumped in the shower after some crazy dream about a friend I hadnt spoken to in years.. she looked so good, and I was thinking hmmm its still early I can start again, but then I thought the last 2 days has taken long enough, and into number 3 now.. I cant start again. MIND POWER. STEPHEN COVEY I STILL BLAME THIS ON YOU.
 
day 5 for me... getting pretty hellish
but i am a stubborn one, i shall succeed.
i told a friend about it and she said "gee i hope you're getting money from it at the end!"
oh :( lol i dont get anything! can we figure out some sort of prizeish thing for the winners? like maybe an e-chocolate or something like that?
 
It's funny that this thread exists as about 3 weeks ago i decided that attending to myself was taking the edge off my drive when i was out and about and that it was a bad thing so i voluntarily made a rule that i would no longer do so!

It was insane i made it to 10 days 2 times (both broken by sex) and i was completely stunned with the difference i noticed!! It was just as if my body clock kicked back a decade...

It's amazing how easy it is to stay disciplined and keep to it even thoguh it's total torture!! :X

anyhow back into it - day 2... stay strong people.. :\
 
*twiddles thumbs*

*begin deep star trek voice*

starfalls log, date 03.03.04...day four of the sex challenge down...35days to go...


ok ok...day four is down and out for me...nearlly at day five...i must say this is prooving a lil more harder than first thought...it seems my thoughts are now constantly turning themselves over to make everything do with sex of some kind...

ive even gone as far as knocking back cyber requests for this challenge!!! WHATS WRONG WITH ME????...

'i need a real doctor. cause im FUCKED!!!' 8o
 
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