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Hmm maybe shall try orange juice that you speak of. Too bad my niggas love that shit and it's usually gone by the night of the day we all go shopping.

Oh word? Feelin toasty?
 
Hmm maybe shall try orange juice that you speak of. Too bad my niggas love that shit and it's usually gone by the night of the day we all go shopping.

Oh word? Feelin toasty?

Mmmhmmm...feels good! Parachuting helps it hit faster instead of capsules...chugging too of course.

Mix the powder in some OJ next time you can and chug it that way.
 
I just can't be fucked to make a parachute for 10 grams. That's the dose i need to feel anything.

Down the hatch is fine a lil gaggy poo won't kill me. I do need to try orange juice though.

How's everyone doing?

Can this become a cuddle puddle? You are all so special in your own ways and that's what makes BL awesome.

I bet if we all met IRL we'd all sex.
 
I just can't be fucked to make a parachute for 10 grams. That's the dose i need to feel anything.

Down the hatch is fine a lil gaggy poo won't kill me. I do need to try orange juice though.

How's everyone doing?

Can this become a cuddle puddle? You are all so special in your own ways and that's what makes BL awesome.

I bet if we all met IRL we'd all sex.

Haha! I get along with you and pretty much every one here. You know we’ve had our thing, but kissed and made up. No problem. I really tried with Mal. He just won’t let it go. Whatever “it” is he has for me.
 
Don’t you dare try to turn this around on me! I’m beyond sick of you anyway and you more than proved you are out of line since adding me to “Lounge Pariah” when I didn’t volunteer.

It's called a joke. You know, you'd think you would have caught on by now. You refused to put your name in, but you were in there talking shit, so for shits and giggles I added your name. It was ultimately deleted. Nobody cares. Let it go. If you're really that delicate maybe reassess whether or not this is a healthy environment for you.

I have even been temp banned in the past when certain mods felt necessary. This isn’t about me and I have paid my dues anyway.

Short temp bans are standard protocol in certain situations. Perfectly legitimate. If you think you were wrongly targeted or a mod has been excessive in their actions, please message your friendly neighborhood admins.

CH is the one who is a mod, not me. You are just an enabler who lets him carry on day and night, embarrassing himself AND this forum.

Again, some might make the argument that you have embarrassed yourself on several occasions. I know I have a few times since I've been here. You used to love CH. you "carried on" with him and Painful One for I think 15 or 20 pages in the abyss not too long ago. As for the forum, you haven't earned the right to speak for the forum, okay? Cap is a legend here and he always will be. Nothing you can do about that.

Also, I’m pretty sure his behavior drives any newcomers away. It’s not welcoming to see someone ranting and raving day and night.

Is it welcoming to see someone bouncing off the walls, screeching about demons and witches? Probably not. The Lounge is a special place, and that is evident as soon as you stumble in here. There's a thread posted for new users to read to give them a heads up about what it's like. We're on top of it, don't you worry.

You keep trying to push my buttons. Get over your obsession with me.

I'll try. It will be hard though.
 
It's called a joke. You know, you'd think you would have caught on by now. You refused to put your name in, but you were in there talking shit, so for shits and giggles I added your name. It was ultimately deleted. Nobody cares. Let it go. If you're really that delicate maybe reassess whether or not this is a healthy environment for you.



Short temp bans are standard protocol in certain situations. Perfectly legitimate. If you think you were wrongly targeted or a mod has been excessive in their actions, please message your friendly neighborhood admins.



Again, some might make the argument that you have embarrassed yourself on several occasions. I know I have a few times since I've been here. You used to love CH. you "carried on" with him and Painful One for I think 15 or 20 pages in the abyss not too long ago. As for the forum, you haven't earned the right to speak for the forum, okay? Cap is a legend here and he always will be. Nothing you can do about that.



Is it welcoming to see someone bouncing off the walls, screeching about demons and witches? Probably not. The Lounge is a special place, and that is evident as soon as you stumble in here. There's a thread posted for new users to read to give them a heads up about what it's like. We're on top of it, don't you worry.



I'll try. It will be hard though.

Your actions towards me is not in a joking manner. It’s always with malicious intent for some reason so no, it was not a joke or funny at all coming from you.

I’m fine with the temp ban from way before. My point is when you try to bring up the “religious” stuff I’ve said, I already was reprimanded for mods feeling a
certain way. That’s my point. When staff felt I was out of line, they did what they did. I don’t care anymore. I didn’t agree with it, but it’s over. I paid a price.

As I’ve said, I’m not a MOD! Mods should be held to a higher standard.

Yes, you’ve pointed out how I’ve been real cool with PO and CH. When I took a break, he was in here saying he was glad I’m gone and acting like it was a competition between myself and PO. It’s not at all. I already told him how I felt about it in the ‘Lounge Pariah’ thread. I’ve always been supportive of him.

This isn’t a grudge or about that circumstance at all. I won’t keep talking in circles. I’m not the only one who has expressed how it’s unacceptable behavior for a mod.
 
Have we talked about this?

Sharp cheddar is my nom of choice.

Aged, preferably, in the right climate and handled with the care of a babies bottom.

It's an art..

