are you happy with your genitals?? HONESTLY

[EbowTheLetter]

Dude, what's is your issue?

 

[badandwicked]

This was my issue.

I gave a small dick man 3 months until I dumped him. I need to FEEL your penis inside me during coitus. This guy almost had it all except for a dick.

But I'm over it now.*

 

[EbowTheLetter]

If you're over it, you should probably be a gentleman and delete your post, jackass.

 

[badandwicked]

If you're over it, you should probably be a gentleman and delete your post, jackass.

And I think you should probably mount your charger with its flowing mane, scoop PI up on to the saddle in front of you, and gallop off into the sunset. Careful not to get her wimple stuck in your vagina.

 

[EbowTheLetter]

So what you're saying is your small penis hasn't satisfied anyone you've been with so you are taking it out on the internet. Got it, guy.

 

[Perpetual Indulgence]

I should have been more delicate in my response for a SLR thread.
I am friends with wee dick man 7 years later.

badandwicked, you seem to have forgotten how GREAT I am

 

[Fawkes]

and with that, i think it would be wise to leave this alone, boys.

 

[badandwicked]

So what you're saying is your small penis hasn't satisfied anyone you've been with so you are taking it out on the internet. Got it, guy.

lololol

I should have been more delicate in my response for a SLR thread.
I am friends with wee dick man 7 years later.

badandwicked, you seem to have forgotten how GREAT I am

PI you're a great diplomat. You know how to do the internets

 

[Perpetual Indulgence]

*shrugs* what can I say?

 

[RedRum OG]

i was always very insecure about my dick till about 16 when i started getting it wet. all i saw as for other dicks - at least while hard- was what was in porn. so obviously that'll make a growing teen pretty uneasy.

it has always been average size but the last girl i was with had only been with a guy who was very small, so she keeps telling me im huge. good confidence boost

if i could change one thing, i would exchange some girth for length, cuz im not real long but all condoms strangle me and often dont even go down to the base without rolling back up...

 

[holyguacamole]

I am not quite happy with my lower lady parts despite having a level of confidence that is unaffected by mostly anything. I've learned to stop caring what people think for the most part.

But back to the topic....I think watching porn has also given me the feeling that since I am not 'traditional' looking I am therefore ugly. But I know that a person who wants to fuck me for the good reasons won't really care what it looks like down there, just how it feels (and tastes?).

I am in my early 20s and haven't been truly 100% open and uninhibited with a guy before. I just haven't reached the point of losing any tiny touch of insecurity when I'm fully exposed. Sucks. But some fiber of me just won't. let. go.

It shall come someday, I hope

 

[CHiLD-0F-THE-BEAT]

I'm coming into this thread quite late in the piece, but I would love to contribute to the subject.
As a side note, I can't believe there was drama in a thread discussing genital satisfaction? Jeez. 8)

No. And the shame of it is that I never felt that way until I watched porn.

You and me both. I didn't really see other vaginas growing up, and really the first ones I really looked at were in pornographic images or films. I've been told that they are not the 'norm' and that they don't allow lips to show, but it still makes me feel uncomfortable about being so different.

In fact, I am going to have labioplasty very soon.

Hope this works out for you babe!

I would most definitely love to have a labiaplasty. I don't like the way it looks. It's ugly.

I'm reticent to have the surgery as I'm petrified it will alter my sensitivities.

Mine kinda stick out too, not to a point where it is uncomfortable or "abnormal" (for lack of better word), but definitely not tucked up in there like porn stars.

Just like me.

Here's yet another girl whose inner labia hangs past the outer labia. And I HATE it! Oh well. That's what I was cursed with. My boyfriend says he likes it. I don't know if he is just being nice or if thhats true but I can't imagine it being a turnon for anyone. Blech.

Mine says the same, but like you, I can't see how it could possibly be attractive to anyone. Oh well, like PI I tend to avoid thinking about it and concentrate on him or how good I feel when we're together.

 

[Sentience]

Lips probably wouldnt bother me much, if at all.....if anything, I would imagine it would be advantageous for sensation.

I dont really spend a lot of time looking at vaginas. I dont like totally shaved vaginas to begin with, and I look at the area around it more than the vagina itself....tummy, legs, ass....If you are fit you are going to be attractive.

 

[Bomboclat]

I am completely comfortable with my shlingidy-shlong and my hoo-ha's

 

[VelBunny]

I'm pretty darn secure with my genitals, which I guess is a bit odd considering I'm MtF and have significant anxiety about people seeing my chest at this point in my transition. Oh well, one less thing to be anxious and self-conscious about I guess. I'll take it as a win.

 

[n3ophy7e]

Hope this works out for you babe!

