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are you happy with your genitals?? HONESTLY

Are you happy with your genitals?

  • Yes

    Votes: 189 70.8%
  • No

    Votes: 26 9.7%
  • I am undecided

    Votes: 23 8.6%
  • I would like to have my genitals altered in some way

    Votes: 29 10.9%

  • Total voters
    267
  • Poll closed .
"Real penile lengthening ... is not a routine or safe procedure because of high risk of losing the ability to have an erection."

"[girth enlargement] may have side effects including loss of sensation, inability to perform penetrative intercourse, scarring, and deformation."

Fake boobs work just fine except for breastfeeding. But dicks not so much. Too bad.
 
There are a lot of risks with fake tits, including:

"[breast enlargement] may have side effects including loss of sensation, inability to breastfeed, scarring, and deformation."

Both procedures appear to have similar risks. Either way you can end up with an insensitive useless appendage that looks terrible.

There is also obviously the risk of death. There are quite a lot of people who have died during/after both types of surgery.
 
Just to chime in, and to reiterate: TheDeceased, you are so wrong as to be funny. I don't mean that in a mean way, it's just that it's very obvious in practice and in research how it works out. I've worked in the modeling and sex industries as well as plenty of "boring" industries, and men CLEARLY prefer big tits, fake or not, PERIOD. Women with bigger boobs get more promotions in the "boring" world (until they reach a ceiling where it starts to work against them, and this is well-researched and documented), and women with bigger boobs make WAY more money in the looks-based industries (and you don't need to think real hard to figure that one out, but yes, there's research on it too). When I was stripping, I would hear endlessly from guys how great my tits were and how they loved real ones and how fake ones were gross, but who made the most money and sold the most lapdances etc? The girls with the biggest boobs, even the ones with fugly disgusting faces. I was frequently told I was one of the best-looking girls around, but I still routinely lost out to chicks with fake tits. Guys SAY they like real boobs better, but actions speak louder than words. It's just a fact of life, lol.

If boobs count as genitalia, I suppose I like those better than my snizz. They're very nice and perky, good nipple-to-boob size ratio, good shape, etc. They're kind of far apart, which makes it hard for me to ever have cleavage (as I'm only a 34B), but it's not a crazy amount or anything. Once I have the money, I'm going to get silicone implants (not saline! eew!) to go up to a 34Cish size. Part of the reason I'm not entirely satisfied with my boob size is because I have HUGE hips and a big ass, and I feel it makes me look distorted to have smaller boobs. My ass is really big even when I'm really skinny, and my boobs look even more disproportionate then. So yeah, a boob job will fix that right up. :D I'll probably get it done after I have a kid/stop breastfeeding.
 
men CLEARLY prefer big tits, fake or not, PERIOD

I think a certain kind of man likes breast implants, but a lot of guys don't. Maybe neither of us are right and we just hang out with different sort of people.

When I was stripping, I would hear endlessly from guys how great my tits were and how they loved real ones and how fake ones were gross, but who made the most money and sold the most lapdances etc? The girls with the biggest boobs, even the ones with fugly disgusting faces. I was frequently told I was one of the best-looking girls around, but I still routinely lost out to chicks with fake tits. Guys SAY they like real boobs better, but actions speak louder than words. It's just a fact of life, lol.

Drunk guys telling strippers they like their tits isn't really the most credible source of information IMO. It's similar to the study someone posted about how men prefer photographs of large breasts, whether or no they are fake.

Women with bigger boobs get more promotions in the "boring" world (until they reach a ceiling where it starts to work against them, and this is well-researched and documented)

Again I'd say this is more due to the illusion and the sexist world of business. If a woman comes in for a job and she has huge tits, the man (more often than not it is a man hiring) subconsciously prefers the woman with the big tits over the woman with the small ones. When it gets down to taking clothes off and playing with them, the illusion disappears as it becomes apparent that they aren't real. Although you may be right that having big fake boobs may give you an edge up in terms of getting a job/promotion, that doesn't mean that men prefer it, full stop. Because they don't.

