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are you happy with your genitals?? HONESTLY

Are you happy with your genitals?

  • Yes

    Votes: 189 70.8%

  • No

    Votes: 26 9.7%

  • I am undecided

    Votes: 23 8.6%

  • I would like to have my genitals altered in some way

    Votes: 29 10.9%
  • Total voters
    267
  • Poll closed .
I am who I am, so I am happy with myself, but I would change a few things if I could. The thing that really kind of bothers me is the fact that I am circumsized. I wish I hadn't been, and if I ever had kids would never have them circumsized. I would also probably want to be a little larger. Other than that they are pretty okay with me.
 
I was until a girl who I used to go out with and was also my best mate at one stage in my life until I find out she was a sl@g and then I stopped hanging about with her/giving her attention/being as nice to her.

Then she sent me a text message to be sung by the theme of 'its raining men' and it said you promised eight in fact you gave me four, oh i will survive.... basically saying my cock was 4inches.

This was bad enough until another ex bragged to the same girl about how I had a small penis and wouldnt pleasure my current girlfriend at the time.

Honestly since that I feel like I am a failure to mankind and have thought about suicide on a daily basis knowing I might never pleasure a girl even though I always thought I was pretty good in bed and my ex said I was good in bed.

But Ive come to the conclusion 'most' girls all lie and maybe she was saying I was good in bed coz I treated her really nice. But that same girl ended up texting me saying I onky had a 4 inch cock.

GIRLS FOR YOU= HEADFCUKS
 
My GF got a set of dilators because I couldn't fit in on the first try. No matter how hard I tried and how much pain she was willing to endure. My dick was just slightly longer than the largest dilator and a little thicker, but not quite as round.
That was a good moment for me. yes I'm happy with their physical dimensions, but I'm currently not getting any and that's quite unhappy. Probably why I'm drinking Steel Reserve at 6 in the morning.
 
bighooter said:
I was until a girl who I used to go out with and was also my best mate at one stage in my life until I find out she was a sl@g and then I stopped hanging about with her/giving her attention/being as nice to her.

Then she sent me a text message to be sung by the theme of 'its raining men' and it said you promised eight in fact you gave me four, oh i will survive.... basically saying my cock was 4inches.

This was bad enough until another ex bragged to the same girl about how I had a small penis and wouldnt pleasure my current girlfriend at the time.

Honestly since that I feel like I am a failure to mankind and have thought about suicide on a daily basis knowing I might never pleasure a girl even though I always thought I was pretty good in bed and my ex said I was good in bed.

But Ive come to the conclusion 'most' girls all lie and maybe she was saying I was good in bed coz I treated her really nice. But that same girl ended up texting me saying I onky had a 4 inch cock.

GIRLS FOR YOU= HEADFCUKS
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is your penis 4"?
 
I am definitely a grower. I was told by 2 women, "that thing sure gets big" not that its huge or anything but the fact that im a grower is what they are commenting about. I also gain a good amount of girth compared to the flaccid state.

In a perfect world us guys would all have 8 inch cocks. By the way, my best friend is 13 inches hard from what his gf has told me, like I wanted to hear that but what I did like hearing from her is, "he is the worst lover I ever been with, he just lays there & doesnt know how to use it" her own words, haha!

By the way, give it 10 years & you guys will be able to get the cock you've always wanted threw surgery with little to no complications like the women with their breast augmentations now adays.

I am currently in a relationship & my gf is petite which is awesome, because she can only take so much, again, not that I am huge or anything but never had any complaints. Then again, girls tend to keep things bottled up until the break up, haha!
 
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1ll0gic said:
eh, i wish my 5.5 inch dick was at least 6.5, but its not a big deal. what i DO wish though is that my penis didnt curve to the left. the curve is more prominent when its flacid. im hella self-conscious, like i'd feel uncomfortable walking around naked in front of a girl
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Take some opiates, you will feel comfy walking around naked with your boner about to go in her mouth.
 
K'd-OUT-in-AZ said:
I don't know about unhappy, well yeah sure maybe unhappy. I'm 5.5in and that's small in my opinion.

But on the other hand, I get off on how small I am. I like to jerk off to porn where some guy with a big 10 inch cock fucks the shit out of some girl. Because I'll never be able to do that. I want to watch my girlfriend fuck some big black guy and watch. She won't do that.
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LMAO......sometimes I will watch some black guy banging a petite white girl on redtube & wonder, is she hurting at all? Then again, shes a porn star so her pussy is prolly loose.
 
greed said:
is your penis 4"?
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sadly yes, life is a bitch
how can you be a man when your manhood is a disgrace to nature?