Thank you darling!

 

[silentangst]

Mine says the same, but like you, I can't see how it could possibly be attractive to anyone. Oh well, like PI I tend to avoid thinking about it and concentrate on him or how good I feel when we're together.

I love the longer inner lips. I love the way they look during sex, as if they're gripping my penis etc, and for other reasons too. I'm sure that's the reason guys who like them, do.

 

[Monkeybizness]

flame me again if you may but I feel as if I have to say this.

Wtf is wrong with the bl girls being so damn insecure about having big lips. IT IS NORMAL! I never even knew girls stressed this so much. Its sad! (Unless for medical needs) . I seem to be the only chick on here with a big vj(I mean fat!) that is not embarrassed, ashamed, worried. Once again it is more than normal to have long lips. And any Guy that says otherwise is not worth your time . I doubt guys even notice. Its nothing to Be ashamed of.

 

[GenericMind]

I like Vaginas.

...

 

[MynameisnotDeja]

i'm quoting you but this response is to greed as well...

why must every woman in the whole wide world like the size of your dick no matter how small or big or average it may be? the majority of women say size doesn't matter (and ime, it generally tends to matter more to men than women), but you focus on the one person who says it does.

rejecting a woman because she doesn't perform sexually to your standards (something that could quite possibly be fixed with a little communication) is much more shallow than dumping a guy that is physically incapable of satisfying a woman (A woman; not to be confused with every woman) in bed.

Yes... we are not required to like every dick. I don't think it's shallow to have expectations and know what one is looking for. Sex is important, and it isn't so much a big vs small thing but obviously it has to be a right fit. If she can't even feel his dick in her, it's probably not a right fit and that doesn't make her any more shallow than if she had too small a pussy to take in an 11 inch cock. Two people who don't fit together, don't work, bottom line...

A man with a smaller penis however, is reliant on their partner looking beyond their penis size, and if everyone took the view 'dump 'em if their penis is small' would never get the opportunity to fulfill their potential as a loving & capable partner. They are totally victims of 'shallowness' and are powerless to do anything about it.

I don't get what you're saying... that some small percentage of women out there must sacrifice their own desire for good sex that is satisfying to them so the small dicked guys won't be left out? lol.. I believe there is someone for everyone, and I'm sure there are plenty of tiny-vagina'd girls out there who smaller guys can work with.. but I don't think it is fair to call any girl who requires a slightly bigger guy in order to receive sexual satisfaction, "shallow". It isn't a looks thing, it's a physical thing. Some women need to be "filled up" to get pleasure, to have orgasms.

And btw I say "small percentage" because in my experience most guys are an average, satisfying size, maybe not huge, but nice. I've seen enough guys of different colors, ages, builds, etc to feel like I've received a good sample of all that is out there and I've only come across a few unfortunate souls who were small. It is sad for them, but a couple of the ones I'm thinking of got married and seem really happy so there really is someone for everyone.

I am in my early 20s and haven't been truly 100% open and uninhibited with a guy before. I just haven't reached the point of losing any tiny touch of insecurity when I'm fully exposed. Sucks. But some fiber of me just won't. let. go.

It shall come someday, I hope

Aw .. just dive right in! I know it's hard but as soon as you get naked for him and he sees how beautiful and sexy you are those insecurities will vanish.

You and me both. I didn't really see other vaginas growing up, and really the first ones I really looked at were in pornographic images or films. I've been told that they are not the 'norm' and that they don't allow lips to show, but it still makes me feel uncomfortable about being so different

It is strange how we generally (as younger girls) have no frame of reference. Same with boobs. You should have seen me as a young girl when my boobs were growing. I had no idea how they were supposed to grow, or look while they were growing, so when little lumps started to form in there I spent the next 6 months crying my little 12-year old ass to sleep every night thinking I was dying of cancer. No one ever told me, that is just how boobs grow! I thought they were tumors.

Mine kinda stick out too, not to a point where it is uncomfortable or "abnormal" (for lack of better word), but definitely not tucked up in there like porn stars.

I have the porn star variety. I wonder if anyone has ever studied different vaginas and compared it to other factors, such as race. Do certain races have bigger labias? Or is it all random. I think they are all beautiful.

Wtf is wrong with the bl girls being so damn insecure about having big lips. IT IS NORMAL! I never even knew girls stressed this so much. Its sad! (Unless for medical needs) . I seem to be the only chick on here with a big vj that is not embarrassed, ashamed, worried. Once again it is more than normal to have long lips. And any Guy that says otherwise is not worth your time . I doubt guys even notice. Its nothing to Be ashamed of.

Based on the responses here, it not only is normal but it apparently is the most common...