As I said we may just hang out with different people. I have never been to a strip club. It's never occurred to me as a thing to do. I don't know anyone who goes to strip clubs. Well maybe a couple of people, but I don't really hang out with them.

Obviously some men like boob jobs. I've just never met any of them.
 
In appearance based jobs, maybe. But one thing I noticed in regular office jobs is that women with big boobs were invariably limited to lower paying jobs, like clerks or secretaries, but the VPs, middle management, and salaried professionals were all much smaller chested. In an office with 200 people this rule held true.
 
Yeah look I just did a little search and I couldn't find anything that said women with breast implants/large boobs are more likely to succeed in business/ science/ medicine/ whatever. And the most successful women I can think of (outside the porn/entertainment industries) don't have breast implants, at least I'd be very surprised if they did.

Post a link to the research you mentioned rant'n'rave.
 
Rant, I couldn't agree with you more. It's definitely obvious that men prefer larger breasts, real or not. Why else do large-chested women make more money in the industries that are based on appearance? Obviously they (strippers, models looking for jobs, etc.) garner more money than women with smaller chests. There's an idea of what a "perfect" woman looks like and many women hold themselves to that societal standard which results in insecurities. Insecurities are, of course, the main reason women get implants.

This all goes back to society preferring larger breasts and it all started with men liking women with big breasts. You can even trace it as far back as men picking partners based on breast size because they thought it was a sign of fertility (we're talking tens of thousands of years ago and beyond, of course). It has been ingrained over hundreds of generations that larger breasts are more desirable so it's pretty obvious to me that this is the reason why they're preferred, even when they're fake.

Anyway, Rave, I think it's awesome that you're only going up to a C cup. So many women go larger and I have no idea why because they end up looking like the girls in the photos I posted a few replies ago. I think that the reason you want implants is perfectly understandable and unacceptable. What I don't get is when women go too far and end up with this ridiculously huge breasts that cause more problems than they're even worth. Can you imagine how a pair of F sized boobs would get in the way all of the time? I already can't sleep on my stomach and have to arrange my breasts in my clothing and such (the classic "stuff and tuck" move :P). Can you also imagine the back pain that would be caused?? And all of the saggage that will one day occur??

I just don't get it.

Anyway, men might not like boob jobs but they certainly love big breasts and would generally prefer larger breasts despite the way they feel. Men are incredibly visual creatures and I feel like many would rather have a partner/model/stripper/whatever with a big chest because they aren't going to have to touch them much of the time. They spend way more time looking at them so it's easy to think, "Eh, I might not like the way they feel but it's not like I feel them all the time. I sure do love the way they look though!"

So yeah, I've met plenty of guys who swear up and down that they don't like implants yet somehow they still glorify large breasts, even when they're fake. How do they glorify them? They pay more attention to women with them, hire more women who have them, pay women more who have, etc.
 
Yeah look I just did a little search and I couldn't find anything that said women with breast implants/large boobs are more likely to succeed in business/ science/ medicine/ whatever. And the most successful women I can think of (outside the porn/entertainment industries) don't have breast implants, at least I'd be very surprised if they did.

Post a link to the research you mentioned rant'n'rave.

Cornell study.
 
I think a certain kind of man likes breast implants, but a lot of guys don't. Maybe neither of us are right and we just hang out with different sort of people.
This isn't about you or me, this is about scientific study. Guys like big boobs. Just like they like a roughly 2:3 waist-to-hip ratio.
Drunk guys telling strippers they like their tits isn't really the most credible source of information IMO.
Wait, what? You're telling me that my first hand experience, and the directly related first hand experiences of dozens of my friends and coworkers isn't reliable? Literally hundreds upon hundreds of men have told me and my friends we were super hot and then spent their money on women with bigger tits. I don't know if it could possibly be simpler than that.

