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all people do here is meth which is really disappointing since I'm not into stims
I used to be but not now.

atm phenibut and Ativan.

I just wanna get stoned tbh.
All drugs have their time. I used to have 10g+ speed all the time on me and 5g+ hash. Was high as fuck for years and since I sold them and bought them from Sweden I didnt even lose any money.
 
No maybe not but I don't abide using your power in response to your feelings getting hurt then blatantly lying to me in PM about it while attacking me

Well it looks like everyone agreed with you, because all of it was deleted pronto.

So what else would you have done in vengeance for being slighted like that? Should CH be sacked, flayed and burned at the stake?

I'm not trying to belittle your feelings, but I don't see how holding a grudge about stuff like this serves you or anyone else in any useful way.
 
Returned some bottles to the store and bought 0.5l cranberry long drink. Just took 300mg gabapentin and now gonna smoke a cig. Life is good. Also got a berserker ring in runescape so theres that too.
What u do for work/money?
 
Well it looks like everyone agreed with you, because all of it was deleted pronto.

So what else would you have done in vengeance for being slighted like that? Should CH be sacked, flayed and burned at the stake?

I'm not trying to belittle your feelings, but I don't see how holding a grudge about stuff like this serves you or anyone else in any useful way.

I'm not calling for any action at all. I'd just like to express that I feel it was unfair to be censored (as well as the person above me outright infracted) for simply quoting someone's own words back to them an playfully adding "wow I'm disappointed". There is no rule on this website that warrants a mod to intervene for something like that. That's not even my personal feelings speaking, if I'm wrong about something show it to me. Clearly I was not because he immediately scrapped everything. I just think staff, especially sr staff, should be held to a higher standard than using official power to censor whoever they see fit after a even a perceived slight to themselves.

I just don't like the standard that sets, saying that at any time I could be banned, infracted or censored if a certain mod decides they don't like my opinion, an opinion that did not cross any official line in any book on this site. Especially after he himself cited me multiple other people he has done it to in order to "not put him in a position to take more drastic action against them". Preventative policing for hurt feelings and nothing more.

He walked back what he said in PM immediately after I challenged his reasoning, so yeah you're right I'll concede that I might be a little irrationally mad. However I don't think it's unreasonable to point out that it was wrong to others AND HIMSELF so maybe we avoid a situation like this again.

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Finland is a welfare state. Sadly Im not currently working but I will apply to a school this week.

I have worked over 3 years total of my life and want to work but since I got drug sentence in my records I cant work in a mine anymore.
Can’t work in a mine? What mine?
What u gonna do at school?
 
This is a mine
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Propably study to be a plumber
 
My last real job paid 4.2k€ month and had about 48 hours of work per week.
Fuck thats good money.
what mine was it? What u extractin from the rock?
Can’t believe u can’t work there cuz of a drug charge
 
I'm not calling for any action at all. I'd just like to express that I feel it was unfair to be censored (as well as the person above me outright infracted) for simply quoting someone's own words back to them an playfully adding "wow I'm disappointed". There is no rule on this website that warrants a mod to intervene for something like that. That's not even my personal feelings speaking, if I'm wrong about something show it to me. Clearly I was not because he immediately scrapped everything. I just think staff, especially sr staff, should be held to a higher standard than using official power to censor whoever they see fit after a even a perceived slight to themselves.

I just don't like the standard that sets, saying that at any time I could be banned, infracted or censored if a certain mod decides they don't like my opinion, an opinion that did not cross any official line in any book on this site. Especially after he himself cited me multiple other people he has done it to in order to "not put him in a position to take more drastic action against them". Preventative policing for hurt feelings and nothing more.

He walked back what he said in PM immediately after I challenged his reasoning, so yeah you're right I'll concede that I might be a little irrationally mad. However I don't think it's unreasonable to point out that it was wrong to others AND HIMSELF so maybe we avoid a situation like this again.

Hey mate, I totally empathise with what you're saying. You shouldn't be made to feel like you can be censored on a whim without due process, and I am genuinely sorry if it felt/feels like that :confused: BL should be inviting to all and users should expect all staff to err on the side of tolerance and caution when it comes to moderating the content of what BLers post - and should especially avoid dealing with (and getting personally involved in) anything that revolves around them personally. Ultimately staff are, first and foremost, Bluelighters just like everyone else, with no special rights or privileges beyond negotiating the enforcement of the spirit of BL's rules and mission statement in a careful, measured and (hopefully) fair way.

While I obviously can't speak for CH, and have no intention to do so, I can clearly see he's been going through something of a manic phase - maybe aggravated by drugs and/or a lack thereof - and struggling a bit with judgement because of that. I appreciate that's probably little comfort to you and doesn't detract from the points you raised or excuse bad decisions. But I hope you can also understand that when in that state of mind, even the best folks are prone to doing dumb things that they wouldn't ordinarily do. Ultimately I hope you two can patch things up, but fwiw I know CH is pretty contrite about what went down.
 
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