A Blind Guy
Bluelighter
You have to talk to women a certain way as soon as you meet them, in order to ensure that you will not be friend zoned. It is possible that you can salvage yourself from the friend zone, but that time zone is small and if you are as oblivious, then you might not know when the time is up.
Basically, tease them. All the time. Constantly push them in ways that they are not expecting. This makes them interested. Don't give them straight answers, talk about other girls around them, and basically act like that one guy you think would get a lot of pussy.
If you act like they don't care, they will wonder why you don't care and pursue you, if you deflect their advances they will keep pursuing you.
That's all you really need to know. You have to present yourself as a cool, confident character. A little bit of cocky and funny on top of that and you are golden. You have to believe you are powerful, present yourself as powerful, and women will register that unconsciously. And confidence is always a great thing to have. Not confident? Exercise more, talk more, joke more. Always self improve, never stagnate. You have to be better than the next guy in order for a girl to choose you.
When it comes to touching girls its all about aesthetics. When you are touching a girl, you are showing her with your hands where you think she is most beautiful. Find a line or curve along her body, doesn't matter where it is, and stroke a finger or your whole hand down it. She will react to this, because most of the areas we men find attractive are erogenous zones for women. This is good for us.
Be firm but gentle, she must know where your hands are at all times but at no point in time should it hurt her, unless you've already realized that she's into that, then by all means, as long as she is ok with it, hurt her. Light scratching, pinches, all good stuff. Don't go punching her without asking, is all I'm gonna say.
As for fingering technique, there is only one thing I think I should share. If you are in the traditional pose, with her lying on her back and your wrist facing upwards, insert your ring and middle fingers. Press them upwards into the roof of her vagina, right under her pelvis. If you use your other hand to press down on her to keep her stationary while you do this I guarantee you will see some results.
To clarify, don't just move your finger tips upwards, but literally your whole fingers should just angle upwards without bending them.
If you want to make her squirt you're gonna have to build some forearm dexterity. Keep applying that technique and then start moving your fingers in and out at the same time, like you're beckoning to her from the inside of her vagina with your fingers. You'll start to feel added pressure around your fingers as her glands fill up before release, so it's actually like you're trying to force it out of her from behind those glands, adding pressure towards her vaginal opening. Keep doing this until, well, yeah. It'll happen.
I don't want to come off as some guy who claims to know everything, but the information I have just shared has proved very helpful to me in the past and I'm sure will be of great help to me in the future. I urge you to at least try it if you haven't and I promise you, friends, you won't regret it. And neither will your lady!
Oh, one last thing. If you are in the process of sex, and you happen to be in the doggy position, have her spread her knees out and get her pelvis as close to the ground/bed as possible. This should allow you to thrust in and down, effectively accomplishing the same inside action as your fingers with minimal effort. And it feels great so that's a plus.
I hope I'm not coming off as too much of an asshole, haha.
Basically, tease them. All the time. Constantly push them in ways that they are not expecting. This makes them interested. Don't give them straight answers, talk about other girls around them, and basically act like that one guy you think would get a lot of pussy.
If you act like they don't care, they will wonder why you don't care and pursue you, if you deflect their advances they will keep pursuing you.
That's all you really need to know. You have to present yourself as a cool, confident character. A little bit of cocky and funny on top of that and you are golden. You have to believe you are powerful, present yourself as powerful, and women will register that unconsciously. And confidence is always a great thing to have. Not confident? Exercise more, talk more, joke more. Always self improve, never stagnate. You have to be better than the next guy in order for a girl to choose you.
When it comes to touching girls its all about aesthetics. When you are touching a girl, you are showing her with your hands where you think she is most beautiful. Find a line or curve along her body, doesn't matter where it is, and stroke a finger or your whole hand down it. She will react to this, because most of the areas we men find attractive are erogenous zones for women. This is good for us.
Be firm but gentle, she must know where your hands are at all times but at no point in time should it hurt her, unless you've already realized that she's into that, then by all means, as long as she is ok with it, hurt her. Light scratching, pinches, all good stuff. Don't go punching her without asking, is all I'm gonna say.
As for fingering technique, there is only one thing I think I should share. If you are in the traditional pose, with her lying on her back and your wrist facing upwards, insert your ring and middle fingers. Press them upwards into the roof of her vagina, right under her pelvis. If you use your other hand to press down on her to keep her stationary while you do this I guarantee you will see some results.
To clarify, don't just move your finger tips upwards, but literally your whole fingers should just angle upwards without bending them.
If you want to make her squirt you're gonna have to build some forearm dexterity. Keep applying that technique and then start moving your fingers in and out at the same time, like you're beckoning to her from the inside of her vagina with your fingers. You'll start to feel added pressure around your fingers as her glands fill up before release, so it's actually like you're trying to force it out of her from behind those glands, adding pressure towards her vaginal opening. Keep doing this until, well, yeah. It'll happen.
I don't want to come off as some guy who claims to know everything, but the information I have just shared has proved very helpful to me in the past and I'm sure will be of great help to me in the future. I urge you to at least try it if you haven't and I promise you, friends, you won't regret it. And neither will your lady!
Oh, one last thing. If you are in the process of sex, and you happen to be in the doggy position, have her spread her knees out and get her pelvis as close to the ground/bed as possible. This should allow you to thrust in and down, effectively accomplishing the same inside action as your fingers with minimal effort. And it feels great so that's a plus.
I hope I'm not coming off as too much of an asshole, haha.