It's similar to the study someone posted about how men prefer photographs of large breasts, whether or no they are fake.
Yeah, there's a study, so I'm not sure what you're trying to disagree with here. Yes, real boobs FEEL nicer, but when it comes to attracting men, women usually don't let guys come up and touch their boobs to try 'em out. :D And to be serious for a moment, women wouldn't be paying (LOTS OF FUCKING) money to (FUCKING) mutilate themselves (let that sink in: paying to mutilate themselves) if there weren't a solid reason for it. Men really really really want big boobies, so women do insane shit to get them.

This goes right back to the topic at hand. Labiaplasty? Really? The moment I considered it, I actually castigated myself quite soundly. Any guy getting that up close and personal can go suck a fat one if he thinks he can tell me what my fuckin vag is supposed to look like. I actually have a valid non-cosmetic reason for wanting mine reduced as well, and I still think it's a weird thought. And for the record, something like 96% of the men at a recent major vaginal plastic surgery conference were men. I read an entire magazine expose on it and was actually shocked at how gender-bent the whole thing was. I wish I could find the article; it was chilling.

Again I'd say this is more due to the illusion and the sexist world of business. If a woman comes in for a job and she has huge tits, the man (more often than not it is a man hiring) subconsciously prefers the woman with the big tits over the woman with the small ones.
So, you disagree with yourself? lol
When it gets down to taking clothes off and playing with them, the illusion disappears as it becomes apparent that they aren't real.
Here's the key difference.
Although you may be right that having big fake boobs may give you an edge up in terms of getting a job/promotion, that doesn't mean that men prefer it, full stop. Because they don't.
Actually, it does mean exactly that, full stop.

As I said we may just hang out with different people. I have never been to a strip club. It's never occurred to me as a thing to do. I don't know anyone who goes to strip clubs. Well maybe a couple of people, but I don't really hang out with them.
Strip clubs don't have anything to do with it. Look at any mainstream pornographic material of any type. The Playboy cover and centerfold models are never A-cups.

Obviously some men like boob jobs. I've just never met any of them.
Then you, my friend, are an amazing statistical anomaly. Or your friends are lying bastards.=D I'm betting the truth is somewhere in the middle. :)
 
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Although this study is not about breasts it's pretty much the same thing as it shows that thinner people garner higher salaries. Breasts and weight are both physical attributes and both encourage certain preconceived opinions. With breasts, many believe that bigger is better (both men and women) and with weight people obviously prefer those who are in shape. This preference even extends all the way to the hiring process, unfortunately.

Of course something like this shouldn't be a factor but it is =/
 
Did you read that study?

It's about waitresses!

By the way, you posted your last post 4 times.

Last time I checked waiting was a job for many people. It's a source of income for thousands and therefore entirely relevant to the point at hand.

And you don't have to get dry here. I know I'm expounding on the same point. You are too. If I counted the number of times you insisted men prefer real breasts it would rival the number of times I've posted about large breasts being preferred, even when they're fake. It's an ongoing debate and as such certain points will be included multiple times.
 
That's way too much to read. I skimmed it. No-one provided any studies except for the waitresses one which doesn't surprise me anymore than strippers or secretaries. Don't want to get into a big discussion about it. But, quickly, you guys (or one of you or someone anyway) said that having big boobs makes women more successful. I disagree. There are some positions in which men objectify women but most positions (the business world, medicine, law, etc) don't require surgically enhanced body parts in order to succeed and I've never read anything that stated otherwise.

If you'd like to offer a study that isn't specific to low echelon positions such as a waitress/ secretary/ stripper, then I'll continue the discussion. Otherwise I guess we have different general definitions of success - and maybe we should leave it at that.

I really don't want to get into any more arguments on blue light anymore. Or anywhere. I didn't mean to offend you guys. If you want breast implants then get them. Enjoy them. Bounce them up and down. I really don't care.

(User Name Here: that study is not relevant to the discussion so clearly you're struggling to find the research that a couple of people have stated exists?)

