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The singles thread v 'Your VD really scares me'

Ugh, I just read the article. Women in their 30swho don't want to have children and get married are "teenagers" or "TWITS"? How insulting and stupid. There's nothing immature about choosing not to marry or have children.
 
vanth said:
Ugh, I just read the article. Women in their 30swho don't want to have children and get married are "teenagers" or "TWITS"? How insulting and stupid. There's nothing immature about choosing not to marry or have children.
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It's probably more mature than getting married and having kids at 18.
 
I like being single.

Possibilities, plus can go to the gym 5 times a week, plus get plastered in any spare time I have. Do not want to have to compromise.
 
I'm rather happy being single and am not searching. I went on a few dates (one from my past and one new one) and the dates were fine and all but i just came toi this analogy...

That i've been fishing and catching cod and eating cos i'm hungry but i don't really like cod so fishing season is over till the salmon come along! :P

I deserve only the best - just call me miss john west. I've had enough cod in my life and really don't need it to fill in the gaps. Cos really there are no gaps. I have a beautiful child. A great job that i love and fab people that i work with, a pretty active social life, doing some classes for personal self development and an absolutely amazing bunch of friends who are a perfect reflectyion of who i am... i'm pretty damn happy with my life hey.

Salmon swim upstream and personally i'm worth the damn travel. If i sound ego so be it. I'm just finally happy with me and life :)
 
Today I got stood up for a date. Fuck. Thankfully I chose not to drive two hours in hope.

Younger women seem to have an awful habit of jerking me around. Now I remember why I prefer them older.
 
Salute Capt'n

UnSquare said:
So I'm single for the longest Joel't
I have been
in about six years,
which is great,
caus I gotta work on my'delf.

But it be 2 months+ without the sexytime,
&
I'm confin'd to my house so I can' go Hunter/Gatherin'.

I haven't been outta this sorta contact
fo' such an extended period,
in,
like,
well,
since I was 16 or sum'tink.

I have a high libido even when
smother'd in benzo's
&
alcohol,
but this is just insane...

...fuckin'fapfestpalms to hairy to hide blindman.

Anyone do house calls???

GRRRR
UnDerstrain
Christo_pull_hair.gif


An' don' tell me
it's 'character buildin',
I've already had dat shit
spun at me...​
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Blah, I really should not read this thread. I feel like an idiot. I hardly ever post in this forum and when I do, its to stupidly declare that I am in love. Well, I think I really was at the time but I cant quite remember... :\

There is nothing wrong with being single. In fact, I think there is something wrong with being constantly in a relationship with no nsingle time in between, I dont think people who havent had time to fend for themselves alone develop a sense of independence. But once youve been single a while its hard to let anyone in, Im very set in my ways and dont see that changing.

People are weird. You get guys who are perpetually single and looking for a girl, never having much luck until one day some girl takes up with him,, then his life is complete. You get guys who are total man whores flitting from chick to chick without a care in the world- and running a mile as soon as a girl says the "L" word. :\

Having recently very very much settled into satisfying singledom (satisfying as in definately not lonely) I ecided that what I had going with my small group of friends and cute housemate was fine. I have good company every day, no unrealistic expectations to fulfill, no fear that Ill just be abandoned again as my flatmate is just that.....Well, he was slightly more than that in the past, but my circumstances changed! :D


I drunk texted a very lovely young man who I went out with for a while last year. Lo and behold, we have clicked again and have had some very enjoyable time together. Im not saying we are together, but its headed in that direction.

But what about my precious singledom? I just started enjoying it! I mean. I dont want to be a bitch or anything unsquare, but theres no way in hell I would ever let myself be dumped the way I was ever again. Not that it matters, water under the bridge and all that. :|

I dont want to just be with someone just to have a partner, I would like to be with someone who is the partner for me. And this man and I have had huge problems in the past, but it doesnt seem like those problems exist now.

Im enjoying my Brisbane life, finally after a couple upheavals I am settled and am quite sure no matter what happens Ill be perfectly fine with my friends, pet lorikeet (Who fucking rules) and career. Next year Im buying my own place again and I remain drug free.

Pretty good eh?
 
I will probably be here soon and it does not terrify me, i actually am quiet comfortable to be single. I need to grow and i am not in my relationship. But while i want to be single and find my direction and independence again, i love my partner so much i don't know how to end it. What i really want is to be able to grow with him. Call me weak, enough people have but who actually finds ending a relationship easy? I love him but he is a drug addict and...... i don't know what else to say. I guess i hope someone can maybe empathise?
 
zephyr said:
Blah, I really should not read this thread. I feel like an idiot. I hardly ever post in this forum and when I do, its to stupidly declare that I am in love. Well, I think I really was at the time but I cant quite remember... :\

There is nothing wrong with being single. In fact, I think there is something wrong with being constantly in a relationship with no nsingle time in between, I dont think people who havent had time to fend for themselves alone develop a sense of independence. But once youve been single a while its hard to let anyone in, Im very set in my ways and dont see that changing.

People are weird. You get guys who are perpetually single and looking for a girl, never having much luck until one day some girl takes up with him,, then his life is complete. You get guys who are total man whores flitting from chick to chick without a care in the world- and running a mile as soon as a girl says the "L" word. :\

Having recently very very much settled into satisfying singledom (satisfying as in definately not lonely) I ecided that what I had going with my small group of friends and cute housemate was fine. I have good company every day, no unrealistic expectations to fulfill, no fear that Ill just be abandoned again as my flatmate is just that.....Well, he was slightly more than that in the past, but my circumstances changed! :D


I drunk texted a very lovely young man who I went out with for a while last year. Lo and behold, we have clicked again and have had some very enjoyable time together. Im not saying we are together, but its headed in that direction.

But what about my precious singledom? I just started enjoying it! I mean. I dont want to be a bitch or anything unsquare, but theres no way in hell I would ever let myself be dumped the way I was ever again. Not that it matters, water under the bridge and all that. :|

I dont want to just be with someone just to have a partner, I would like to be with someone who is the partner for me. And this man and I have had huge problems in the past, but it doesnt seem like those problems exist now.

Im enjoying my Brisbane life, finally after a couple upheavals I am settled and am quite sure no matter what happens Ill be perfectly fine with my friends, pet lorikeet (Who fucking rules) and career. Next year Im buying my own place again and I remain drug free.

Pretty good eh?
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Gosh i have really missed a lot in my time away, Zeph i don't know what happened with you and unsquare but the fact you are pretty good (considering, break ups are always hard/ and are remaining drug free and have goals is so good! Happy to hear it. From my bluelight perseption uns is a great fucking guy but you know what, sometimes the greatest matches do not work. I speak from experience... And i learn from my own, friends and even BL experience and i feel the same as you. I am kinda actually shocked that you guys didn't work out but from my recent experience you have to keep an open mined about relationships, if you are too rule based it will kill any happiness there is to share.. I hope that makes sense and im not just going off in my own rant.. I guess what im trying to say is a love shared is a bond never lossed
 
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Jez "Have you tried saying I love you?"

Mark "Are you kidding, that's like firing first in a duel. Miss; and you're fucked"

:)
 
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