Smash an hour glass, grab the sand, takes his hands and cup 'em
Spin around to freeze the clock, take the hands of time and cuff 'em
 
TL is certainly the 1st ammendment area of the forum, we can get away with a lot here. But that is sorta my main point. Neither Daisy nor I did anything wrong besides say something he didn't like and we were respectively infracted and censored & insulted. I don't think any amount of personal/emotional issues justify using a position of authority to solve your own disagreements, especially when they're entirely one-sided. I think he needs to understand that. He doesn't sound nor act like he should have the power he does.
Whoa, can someone clue me in here? I'm bit of a TL words activist afficeonado...

Lort knows ch has spanked me more than a few times (never in the playfully fun homoerotic way that you're all probably thinking tho....) Tbf I deserved a few of them.
 
Have we talked about this?

Sharp cheddar is my nom of choice.

Aged, preferably, in the right climate and handled with the care of a babies bottom.

It's an art..

Smash an hour glass, grab the sand, takes his hands and cup 'em
Spin around to freeze the clock, take the hands of time and cuff 'em

Haha! Yes, the wonderful subject of cheese did come up once upon a time. I need to stock up on sharp cheddar and feta.
 
Hey mate, I totally empathise with what you're saying. You shouldn't be made to feel like you can be censored on a whim without due process, and I am genuinely sorry if it felt/feels like that :confused: BL should be inviting to all and users should expect all staff to err on the side of tolerance and caution when it comes to moderating the content of what BLers post - and should especially avoid dealing with (and getting personally involved in) anything that revolves around them personally. Ultimately staff are, first and foremost, Bluelighters just like everyone else, with no special rights or privileges beyond negotiating the enforcement of the spirit of BL's rules and mission statement in a careful, measured and (hopefully) fair way.

While I obviously can't speak for CH, and have no intention to do so, I can clearly see he's been going through something of a manic phase - maybe aggravated by drugs and/or a lack thereof - and struggling a bit with judgement because of that. I appreciate that's probably little comfort to you and doesn't detract from the points you raised or excuse bad decisions. But I hope you can also understand that when in that state of mind, even the best folks are prone to doing dumb things that they wouldn't ordinarily do. Ultimately I hope you two can patch things up, but fwiw I know CH is pretty contrite about what went down.
Quit being a DopeM. You're no longer responsible for this mess. Though there may be no one more qualified.
 
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I mod him exactly as I would anyone else. I delete some of his posts, I merge his posts, send him a message when I need to. I have to do the same for many of you.

This is a community made up of many different people all with different personalities, all from different walks of life. we are also all on various drugs at all times. We have various mental health issues. It has served me well over the years to look through everything a see a persons character. Cap is loving and funny person and accepts his own shortcomings. He doesn't try to hide from them.

@devilsgospel , any infractions given can be looked at by admins and reversed if necessary. It can all be fixed. In the future try to report these things as they happen or at least message someone if you're having a problem.

@✿Dai₷y✿ , you tell me you think I'm doing a good job but then you say the problem is the Lounge mods? I don't really get it. We have been very open and responsive to any problems raised by anyone. Activity is way up since I started modding here. I feel like we've done a pretty good job making this a place everyone can feel comfortable and have fun.

@CoastTwoCoast , you like to talk shit, and that's fine. But you really ought to look in the mirror before you do. Reflect on the quirky beliefs and behaviors you have. The tantrums you've thrown. its Safe to say you've been no saint. So maybe try to work on yourself before you gang up on CH.

This was me bringing it to the attention of the staff. He didn't infract me but he sure did make it known in PM that he would if I "continued picking on mods", not even forthright enough to come out and say he was the one somehow offended.

Sure I could've filed some kinda complaint, but from what I've seen and heard when it's in regards to him it goes nowhere and does nothing.
 
Whoa, can someone clue me in here? I'm bit of a TL words activist afficeonado...

Lort knows ch has spanked me more than a few times (never in the playfully fun homoerotic way that you're all probably thinking tho....) Tbf I deserved a few of them.

If you want details that bad PM me I don't really want to tell the whole story again here.
 
I'm cooking dinner, mushrooms, yellow and red bell peppers, corn, daikon radish and chicken stir-fried with peach balsamic, with black pepper and berbere spice, shoyu and Chinese mature vinegar. And I'm making a strawberry balsamic/miso/goat cheese sauce to put over it.
 
I'm cooking dinner, mushrooms, yellow and red bell peppers, corn, daikon radish and chicken stir-fried with peach balsamic, with black pepper and berbere spice, shoyu and Chinese mature vinegar. And I'm making a strawberry balsamic/miso/goat cheese sauce to put over it.
Sounds like a lot of different flavors in one dish, but I hope it's tasty. I'm contemplating getting out of bed for hot chocolate...
 
It's gonna be great. I usually use more, I've got it down, it's about ratios. My girl doesn't like things very strong, it will mostly taste like vegetables and chicken except when you get a bite of the sauce with it, not plain vegetables and chicken but lightly augmented to bring out certain flavors. I made my friends a dinner last weekend with 3 times as many things in it and they were ranting and raving about it being the best meal they'd had anywhere in years.
 
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