It's an ongoing debate and as such certain points will be included multiple times

I'm very fucking repetitive I've realized. I really hammer shit in. That's not what I mean. His post was sent four times. The exact same post. I've been having the same problem with this site recently. Often I have to delete replica posts.
 
Okay I read it. People read a lot of my long rants, so I shouldn't skim shit. One more thing to add. This really took my eye:

And to be serious for a moment, women wouldn't be paying (LOTS OF FUCKING) money to (FUCKING) mutilate themselves (let that sink in: paying to mutilate themselves) if there weren't a solid reason for it. Men really really really want big boobies, so women do insane shit to get them.

I don't agree with the logic first of all. Secondly I'm sure you're beautiful. There are men out there that DON'T WANT YOU TO (FUCKING) MUTILATE YOURSELVES. Believe it or not. It sucks that the world is arranged in such a way that women feel such an obligation to do this for men. You are beautiful without the breast implant. People paid money for you to take your clothes off. You don't need surgery. You may not have been the most popular stripper in the club, but that doesn't mean you need to MUTILATE yourself (your words) just to please men. Find a man who loves you for who you are and who doesn't expect you to undergo surgery to please him.

I say this purely out of love. There's no aggression in my words. I'm sure there are millions of men who would be head over heels to have you just as you are.

<3
 
It's interesting that you asked us to provide a study that shows that women with larger breasts make more money but now that I have, you are insisting that the jobs the study cited don't really count because they're "low echelon positions." A job is a job is a job. You make money for working, and for women you can make even more money when you have big breasts. If you still contest this after reading a study from Cornell (one of the best universities, by the way) then I don't know what to say. I would think that Rant's personal, firsthand experience coupled with at least one study proving this point would be enough to show that women have more opportunities if they have larger breasts.
 
I really don't want to get into any more arguments on blue light anymore. Or anywhere. I didn't mean to offend you guys. If you want breast implants then get them. Enjoy them. Bounce them up and down. I really don't care.

I'm very fucking repetitive I've realized. I really hammer shit in. That's not what I mean. His post was sent four times. The exact same post. I've been having the same problem with this site recently. Often I have to delete replica posts.

I haven't really seen any outright aggression in this thread so I don't think anyone is flat out arguing here. It's more of a debate if anything and there's nothing wrong with that. I know I'm not irked at all because you have a differing opinion. In fact, I appreciate a good debate as long as the other person is respectable and backs themselves up.

As far as the extra posts go, I'm going to delete the extra ones after this. It's just a kink in the system that happens sometimes. There have also been updates to the server recently which has resulted in a very minimal period of down time on certain occasions. Sorry for that but it should be worked out by now (or in the very near future).
 
Although this poll is closed, and it appears the thread has turned into a mod vs. thedeceased battle, I still wanted to comment in here. Reading this thread made me feel a LOT better about my vagina. I'm also very worried about the lips. I think mine are ugly, and I'm also VERY hairy. I feel like shaving it all off looks very weird, but leaving some does too. Overall, I don't like my vagina. It's also really tight, and I'm far from a virgin --- it's an anatomy thing but vaginal sex is really uncomfortable most of the time. Honestly, the "small dick" men are my preference, and while I can say "size doesn't matter" all I want, men with very large dicks and I did not have a good time in the bedroom --- it wasn't good for either party. So I agree that things do have to match up, which I noticed several others agree with as well.

Since breasts seem to be mentioned all over the place (I read through the entire thread, skimmed some of the more off topic pages for just answers to the OP's question) I have extremely large breasts although I'm pretty small. In my early 20s, gravity is winning and they sag big time. Also, I pretty much swear by minimizer bras, because I'm intelligent and sometimes people just can't see past the boobies. The argument above discusses how big boobs should help me out, but I feel like they hinder me. The idea of reduction has been brought up several times and although I have back problems, I don't really want any plastic surgery, ever. I don't judge people who can afford and desire to alter their bodies, but my personal decision is one of not having any surgery that isn't required due to how high the risks are.