I feel like i will never find love because im not into men and most chicks never speak to me again after a night of love making

Im so depressed I feel like my brain is rotting and millions of connections in the synapses are dying on a daily basis because im so depressed.
 
bighooter said:
sadly yes, life is a bitch
how can you be a man when your manhood is a disgrace to nature?

I feel like i will never find love because im not into men and most chicks never speak to me again after a night of love making

Im so depressed I feel like my brain is rotting and millions of connections in the synapses are dying on a daily basis because im so depressed.
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Your being way too harsh on yourself and only thinking about the negatives! The size of your dick should not reflect on how you can fulfil a woman. IF you take the time to understand what the woman your with enjoys (a lot of women orgasm quicker through clitoral stimulation [tounge/fingers etc] than penetration) then you will feel a lot better about yourself.
 
bighooter said:
sadly yes, life is a bitch
how can you be a man when your manhood is a disgrace to nature?

I feel like i will never find love because im not into men and most chicks never speak to me again after a night of love making

Im so depressed I feel like my brain is rotting and millions of connections in the synapses are dying on a daily basis because im so depressed.
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Have you looked into penile stretching devices & other excercises? Forget about surgeries for now, they are not safe but stretching devices have been proven to lengthen the penis. If anyone is wondering how I know, ive used one for 1 year & gained 1 inch to my length using it approximately 4 hours a day. You can gain up to 3 inches but it will take several years.

Time is all you need & im sure your impatient but good things come to those who wait. Im sure to get several laughs on this post but its true. Also, how old are you if I may ask? Also, depression is the enemy & can cause so many physical & emotional problems.

I use to be self conscious about my penis as well but I did something about it, gained an inch & it helped my self esteem alot.
 
Bearlove said:
Your being way too harsh on yourself and only thinking about the negatives! The size of your dick should not reflect on how you can fulfil a woman. IF you take the time to understand what the woman your with enjoys (a lot of women orgasm quicker through clitoral stimulation [tounge/fingers etc] than penetration) then you will feel a lot better about yourself.
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A guys confidence the majority of the time starts with his cock. When a guy walks into a room confident looking, its usually because he feels good with how he looks.
 
TheLostBoys said:
Have you looked into penile stretching devices & other excercises? Forget about surgeries for now, they are not safe but stretching devices have been proven to lengthen the penis. If anyone is wondering how I know, ive used one for 1 year & gained 1 inch to my length using it approximately 4 hours a day. You can gain up to 3 inches but it will take several years.

Time is all you need & im sure your impatient but good things come to those who wait. Im sure to get several laughs on this post but its true. Also, how old are you if I may ask? Also, depression is the enemy & can cause so many physical & emotional problems.

I use to be self conscious about my penis as well but I did something about it, gained an inch & it helped my self esteem alot.
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im 24,

I thought the penis stretching excercises did more harm than good though? I heard you can increase length but at the cost of erectile disfunction and weaker erections?
 
bighooter said:
im 24,

I thought the penis stretching excercises did more harm than good though? I heard you can increase length but at the cost of erectile disfunction and weaker erections?
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Check your email, I sent you some good information. Stay positive bro!
 
TheLostBoys said:
A guys confidence the majority of the time starts with his cock. When a guy walks into a room confident looking, its usually because he feels good with how he looks.
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If a guy walks into a room dressed then his cock size means nothing!

If you want to walk into a room feeling confident you do so feeling good about who you are, not just the way you look.

Yes a lot of people are quick to judge a book by its cover - but Im sure more people take time reading whats between the covers than looking at the pretty picture on the front.

Confidence comes from within - regardless of body shape, size etc.

I would like to bet that a confident guy with a 1inch cock would get more girls/guys than a unconfident guy with a 10" cock.
 
So, some of you may recall that 6 months ago I posted this:
n3ophy7e said:
Well, here goes:
I am extremely unhappy with my lady bits. In fact, I am going to have labioplasty very soon. I just need to check that my insurance covers it and that I can have the time off work to get it done and for a few days' recovery. Before anyone gets the wrong idea, it is NOT for aesthetic purposes. I am in a stable long-term relationship and I have no-one to impress by having "prettier" parts. It is for my physical comfort and borderline medical reasons.
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I finally built up the courage to go through with seeing a specialist. I saw my cosmetic surgeon today for the first consultation, he was great and I feel very confident in him that he can fix my problem.
I then rang my private health fund to check if they will cover the procedure and they WILL!!!! It will be fully covered!! I am seriously so over-the-moon!! This is going to be life-changing for me.

If all goes to plan I will be having the procedure within the next 2 months.

I am SO excited I could cry!!
 
N3o that's brilliant news, and for it to be fully covered is so good! Major kudos to you for taking the step to see your specialist too! I'm so very happy for you :D
 
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