So, about my lady parts over all? I'm extremely uncomfortable with them, my big-lipped yet very shallow/narrow vagina I can never seem to even groom to make it pretty, as well as my ginormous/I wish they were smaller boobies. Overall, I do like my body and my current weight, and I can get past the boob thing, but the vagina thing really bothers me...and knowing I'm not the only person out there very insecure about my down south equipment makes me honestly feel a bit better about it.
 
It's interesting that you asked us to provide a study that shows that women with larger breasts make more money but now that I have, you are insisting that the jobs the study cited don't really count because they're "low echelon positions." A job is a job is a job. You make money for working, and for women you can make even more money when you have big breasts. If you still contest this after reading a study from Cornell (one of the best universities, by the way) then I don't know what to say. I would think that Rant's personal, firsthand experience coupled with at least one study proving this point would be enough to show that women have more opportunities if they have larger breasts.

The quality of the university is irrelevant. The study was aimed at a particular profession. As I already admitted, there are certain professions in which it aides tips/promotions/etc. But that proves nothing generally. Nor does her first hand experience as a stripper.

Yes, User Name Here (love the user name by the way, it's fucking awesome :)) a job is a job. I respect waitresses and strippers and lawyers alike. Women are women. People are people. But that doesn't mean if you prove something about one job, like for example that it is beneficial if you work in pornography to be bisexual (which it is), that that applies to the rest of the work force.

The study about waitresses means nothing because it doesn't prove a general statement about women it proves a general statement about waitresses.

(The reason I was paranoid about people misinterpreting this as a flame war or whatever is because people tend to be a bit sensitive on this site sometimes, or me a bit insensitive. Either way I find it very difficult to gauge how I'm coming across. I'm trying to be a bit more considerate.)
 
Not particularly satisfied with my dick, but it's nothing to kill myself over or anything like that. 8)

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I have a baby dick. There. I said it. It's just a tad over 5" when fully erect, and it isn't very thick. I've been turned down by many women due to this. I've been dumped because of this. There have been several occasions where everything is going well, I go down on the girl, do foreplay, etc. only to have the situation spiral downward once my pants come off (ex. they see it, laugh, and start putting their clothes back on, etc. not a pleasant experience for sure.) Due to this, I've only had actual penetrative sex twice in my entire life, and one of the times was not particularly enjoyable because she said she couldn't cum because I wasn't big enough. My endurance isn't particularly great either - I lasted about 6 and 7 minutes respectively. Been dry for about a year now, and honestly at this point I've pretty much given up trying to hook up with women (I'm in college, so there's a lot of that going on). I don't think it's really a confidence thing because I am a fairly confident guy. I can close the deal and get them into my room and their clothes off. The problems start once they see my cawk.

Granted, this does suck, but interestingly enough it doesn't really depress me all that much. Perhaps the most disappointing thing about my size is the fact that it usually gets in the way of me pursuing relationships with girls I'm genuinely interested in. Sure, you can say that if they were truly awesome women that this wouldn't be a dealbreaker, but sometimes even great girls will typically choose a guy with a big dick over a guy with a small one, with all other things being equal or similar. Again, this isn't something I'm gonna kill myself over or anything like that. I'm sure I can still lead a pretty enjoyable life by focusing my energies elsewhere. I just wish I had been born with a slightly bigger dick.

I feel for you man, I have a small cock.... But Ive never been laughed at because of it (at least not to my face). It definately stops me having casual sex due to embarrassment though.

Ive never had complaints from any female Ive been in a relationship with, Im currently with a girl 7 years older than me (Im 23). Shes got 3 kids too (although I dont actually know how much difference that makes below)..
For guys with small cocks, it sucks, but you can pleasure women in more ways than one! And theres a BIG difference between having sex, and making love

Its not the wand, but the magician behind it ;)

No, Im not happy with my genitals, but they do the job
 
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